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my mom is really religous and im in love...
Ok my Mom says I'm to young to fall in love and have a boyfriend and my Dad does as well..but she found my journal thinger and found out Im dating normally she flips out and is all your way to young..im 15 years old..and I've been secretely seeing this guy behind her back for about 3 weeks almost..and she just now found out..she wants to meet him and he says he is christian and she is really christian like really christian..and I'm scared of what she might think of him..if she dont like him..what do i do..where do i let them meet..where i can be...and how do i meet his parents...HELP ME!
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You definitely need to talk this over with your boyfriend and your parents. First of all, I don't think it's very "Christian" that your mom read your journal, you definitely need to discuss that one with her. And you reall need to talk to your dad too. Tell him that you're 15, you're not a little kid anymore and if he doesn't understand then so be it.
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Well let them meet at your house like let him have dinner with them or something.. or maybe your parents and his parents and you guys can get together and have dinner and discuse this.. well try to also think positive bout the whole thing which i know that will be hard.. and continue to go with him behind her back if she dont like him..cause probably most likely she isnt going to like him..cause thats how parents are and if you know your dad isnt going to like him the she probably goin to follow him cause they a couple and what not..Much luv dez
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awe, thats how my parents were, i dont know, but I have been with my boyfriend over a year, and my mom wasnt crazy about it at first, and she still isnt totally crazy about it, but shes much better!! :) but my dad still hasnt accepted it. Im the same age. try to be calm, your parents just want to protect you and they dont wanna lose their baby girl yet. :)
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Hey hun,
Ok, If you really love this guy talk to your mom about it. Show her that he means a lot to you, I am assuming he does...after all, you can fall in love at any age. Tell your mother that this guy really seems like the one for you, if you feel that way. But if he really isn't Christian and your mother wants you to date a Christian, listen to your mother. I am Christian and will ONLY date Christian boys. But don't try to change him temporarily while he is meeting your mother...eventually she will know the real him. You can get them to meet by inviting him over to dinner with your family. He may feel uncomfortable going but tell him that your mom wants to be included on who you are dating and because she cares for you a lot. You can also attend the dinner, of course...He can invite you to his house one day and have a dinner with his parents. You and him, show your parent's that you guys are really serious about each other and you guys mean a lot to each other, your parents will realize... :)
Hope I helped and Good Luck
Pura Morena :)
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They just have to relize that there little girl is growing up. He can come over your house and meet your parents. It sounds like they will ask him every question there is so just make sure he knows what he is in for. Ask him what his parents are like and then just meet them.
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