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Question Posted Saturday November 12 2005, 4:47 pm

well i started writing poems and songs about sucide and dieing and cutting and popping pills! im sucidal?? PLZ HELP!!
(( and plz dont tell me to go see a counslar or therpist because my family doesnt know and i dont want them to find out))


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hyperhottiegirl answered Sunday November 13 2005, 6:20 pm:
just think of all the good things in like the positive things really dont be sucidal you have a whole amazing life ahead of you somethings might get tough but you get over them and move on dont let your life slip out of your fingers treasure it for all its worth

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fabulous11 answered Sunday November 13 2005, 5:26 pm:
I dont think that your exactally suicidal yet, but you might be getting there. You just need to stop thinking like that and stop writing peoms about it and if you start to then just try to stop yourself. If you really start becomeing very suicidal then you do need to see a theripist cause it could get serious.

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ankeagle14 answered Sunday November 13 2005, 11:19 am:
well, this can get complicated, but if you have any thoughts about it, or you have been verry depressed lately, yah maybe. umm..if you think you are then talk to someone, anyone, your bf/gf, anyone. and if you WANT a caunsular, you can go to the one in school, and for the first few times, i dont think they are required to tell your parents. if you need more help, email me because there are alot of symptoms and stuff. good luck!
ANK

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isntshelovely<3 answered Sunday November 13 2005, 10:15 am:
Don't write anymore poems or songs.....

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luckybutt32 answered Sunday November 13 2005, 12:34 am:
pray about it and ask god to guide your heart

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xoObriianax3 answered Saturday November 12 2005, 11:46 pm:
you dont have to qo see a therapist or somethin, but there are these anonymous sucide hotline thinqs i saw in a maqazine. that may help you fiqure out what's wronq.

-_- briana

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SilentTears answered Saturday November 12 2005, 7:09 pm:
you arn't suicidal unless your actualy doing these things,now if you are i would advice you let a family member know to help.but if you don't do these then your fine and dont need a councler.

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cjAdvice answered Saturday November 12 2005, 6:54 pm:
nah, your not suicidle, unless you really do feel this way.. you dont have to see a counciler. you can talk to friends, or you can talk to me! :) hope this helps you!

cjAdvice aka:Christine J, you can find my e-mail on my web page, just look up (on advicenators) cjAdvice

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gasboOx answered Saturday November 12 2005, 6:39 pm:
you need help. that could lead to serious problems. tell your mom sit her down and let her see what you right. it will be hard but she can help you. dont let her pretend it is not happining. i no the situation you are in. my friend started to do the same thing and she wouldnt take my advice to tell her mom or dad. she is dead now. so please dont let it go anyfather tell your mom and she can help.

hope i helped.

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swimndork answered Saturday November 12 2005, 6:25 pm:
alright, well i know telling you to go see someone is the worse thing someone can say to you because it annoyed the shit out of me when i was like suicidal. i was and still am a bit depressed..but think about it...what about the people who LOVE you? your best friends and stuff..if you ever actually killed yourself..what would happen to the ones you loved? theyd be so sad..some of them would be so messed up. and remember suicide is a HUGE sin, if you commit suicide..supposedly you will end up in hell, which is even worse than this world. it will wear off, like one of the people said..once you hit rock bottom, you cant go anywhere but up. just dont talk to the people annoying you as much, and if people are talking about you...who the hell cares? its probably because they have no life. dont write poetry, dont write songs, just keep thinking about everything good in this world..and the bad stuff..will go away very soon.

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hco_babe answered Saturday November 12 2005, 6:21 pm:
you're only suicidal if you're the one doing these things. (cutting, popping pills, etc.) writing about it is different. there is nothing wrong with you.

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Ivy921 answered Saturday November 12 2005, 6:18 pm:
No, you probably aren't suicidal. You are probably going through a lot of changes in your life and also reflecting what you hear in school/tv/life around you. Its good you are writing about things and I'm sure you are a sensitive and smart person and your writing shows that. If you do feel down, please take note of that and write about how you really feel and if you do feel comfortable talking to someone, like a friend, do so. But I think you will be ok.

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Pathetic_Californian answered Saturday November 12 2005, 6:03 pm:
Whoa... slow down. Just breathe. First off, suicide is a PERMANENT answer to a TEMPORARY problem. You have to realize that things can only get better. If your at rock bottom, theres nowhere to go but up.

Depending on the severity of your depression, you might not even need "help". It is very normal to feel sad and even hopeless when your a teenager. You just have to do your best and get through each day knowing your on earth for a reason. No sense in messing up the order of things!

Take it from someone who has had their fair share of depressing moments and someone who has battled depression first hand-- cutting and attempting suicide is just stupid. There ARE people in your life that care. Remind yourself of how much worse things could be for you. Imagine you having a rare form of cancer and having only six months to live.

Think of what's important in life. Taking time to enjoy the small things, pointless romances, sleepovers and laughs with your best girl friends. You'd be missing all of that if you weren't here. Think of the good PEOPLE in your life. I can assure you, there are some.

Take a nice long walk. I think it may do you good to go out and get some fresh air and maybe see the sun set. Or sun rise, even. It's the small things in life than make us happy, because we're not thinking of the big picture. Truth is, life DOES suck. Realizing how corrupt the world is and realizing how little people REALLY matter is tough. Realizations in the teenage life (like what i mentioned above) are hard to deal with. It's not easy realizing your parents aren't perfect, or that things AREN'T always fair in the end.

Everybody has these realizations, and everybody has bad days. Everybody has good days, too. Let tommorow be yours.

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Achange2Thought answered Saturday November 12 2005, 5:45 pm:
You are just going through a faze becaus eyou are confused and u dont knwo what to do you are just depressed try and get some more excitement into your life go out have fun you wree put on this earth for a reason and your time will come when it comes if you really wnat to kill yourself then go ahead do it if it makes you feel better but whta do u have then? NOTHING! cutting i used to cut and no matter what anyone says and no matter how long i stop for i will always be a cutter its in me! and always will be...but even though cutting is teh only pain i can control its not the way bc people will ridicule you even more afterwords and then you set up more problems for yourself.. so just try and live it up or if not just contact me ill help you out

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happy-helper answered Saturday November 12 2005, 5:29 pm:
Alright, calm down. First off, ask yourself why do you start writing these poems about these topics. Do you feel that you'd be better off dead? Do you just want attention? It could also be due to the 'time of the month' but I won't go in too much detail as it's personal. How long have you been doing this? Do you feel better once you've written a poem? Sometimes people feel better to express themselves in a way where they write about a topic to make the feel better. Many people literally can't write a poem about love and romance but can publish a book on self harm and suicide.
x Steph x

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