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Member Since: January 16, 2005
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i hate my life so much, all my mother cares about is my sister and i hate them both so much. she always gets her way and shes so perfect and were only a year apart. they both drive me crazy. and theres this boy in my school who i really like, im like in love with him and hes in all my classes except 1 so i always see him and he doesnt like me and he saids he has a semi girlfriend in hamden, and i just cant take this anymore. everyone i love doesnt love me. i feel like no one cares and im alone... i really dont care about my mom or sister all i want is him (link)
If your thinking about suicide don't do it because think about everyone else around you that you would be hurting. Even though you don't think so your mom really does care about you and she would hate to see anything happen to you. And about that boy just act yourself around him and he'll come around. Just think about how bad he would feel if smoething happened and he thought it was his fault.


Okay, this may sound really stupid, but I'm serious about asking this question. I'm a girl, I'm thirteen, weigh 105 pounds and I'm 5 foot seven. I'm so tall, and I HATE it! I wish I could stop growing! No offense to tall females, but I think that tall isn't really that flattering for me. My mom is always complimenting me on how tall I am, and I hate it so much! I don't want to be tall! She won't even let me drink coffee to stunt my growth! My doctor said that I might even grow to six feet! I don't want to be that tall! I hate my height already! I'd be happy to be 5 foot four! ARGHH please, is there anything I could do to 'appear shorter' or to stop growing?? (link)
I'm 5'4 and i'm taller then all the other girls in my grade except for 2. It's really not that bad because you have advantages in sports like basketball. Somtimes it's better to be taller than to be short so don't sweat it.


is it ok to curl ur hair with a curler when its still really wet? (link)
No, you have a better chance of getting shoked than you have curling your hair. Either try blowing it dry with a blow dryer or put curlers in.


does anybody know how to use a hair curler? i just bought one and i dont know how to use it. can someone explain to me step by step how to use it. thanks =) (link)
1.Plug it in and let it heat up.
2.Once it heats up open it and take a piece of
your hair in it.
3.Twist it up almost to your head but don't
touch your head.
4.Hold it there and count to 22.
5.Then untwist it.
6.Take your hair out and if it's to curly next
time don't count to 22 try 15.


Tonight I have to babysit for two twin girls who are 5. I cant keep them busy and in my control. Can anybody give me some pointers?
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Play with them just don't sit there and stare at them. Let them watch movies, color, just what ever you do don't give them any candy that will just make them hyper. I babysit all the time and that always works for me.


Hi!
I was just wondering, how do I add columnists to my fave list? Do they have to have answered my questions or what? It's just that I can't see any kind of 'add to favourites' link on their pages. Thanks!
Blessed Be,
Rach xxx (link)
When you go to their page if you look over to the left there is three things the third one down says make favorite columnist. Just click that and they are on your list.


Okay. I used to go to private skool 2 years ago. Me and this guy really liked eachother and we went to the skool dance together. I now go to public skool and I like this guy. The guy from private skool sent me an email today saying that he truly likes me. But
I think the guy from the public skool likes me too. Which one should I choose?
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If I was you I would pick the one from the public school that way you can see each other every day and the people at your school will actually know who he is.


Hi, I'm 13 years old, and i recently started cutting. Don't think " I'm a physco Freak " or whatever you want to call me. My Friend introduced me into it. She said it really helps. so one day i was really angry, i was crying and all, and i cut all up and down on my arm/wrist. To me, i felt better, but just the next day it hurted. From then on, i have been cutting myself all the time when i am mad. the last time i did was actually last night. I use " Scissors , Razors , Saftey Pin , or any sharp objects round the house " . my mom saw my arm by acident, and i told her i fell on a side walk. well my friends are so worried about me. they think im ganna end up killing myself, because i almost did. i really do hate my life even if i have friends and a boyfriend. i JUST hate it, and i think sometimes i was just a mistake, that i ruin other people lives. well i dont know, if i should continue, and and my friends upset, or not, and stay here. I DONT KNOW?! its just really hard to stop though, cuz im so addicted to it. EHH` . what should i do ? thanks . if you wanna i.m. me on AIM ; BlinkBabex33 .. or you can email me ; BlinkBabex33@comcast.net (link)
You should really quit that because if you really do kill yourself think about everyone else around you you'd be hurting. Your friends said they were worried about you that means they care about you. If your mom or dad were yelling at you for doing something when you cut that kinda means they care too because most of the time when parents yell at their kids they're trying to keep them out of trouble. If you cared about everyone around you that cares you would quit cutting asap.


Are you suppose to wash your hair everyday?Not Because I wash my hair everyday.Someone told me It like ruins the hair or bad for it.Thanx (link)
I wash my hair everyday and nothings happened.



Does anyone know that song website where you can burn CDS off of it and its free. It's called like "Wind ___" (something) I forget what its called adn I really want to download some songs cuz its totally free.

Does anyone haev any idea what I'm talkinbg about? please help if ya can. Thanks so much. (link)
Doesn't anyone know that's illegal!! You really shouldn't do it but if you want to i'm not standing in your way.


I have a friend who told someone I like that I was a slut, stupied, a freak, and a lousey girlfriend. only because I went out with him for a long time and then we broke up. I have no idea of what to do to get him to like me agian. Please help me (link)
Just talk to him and ask him why he said and tell him your sorry for anything you did. Ask him if you guys can still be friends and if he says yes just be yourself and he'll probably like you again.


okay. i'm 13 and of course female.
well, i just meet this really great guy. hes funny, nice, cute. Everything. we've talked and stuff. but i want to hint him that i like him, with out throwing myself to him or just being goofy! How do i hint to him that i like him? (link)
just flirt with him and if he doesn't give you weird looks and does it back that means he likes you. But if he doesn't seem to like it quit doing it so you don't tick him off. Don't give up just keep being yourself he'll come around.




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