I have a friend who told someone I like that I was a slut, stupied, a freak, and a lousey girlfriend. only because I went out with him for a long time and then we broke up. I have no idea of what to do to get him to like me agian. Please help me
horseygurl answered Sunday January 16 2005, 11:02 pm: If he said that about you he's not worth your time! Why do yuo want to go out with him after he said that about you? Also do you think he's really going to want to go out with you again?
xoFaDeAwAyToYoU answered Sunday January 16 2005, 3:21 pm: well, if he went out with you, he should realize that you are not all these things, and take you back no matter what. if he beileves it, then he wasnt worth it in the first place. and that so called friend...you shouldnt talk to her anymore. [ xoFaDeAwAyToYoU's advice column | Ask xoFaDeAwAyToYoU A Question ]
bella101 answered Sunday January 16 2005, 2:21 pm: Just talk to him and ask him why he said and tell him your sorry for anything you did. Ask him if you guys can still be friends and if he says yes just be yourself and he'll probably like you again. [ bella101's advice column | Ask bella101 A Question ]
MummuM answered Sunday January 16 2005, 2:19 pm: Firstly, your friend isn't a "true" friend if he's going around telling your crush that. I think you need to talk to him about what he said to the guy you like. This guy that's saying stuff probably still has feelings for you because you've been with him so long. As for the guy that your crushing, just tell him because you and this other guy have history he's trying to screw up everything between you and him. I'm sure your crush will understand and everything will be okay.
♥ Krissy [ MummuM's advice column | Ask MummuM A Question ]
BeautifulMadness answered Sunday January 16 2005, 2:18 pm: Tell the new guy that your friend is just a bit jealous and trying to stir things up. Does the guy you like know that you two went out? If he does, he'll probably get the idea that the other guy is just jealous. If not, laugh it off casually (but not like you're being mean to your ex) and tell the guy you like not to worry. And you shouldn't worry either - the new guy might still like you!! Don't make a big fuss out of the incident, either way. Explain why your ex feels like he does and everything should be OK (although it sucks that you have to apologise for him!!). I'd also get some yelling in at the ex into the bargain :P
Blessed Be,
Rach xxx [ BeautifulMadness's advice column | Ask BeautifulMadness A Question ]
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