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its not fair
Why are guys so goddamn shallow?! Not saying girls aren't but I know I lowered my standards a bit because the guy I like right now is hott to me but I know the majority of girls would disagree. It's just..the boobs, tall, blonde hair..can't guys see past that to other people with more substance?! Do similar interests mean anything? How can you tell if they're flirting or not or just pretending to lead you on then burn you, or even just being "friends"? Please help, I'm so sick of being a loner. Thanks.
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The only way I can ever tell if a guy likes me, is if he comes straight out and tells me. If he ever says "you're beautiful", randomly. Or "you look nice". Or, "i really like you." Or "I've been thinking about you." then he definetly likes you, and isn't trying to lead you on or hurt you.
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i no it is hard to take but you cant live with them cant live without them
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When guys are in their teens, usually they want a girl who will make them look good. That's not always the case, though. Some guys only bother to look at the girls they hang out with or talk to regularly, and if this guy is popular, he probably doesn't like much more than the popular girls.
Not all guys are like this, but many younger guys, sadly, are. A few guys can see past all of the looks and see the girls with more substance. Similar interests do mean something, yes. Usually guys will want someone that has one (or some) of the same interests, or else they'd be pretty bored if they tried talking to each other.
It's hard to tell of a guy is flirting or simply leading you on. It's also hard to see if he's trying to be friends or something more, because a lot of times, a guy will usually try to become friends with a girl if he likes her, so she can notice him and they can get to know one another better.
A guy might be leading you on if he wants to just 'do stuff', like sex, with you. (Don't do it!) Other than that, it's hard to tell what a guy's true intentions are.
I hope I helped, and if you have any more questions, feel free to leave one in my inbox!
♥Manders
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In all honesty with me i always look for personality over looks because thats just the way i am and not only that but i dont do stuff like lead people on so i would have no clue how to help you
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not all guys are shallow. what you need to realize is that guys feel that they have to compete with all other guys. whether its retarded or not. when i guy likes you. they usually let you know. if your not sure ask them how they see you. and i dont think that your a loner. its that you just dont know how to figure guys out. dont worry it took me a while. but i grew up around it. youll be used to it soon. and be friends with all guys and see if you like them first. then move to step 2. do they like you. hope i helped
merree`
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first off, very few guys will purposely lead you on, and you should be able to figure out what types of guys these are and steer clear. yes guys can see past looks, as long as a girl isnt completely butt ugly theres a guy out there. heres how it works, looks make the first date alot easier. for the second date and beyond personality becomes a major factor. one can substitute putting out in place of personality for dates 2-5. as for just being friends, well those guys are only slightly more numerous than those that will lead you on. if a guy is friends with you, he most likely at least sees some pottential for there being more, you might just have to make the first move.
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