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I'm not sure if Frienship is the right catagory or not... Here goes: My friend, Chelsea, was a nervous wreck. She was so scared about telling her boyfriend she wanted to kiss. I told her to write him and note so she did. She said she gave it to him and he said he wanted to, too. That was a week ago and she says they still haven't kissed. I asked if it's because they never see each other except in school where they would get in trouble but she said he'll do anything else. Just won't kiss. Is he lying to her or nervous or what? Neither of us understand and she doesn't want to look dumb by asking. She's mad because if that is the problem, she'll probably never kiss him because they can't see each other out of school. Also, is this type of question common at all? Thanx!
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Tell Chelsea that she needs to make the moves on him!! Tell her to just lean in and look him in the eyes and KISS HIM! :P
-Hope I helped!-
*MiSs EmMy bOo-

-A kiss blown is a kiss tasted, the only real kiss, is a kiss tasted.-


Ok my Mom says I'm to young to fall in love and have a boyfriend and my Dad does as well..but she found my journal thinger and found out Im dating normally she flips out and is all your way to young..im 15 years old..and I've been secretely seeing this guy behind her back for about 3 weeks almost..and she just now found out..she wants to meet him and he says he is christian and she is really christian like really christian..and I'm scared of what she might think of him..if she dont like him..what do i do..where do i let them meet..where i can be...and how do i meet his parents...HELP ME! (link)
You definitely need to talk this over with your boyfriend and your parents. First of all, I don't think it's very "Christian" that your mom read your journal, you definitely need to discuss that one with her. And you reall need to talk to your dad too. Tell him that you're 15, you're not a little kid anymore and if he doesn't understand then so be it.
-Hope I helped!_
mEb


So I'm totally in love with this person and that person loves me too... and I want to put together a CD of music sort of saying how i've fallen for them. Any ideas on songs for the playlist? (link)
Some awesome love songs to make a mix with are:
"I think I'm in love" Jessica Simpson
"Take my breath away" Jessica Simpson
"Only Hope" Mandy Moore
"I turn to you" Christina Aguilera
"I'll be there" Mariah Carey
"Sunday Mornings" Maroon 5
"Let me love you" Mario
"Truth is" Fantasia
"The Reason" Hoobastank
"I Can't Sleep" Clay Walker
"Lovers and Friends" Lil Jon & the Eastside boys feat. Usher & Ludacris
"Everytime" Britney Spears
"Amazed" Lonestar
"When I'm Gone" Three Doors Down
"Everywhere" Michelle Branch
"Pretty Baby" Vanessa Carlton
"Dare you to Move" Switchfoot
"On Fire" Switchfoot
"Over and Over" Nelly feat. Tim McGraw
"This will be an everlasting love" Natalie Cole
"Why Can't I" Liz Phair
~Hope I helped!~
Miss Emmy Boo


Alright, these past two nights I've been crying myself to sleep because of my boyfriend.

I RARELY get to see him because we go to different schools, maybe once or twice every TWO/THREE months. :/ But we talk on the phone like every 2-3 days, and on the computer a lot.

So, a few days ago..Thursday, I was expecting him to get on the computer, but he never did..and I didn't call, because, I dunno. i just hate calling when he doesn't tell me to right at the moment..even though he told me I can call anytime. So, I don't know..I just started crying because I was so upset and stressed out from not seeing him anf stuff. Tonight, he hasn't gotten on, and I started crying again. I think a lot of you won't understand really, because you don't know how much I miss him, you have to know the situation better.

But..what do I do? Because, he hurts me a lot. I mean, this has happened multiple times. But like..a couple days after this goes on he finally comes online and says 'hi', and I CAN'T be mean to him..or tell him that he just made me cry. I don't know why, I just can't do it. It's like emotional abuse, and i just don't think I can take it anymore. (link)
Sweetheart, I hate to sound mean or non-understanding, but how can you two have a real relationship if you never see eachother? Two to three months? That's a long time to wait to see your boyfriend!! And you go to different schools? Talking on the phone or on the internet is not enough to keep a strong relationship going. You have to see eachother and hang out together and stuff. I think you two should break up. This type of relationship will never work.
*Hope I helped!!*
-Miss Emmy Boo-


There's a boy that used to be the kind of friend that I would tell my problems to when me and my b/f were going out. But after my b/f and I split, my friend completely fell in love with me. I don't like him that way, just as a friend, but he's trying to control my love life by being over jealous.He says he won't stop until I go out with him. I have a new b/f now, but I can't let anyone know because I don't want my friend to find out and he'll be hurt.He gets mad whenever I'm on the phone with my b/f. What should I tell him? I don't want to lose his friendship, because he is a really good friend.
Sorry about the length, but please help!! Thanks! (link)
No matter what happens you are most likely going to lose the friendship. Just tell him that you really don't have feelings for him like that, but you really care about him and want to still be good friends. If he keeps up, then just ignore him or tell a trusted adult that he's harassing you or something. He's probably not a true friends anyways if he says he won't stop until you go out with him.
*Hope I helped!*
-Miss Emmy Boo-


my boyfriend always calls me sayin how some girl kissed him today at school but if i just say my friend likes my butt he freaks out and i dont care about him flirting cz we dont go to the same school so im not there to do something..anyways i wanna tell him on halloween i was holdin this guy i just met hands but i dont want him to freak out..how can i tell him and ask why he freaks out about me doin the smallest things with my friends and me not doin nothin about him and his???

o yea when he flirts i get jealous but i dont act or say nothin about it..is he tryin to get me jealous? (link)
Your boyfriend KISSED another chick? Wow...you need to dump him. I think that kissing is WAY, WAY beyond flirting. Lose this loser!
*Hope I helped!*
-Miss Emmy Boo-


Well, right now i'm 13, I weigh 97 pounds & i'm 5' 2". I have some issues with my body. My stomach seems to be a lil chubby, not like "omg look how chubby she is" but like when i bend over my skin over laps andyou can grap it. It even leave marks on my skin. What can i do? My thighs jiggle when i hit them and when i sit down they expand so much, what can i d to get rid of it? Also, my arms are rele skinny and shrimpy, how can i build musle on them? Two more things.. unde my eyes i have dark circle that go down to my cheek bone and i have so much acess skin so that to over laps under my eye, and my cheeks are rele chubby like i have no jaw line. idk, people say i'm like the skinniest girl eva.. but i doubgt it. Please help me. thnx (link)
You ARE skinny! Everyone's stomach gets rollyish when they lean over, and everyone's thighs get big when they sit down! Don't worry about this!
*Hope I helped!*
-Emmy Boo-


I give advice on this site, and yes, I'm also a Wiccan, almost on the verge of being an atheist and lately there has been someone harrassing me about my faith, she has left 2 messages so far in my inbox, about God, and I've given her actual proof about why I don't beleive in God like that. What I wanted to know is, have I been the only one getting messages like that? Thanks. (link)
I myself am a Christian, but to answer your question, yes a lot of people get a lot of crap about what they believe in. I think everyone believes differently and has there opinions. Just ignore this girl.
*Hope I helped!*
-Emmy Boo-


whenever my friend talks to a guy i get really jelous.. its really wierd. and its only with her and nobody else. i don't get it. do i like have a crush on her or something or am i just a little protective?? help.

-confuzzled (link)
You may be just jealous of her talking with dudes, or maybe even not talking to you. You would know if you had a crush on her.
*hOpE i hElPeD*
-eMMY bOO-


hey. ok my problem is that my parents give me noooooo freedom. They won't even let me go to the mall alone!!!!! I always confront them but they never listen. I am getting really fed up with them. I don't know what to do. Green day is going on tour and all my friends are going and i really want to but my parents wont let me because they think they swear too much. What should I do besides talking to them because that doesnt help! (link)
Well, I suggest that you get one of your friend's parents to talk to your parents! If that doesn't work, leave and go anyways! I wouldn't miss Greenday for the world!! :)
*Hope I helped!*
~Miss Emmy Boo~


I dont know why, but lately my best friend has been her normal self and its been bothering me. Just normal things she always does are bothing me. Like her laugh, its annoying now, and the jokes she makes just piss me off for no reason! i dont know what to do! (link)
Well, I understand exactly how you feel. People change, you move on and grow apart. If it's the normal things about someone you don't like, then you probably don't like them as a person. Just try to be cool with her, she is your best friend.
*Hope I helped*
-EmMy BoO-


Okay.. i went out with this one kid a couple times. One time we broke up because we didnt hangou enough.. and then brokeup again because we hungout 'too much' i really really like him but he acts like such a jerk around his friends! i asked him back out and he said he didnt know.. then his friend came on the phone and said NO. what can i do to make him really jelous and come to his senses (link)
Well, there's really nothing you can do to make someone like you or whatever. Just move on, there's a zillion more dudes out there!! And it seems that neither of you two know what you want, I mean you break up because you spend too little time together, ansd then you break up again because you spend too much time together. Just forget about him and move on!
*Hope I helped!*
-Miss Emmy Boo-


ok friday night there was a basketball game and i went and i hung out with one of my bestfriends k but at the game i thought she was being mean right ok well after the game was a dance and i didnt go but i called my friend k and she was there and she hung up in face which made me really mad k and yesterday sunday i was talking to her on aim and shes all are u mad at me and i was like yea and shes all y and im like well you hung up on me when i called and lately you just start yelling at me for no reason... so she like got mad and blocked me... she came to me at school last week and just starts yelling at me telling me that i could have gotten her phone taken away and im just like ok well you gotta tell me that instead of yelling at me and yea shes done it more then once and like i was trying to explain to her that I hate when she yells at me cuz were supposed to be friends but she wont let me... and this pisses me off cause sometimes it feels like she doesnt treat me like a friend but something else... today i went up to her and tried to work things out cause shes my best friend so i went up to her and smiled and then shes like thats such a stupid reason for you to be mad and im like no you arent supposed to hang up in my face and this other girl standing next to me is like yea you should have just been like i cant talk right now gotta go bye but she didnt and then she starts yelling infront of some of friends that i shouldn't call her cell phone after nine and a bunch of crap so i just turn around and leave cause i serioulsy dont need her yelling at me... but still im so mad cause its like i cant tell her how i feel and if i do she will get mad isnt that dumb arent we supposed to be bestfriends and tell each other when were mad and stuff i even told her that it hurts my feelings in stuff but she wouldnt listen to me...
What should i do PLEASE HELP!!!
~!~Live Strong~!~ (link)
It doesn't sound like this chick cares that much about your friendship. Just lay low for awhile and maybe she'll come to her senses, if not, then forget about her. But don't try talking to her, it doesn't seem to be worth your time.
*Hope I helped *N* Good Luck*
~Miss Emster Boo~


My bestfriend is being cruel to me. She likes to show off. She also acts to me like i am her slave. She is a suckup and don't know what to do. We have been friends for so long. I am moving far away soon and she is either really sad and is mean to me or she doesn't care that i am moving. I don't know. She use to be so nice. But know she is trying to be popular and mean. PLEASE HELP!!! (link)
Wow, that sounds like a similar situation with one of my friends. The thing is, you have to stop being there friend. Cause this will never end. Just tell her how you feel and that you don't think you two should be friends anymore.
*Hope I helped*
-Miss Emmy Boo-


I'm looking for some really great teen fictional books. Can anyone recommend some to me, or even if you can't, a great website that has a list of them? I'm looking for a book along the storyline of like love and romance.... but even if you have a book name that's not about that but it's a great book, thats good too! THANKS!! (link)
Some AwEsOmE books are:
*The Notebook by Nicholas Sparks
*The Wedding(sequel to The Notebook) by Nicholas Sparks
*Johnny Angel
*Nights in Rondante by Nicholas Sparks
*The Diary of Anne Frank
*Summer by the Sea
*A Place to Call Home
*Any of the Chicken Soup books
~Well that's all I can think of right now!~
*Hope I helped!*
-Miss Emmy Boo-


I don't want to be just cool with this guy that I really like. I want to be more than friends, but I don't know where to start. It's usually not that hard for me to talk to somebody. But he really makes me weak and when I try to talk to him, the words won't come out right. I don't know how to tell him. Because if I'm the only one feelin, he might not want to talk to me anymore. I don't know if I only feel that way. I think he likes me, but I'm not sure. How can I tell him how I feel with out wreckin our friendship? (link)
Well tell him that you like him and then say, "But if you don't like me that's cool, we can still be friends." And then if he doesn't like you then just act like nothing ever happened!
~Good Luck!~
*Emmy Boo*


hey,Im 14 I have a Bory friend right. And there's this guy at school who likes me,but I have a BF but I wanna get to know him better. I mean incase me and my Bf break up maybe I can go out with him. Should I give him my phone number, whould people think it the wrong way. Cause I dont want people thinking that Im cheating on my Bf. (link)
Well, you can be friends with the dude and talk to him on the phone *N* stuff. Just don't put him before your boyfriend and tell people that you're just friends!
*Hope I helped!*
-Emmy Boo-


Well last night i went to a superbowl prty at my friends b/f house, his friend was there!To be honest i nvr really liked him but we were flirting and we sat down to watch the superbowl and he sat next to me, we went closer and closer and by the end of the night we were holding hands and cuddling.But in the middle of all this he starts talkin about the girl he likes.And he says he likes me but he likes the other girl more.But it's one of those shes way out of his league and she doesn't like him at ALL!!Should i ask him out or should i get let him get over her?But i want to go out wit him in time for valentines day!

~Tina~ (link)
I think you should let him get over this chick. Wait to let him ask you out. This chick doesn't like him so nothings gonna happen. If he doesn't ask you out by Valentine's Day, then just invite him to chyll somewhere with you.
*Hope I helped!*
-Miss Emmy Boo-


okay i like this guy we'll call him erik so anyways erik and i have been good friends since school started and well now that he had found out that i liked him he flirts with me even more and gives me at least one hug everyday but you see the hug is longer then it is with the rest of the girls that gives him hugs and also he holds me really close to him so i really want to ask him to the dance this friday but im not sure how does anyone have any ideas so i possibly wont get rejected if he was just playin with me? sry for the length (link)
Well, it sounds to me like this dude is into you. To ask him to the dance, just flat out ask him, or you could write him a note or something. Or if he's into sports write it on a ball and throw it to him!
*Hope I helped & Good Luck!*
-Miss Emmy Boo-


Me and my ex boyfriend don't really talk anymore, he has a new girlfriend now. But, i found out that he cheated on her and i know for a fact cuz he told me too. Should i tell his girlfriend?? his girlfriend and i have always hated eachother but i hate them being together it makes me like sick cuz i'll always love him :-/.. i think thats why i want to tell his girlfriend the news. Should i tell her? or leave it alone? thanks ill rate (link)
Well she definitely deserves to know. But, her boyfriend should be the one to step up. Otherwise I don't think any of it really concerns you.
*Hope I helped!*
-Emmy Boo-




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