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Well, there is this guy. I haven’t known him that long, but I think I am starting to really like him. I met him about 2 or 3 weeks ago and I'm not too sure what to do. All of his friends keep telling me he likes me and I think he does to, but do you think it is too soon to know for sure? I have already told him that I am starting to like him and he said he thought he was starting to like me too. Is there anything I specific I should do? Thank you. (14, female) (link)
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nah...its not to early! if you are hearing he is...find out for yourself! just tell him how you feel so you know for sure. have fun and good luck
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i really love my boyfriend, but he hasnt even kissed me yet and i dont wanna wait anymore. He is like to shy. I also like this other guy any way who would probably kiss me. The other boy is a bad boy so yeah.
What do i do?
I wanna break up but yet i dont want anyone to get hurt
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well to tell you the truth, if you are so in love with him..why does a kiss matter? tell him about it though. and this other boy..r u in love with him? i mean really, would you sacrifice being in love with your boyfriend for one silly kiss?
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I have a very plain face. I have a brownish/blondish hair color,thick and long hair, greenish eyes, and okay lips. I hate how I look and I want to change. Im allowed to wear make up but I just cant find the right kind. Any suggestion? Just ask if you want to see a pic. (link)
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the lighter the eye, the darker your make-up can be...dont put too much on but you can go a little over the limit. Try usuing pink, and brown eyeshadow. dont change your appearance, that wouldnt make you the unique person you were meant to be!
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My mom and I spent the whole day together. That's not the point. We went somewhere to visit family and when we came home, I went in my room to get away, to relax. So she goes in the living room and sits down on her fat ass.. and conviniently starts ordering me to do things. I was sitting her, we had gotten home like 15 minutes prior to this. I told her I would do it in a bit but she proceeded to yell at me to do it. So the very last time she yelled at me, these were her words: "If you're not fucking out here in 5 damn minutes, I'm kicking your ass off the computer." So in return, I told her to shut up. Not even yelling, it was to myself, and she overhead. So she came to take my danm cellphone, the phone I bought with my money, and pay for with my money, and for some reason she believes she has owenership over because its in her name. BULLSHIT. I'm so pissed I'm hitting shit now.. I want to hit her. Please help. (link)
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theres nothing really you can do but calm down because yelling at her would make it a whole lot worse. as stupid as this may sound, trying apologizing to her! then it will kinda fade away between you and her. and next time she ask you to do something , i suppose you should do it just to make her happy. remember, you had been with her the whole day ...people can easily get tired. no need to yell back, she will just take more things away! hope i helped *aBbY*
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hey, Sometimes i dont eat for up to two days to try to look better. When i dont eat , it makes me look much skinnier, but i feel really weak. Is it safe to be doing this. Its not like im throwing up every thing i eat or anything. What should i do?? (link)
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no...please eat!! starving yourself may boost your confidence...but it hurts your body. trying eating healthier...dont stop eating. also if you want to look skinner..try doing at least 30 sit-ups everynight...go running...or workout! hope I helped ya...
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i really like two girls and they both have told me that they like me. i like them both the same amount and i have no idea how i am going to choose. my problem is that i think that if i just leave it alonee and keep flirting with both of them they will both loose intrest. what do i do? (link)
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well, look here. you simply shouldnt choose one of them because the other would feel bad and wonder where she went wrong and thought that you liked her. it wouldnt be so smart to choose one of them. yes you can keep flirting...but that tells each of them that you like her or her more. i say just let it die down..so they do loose interest ...and wont get their feelings hurt. otherwise you will be the bad guy. hope i helped.
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i have acne on my back and ah i have tried getting it away but it doesnt really work...but i have a party to go to and i wanna wear a dress that shows my back. im wearing it to the party at the end of the month. what is something that would work quickly to get it away? (link)
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PRO-ACTIV!! buy it that stuff really does work
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I hate getting new people in my life. My Aunt and Uncle got devorced and now they are both getting remarried and i hate both of they're fiancees. My other aunt got remarried and i dont get along with my new uncle. My grandma and grandpa got divorced and my grandpa got remarried. I feel like my new grandma is trying to buy my love because she always gives me stuff when I go to see them. How can i be more accepting? (link)
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trying spending a day with each of them and learn more about them. find out things you guys both like to do...and go do them! you dont have to accept them fully, but also tell you aunt/uncle how you feel about this and see what they have to say...but only do it if things get worse. good luck not accepting! *abby*
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okay..
four years ago when i was 9, my birthfather raped me and my mom has bipolar disorder. i have no friends at all, and two of my three birth siblings want to kill me and call me bad names to my face whenever i see them. right now im living with my aunt uncle and two cousins but i never feel safe.. ive tried to get away from my birthfamily but they live in the same city as my aunt and uncle, but my aunt and uncle just moved into their new house from georgia... and the neighborhood theyre living in is full of kids that beat me up and pull my hair and make fun of me and shit because they say i need to be sent to a mental institution. i've been sent to so many hospitals for trying to hurt myself and mental clinics even though IM NOT CRAZY. i just want to get out of this fucking poor excuse for a life.
i dont know what to do.. (link)
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wow, you have had a really tough time. this is a toughie, but I am going to try my best. there is always a reason for living. dont look to inflicting pain on urself to deal with other problems, it only hurts you. and these days , kids always try to find reasons to beat up kids, and its not right...i would say avoid them and start from scratch, and realize life is worth living, or else you wouldnt be here. im so sorry about your dad..that is so sad, and I apologize you had to be introduced to that. Inform your aunt and uncle about these kids, dont hide it...trust me they will help...sit down and talk to them about how you feel around them. dont hide behind your pain, im sure you are a beautiful girl and all you want is to be noticed. hope I could help... *abby*
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I have a friend who told someone I like that I was a slut, stupied, a freak, and a lousey girlfriend. only because I went out with him for a long time and then we broke up. I have no idea of what to do to get him to like me agian. Please help me (link)
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well, if he went out with you, he should realize that you are not all these things, and take you back no matter what. if he beileves it, then he wasnt worth it in the first place. and that so called friend...you shouldnt talk to her anymore.
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I have a problem with my clothes. I don't mind the way I dress or anything...I just feel I need to change something..add more style to me. I usually wear jeans, skateboarding shoes, hoodies and fitted tees/layeredtees, what can I ADD to this to make my clothes more......exciting? Lots of tips would be great, and I'll rate you a 5 no matter what. (link)
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more colors always give a kick to your outfit. trying wearing jewelry...and paint your fingernails! main point is, dress how you are...dont try to be someone else.
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okay. i'm 13 and of course female.
well, i just meet this really great guy. hes funny, nice, cute. Everything. we've talked and stuff. but i want to hint him that i like him, with out throwing myself to him or just being goofy! How do i hint to him that i like him? (link)
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well, if you dont step up to the plate soon, hes going to lose interests and decide its not going anywhere. dont exactly throw yourself out there, but just let him know there is something there.
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At home sometimes I use a nasty answer and my mom takes it the wrong way when I dont mean to. Therefore, she does not trust me as much and thinks Im disrepectful and doesnt let me go many places. What can I do to fix this without having to tell her what happens in school and shit because I know she WILL NEVER understand... (link)
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i have the same problem with my mom. you think she doesnt understand you right? wrong. just try to talk to your mom a little more and see what you guys have if common. apologize for saying those things you really didnt mean and do something sweet for her. also give it time for things to cool down and make your mom feel like a really special person in your life.
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I started going out with this kid Brendan last February and then in July we broke up. It was the best five months of my life! I know it wasn't that long but he's the best thing that ever happened to me. I'm still madly in love with him I just noticed. I knew I liked him still but when ever someone even says his name around me my heart will start going crazy! If I look at him in the halls I wanna just go talk to him and I've tried but I get scared and just talk to his friends and see if he'll notice me. I know it's kind of childish but I can't help it! He's just always there. I've gone out with two people since we broke up. Nothing serious at all. Just like one month things. My friends think the only reason reason I went out with them was because I just missed having someone I really liked around me and I think their right. Even though I didn't like them that much. I did kind of use them but I just really miss him. I don't know how to tell him this or even if I should tell him. As I'm writing this my friend called saying she just saw Brendan at the store and I just started smiling and my heart beating just hearing his name. It's so weird I've never felt like this even with the guy I was going out with for two years. His name is Gilmore (it's really his last name) After that we went out, off and on, off and on for like another five months. My best friend Lucas who is friends with Brendan said that maybe he doesn't wanna pull "a ilmore" It's basically a legend. Everyone says that when they don't wanna go with the same person about a million times. So maybe it is that but I have no clue. What do you think I should do because I'm gonna go crazy pretty soon. Oh ya I'm 16 years old and he's 17. IM TURNING 17 NEXT MONTH! (can't wait) (link)
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omg I have had the exact same thing happen to me. Even though this may sound hard, give it some time. make sure youd ont keep telling this guy you love him, he will get annoyed. I gave it time and guess what happened, it allw orked out as planned...he is back in my life and I couldnt be happier...so what i say to you..im still in love is that if you guys were meant to be, you will be.hope i helped. ask me for advice anytime.
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ok so i'm 15 and i really like this guy and he liked me too, for a while, then he changed his mind about me, i still like him though and i want to have a relationship with him. How can i get him to like me again? (link)
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did you ever tell him how you felt about him? did he ever tell you? that would make a big difference. just show him that you are the same girl he liked before and that you still like him, dont worry, he will realize it soon!
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I am in middle school right now, and I don't have many friends. Like I'm not shy or anything, but I don't hang out with a lot of people. Do you think when I go to highschool (next year) I will have more friends? Or is it just me? (link)
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Of course you will! many different people are coming from many different schools and there is bound to be someone just right for you. middle school has been the worst years of my life and i guarantee hichschool will be a fresh new start
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My best friend always copies my looks! Like if i tell her ive found a certain store that i like to go to, she'll just one day start shopping there and tell all our other friends she found it first! And its not just like materials..she said that she liked matt -our crush- way before i did. But when i told her i liked him last year she said oh i think hes kind of ugly. I mean is she really my friend?? shes so annoying ..what do i do? plz help!! (link)
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well atleast you can feel like a rolemodel! anyways, make sure and tell her how you feel and I bet she will get mad but it cant go on forever right? and if you still think she is friend-worthy, try and create a stronger friendship from it. but what I gotta say is, i bet you are a really cool girl if she wants to be just like you!
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i love this boy soo much and I dont know how to tell him so. I cant beileve this feeling i have for him...what do i say to him? (link)
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dont be afraid! i bet he is feeling the same way for you and if you dont tell him soon, he will think otherwise. always be open to your boyfriend about how you feel and such. go ahead and tell him anonymous.
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