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STUPID MOTHERS
My mom and I spent the whole day together. That's not the point. We went somewhere to visit family and when we came home, I went in my room to get away, to relax. So she goes in the living room and sits down on her fat ass.. and conviniently starts ordering me to do things. I was sitting her, we had gotten home like 15 minutes prior to this. I told her I would do it in a bit but she proceeded to yell at me to do it. So the very last time she yelled at me, these were her words: "If you're not fucking out here in 5 damn minutes, I'm kicking your ass off the computer." So in return, I told her to shut up. Not even yelling, it was to myself, and she overhead. So she came to take my danm cellphone, the phone I bought with my money, and pay for with my money, and for some reason she believes she has owenership over because its in her name. BULLSHIT. I'm so pissed I'm hitting shit now.. I want to hit her. Please help.
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believe me yelling back won't help i got grounded for a long time .....for be smart with her ...and stuff .....i mean notin u can do but deal with it .....remember after hight school u can move out
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your a spoiled brat just try talking to ur mom and if that doesnt help try talking to ur skool guidence counselor thanks i hope i helped love ya
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Sweetheart I know your going to hate to hear this, I know I did when I was around your age. But Thats your Mother, she has the right to take away privlages. A phone and a computer are privlages. If you are not doing what you are told there are consequnses. When you get older and have a full time job are you going to talk to your boss like that when he askes you to do something. If so then expect to not have a job. She is teaching you a valuable lesson in respect. I know your pissed now. But understand when you have kids you will think totaly different. Try turning it around. put yourself in her possition. If you asked someone to do something for you and they gave you an attitude wouldnt you have the same reaction as mom. Remember she is the only one you will ever have. Love her and respect. And talk about what makes you upset. Communication is a huge part of Life.
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Do you have an older brother or sister, father, or Aunt or uncle that you can turn to? You need someone you can talk to about this.
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You're gonna hate what I have to say, but she is your mother. You only have one mother and you should respect her at all times, even when you think she isn't respecting you. Face it, honey, you started the disrespecting routine by saying you'd "do it in a bit" (now, did you really say it that way?) and, even if you bought the bloody cellphone, it is in her name, you are a minor, you are living under her roof, you live according to her rules, so straighten up. (And personally, I think you're probably leaving out some of what happened and what was said by you, but that's my own opinion.)
Now, to make things a little easier. Hitting her is NOT the solutiong. Calm down a little, cool down a bit. Then go out and -- are you ready for this? -- APOLOGIZE TO HER. Try to talk with her for awhile ON AN ADULT LEVEL. You can do it!
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do it, hit her in the face.
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Like Abby said maybe you could calm her down a little
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theres nothing really you can do but calm down because yelling at her would make it a whole lot worse. as stupid as this may sound, trying apologizing to her! then it will kinda fade away between you and her. and next time she ask you to do something , i suppose you should do it just to make her happy. remember, you had been with her the whole day ...people can easily get tired. no need to yell back, she will just take more things away! hope i helped *aBbY*
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