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Not accepting
I hate getting new people in my life. My Aunt and Uncle got devorced and now they are both getting remarried and i hate both of they're fiancees. My other aunt got remarried and i dont get along with my new uncle. My grandma and grandpa got divorced and my grandpa got remarried. I feel like my new grandma is trying to buy my love because she always gives me stuff when I go to see them. How can i be more accepting?
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my daddy gave me this advice when I was young.
'would you rather be right, or live in peace?'
it doesn't apply, but, you could just sit back, crack open a beer, and realize that its not your problem and that you should flow with it.
-hitler
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Just be happy that each of your divorced relatives have found happiness. Be a good niece/nephew/grandchild.
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trying spending a day with each of them and learn more about them. find out things you guys both like to do...and go do them! you dont have to accept them fully, but also tell you aunt/uncle how you feel about this and see what they have to say...but only do it if things get worse. good luck not accepting! *abby*
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You should give these people a chance. Try to be nice and kind to them. Don't try to be stand-offish or rude just because you think you don't like someone. Change is hard, but you'll get used to it.
*Hope I helped!*
-Emmy Boo-
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Don't think so negative. They probably feel sort of the same. Your love-buying grandma is probably double-checking that you'll accept her into the family. Just think positively. But do keep an eye out.
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Acceptance will come naturally. Try to stay positive and keep in mind its a new family for them too. Your new grandma is trying hard to break the ice which is cool of her. Keep a positive outlook and as you warm up to your new family members..you'll become more accepting
-melissa-
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