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ok well im really confused. i like 4 guys
i dont wanna say names (this is gonna sound mean) but im gonna call them numbers haha
boy #1-hes a complete jerk to me. but he says hes just kidding around...he says i mean the world to him...we went out for about a month and he said that he could be with me forever. but then he dumped me...we're still friends and i think i love him but hes been being a jerk to me lately. and i dont like it! and he just laughs at me when i say STOP BEING A JERK! hes like you kno im just kidding...and he doesnt get it that i DONT LIKE IT!
boy #2--i met him a couple weeks ago and we got drunk together. we had fun and flirted and he said he really liked me...i started falling for him slowly. he really wants to hang out with me again...but the past few days, my friends have been screwing things up for us. by saying i dont like him and i dont wanna do ne thing with him and just being really mean!!!...so i havent talked to #2 in a few days and im gettin kinda worried he doesnt like me ne more (out of the 4 boys...i like him the most!) we might go to the movies on friday and im going to his cookout on saturday. im just not sure what to do or say to him if i really do like him
boys #3--hes my best friend. we went out 2 years ago. nuthin big...and then we didnt talk for like 1 and a half years. then he IMed me and we talked and started hanging out. we went 2 the beach together. and he came over my house after...nuthin happened. just hung out..then he came over my house today and he was flirting with me soooo bad! like cuddling...and then we went in my jaccuzzi and he like held me in his arms...it was really sweet. it felt perfect. but its just so weird kuz hes like my best friend! and i dont know if i should tell him or not...i've never thought of him as a b/f...and now its just kinda weird that i sorta like him....
and finally...boys #4--i just kinda have a crush on him...he likes my best friend. but she doesnt like him back....i just wanna kno if i should get to know him better or just stay friends because of all these other stupid boys in my life!! haha
soooo i just wanna know which boy i should talk to more...or what i should talk to them about....or any advice you can give me
plz and thxx!!! <3
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wow im amazed you like 4 ppl and im gonna pretend i have no idea who is asking this question even tho i do know who is asking the question....now 4 my answer ummm i say u go w/boy 3
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Boy #1 - Seems that you both had feelings for each other, but maybe he doesn't like you the way he did before or as much as you do. Looks like he acts that way just to kind of 'hint off' that he doesn't want to take things that far again, but without hurting your feelings. You should still talk to him, but don't expect things to go too far if he hasn't shown any signs of a relationship yet.
Boy #2- Keep talking to him and hang out with him. Tell him that your friends keep saying things about you two that you don't like. It does look like theres a possibilty with him, being that he said he likes you and you like him the most.
Boy #3- It's normal to feel that way. Most serious relationships devolop from a serious friendship. That's not a bad thing that either of you felt that way for eachother. Hopefull it's not a temporary feeling either. You should tell him that you do appreciate it and did like all of that. How? Just say it, he's your best friend, he'll know what you mean. At the same time, don't make it seem that it would lead to another relationship with him, because it might not, and if it doesn't, he probably wouldn't feel too great about that.
Boy #4- Hmmm. I think this one you should just let go if you wanted to. It's just a crush, and when you have 2 other guys who like you and you like them, doesn't look like you have a better chance with him than with the other 3. Of course, totally your decision, but there wasn't anything between you two like there was with the 3 other boys, yet.
Well it's all up to you really, hope some of that helped guide you somewhat in terms of the right choice. Don't choose for the wrong descision either, just to say: oh I have a boy friend; oh you said you really liked me so I don't want to hurt your feelings, etc... I'd say your best chances are with either 2 or 3, and least with 4. Again, your choice, and it might turn out completley different. Just choose the one that means the most to you. Good luck!
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If I were you I would go with boy2 he seems the best
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ok boy #1 haha i have a friend like that and even though he is a jerk to me i love him to death and he always tells me that he cares about me more then anything in the world.
boy #2 i would be thinkin drop him i agree with your friends
boy #3 that is just about i think the sweetest thing i have ever heard. i mean he is your best friend so thats gotta mean somethin i mean yall have to have somethin special together. i would definetely stay close to him
haha srry i didnt respond to #4 because you didnt sound like you had much feeling when you talked about him
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