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Hey I've been through a lot! And I am try hard to give you a good answer! Im good with "girl stuff" too! So, leave me a question anytime, i check this at least once a day!!

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(sry,didn't know where to put this)
I got my period on halloween. I am the first of my friends to have gotten it. I know that it probably won't come back for a while, but it has already been just under 6 months. I have all the symptoms(irritablity, discharge, cramping) but I have been feeling like this for a week and it hasn't come. Any advice or help? I'll rate high!
~?

www.beinggirl.com

its the most amazing site when it comes to this stuff!

if you have any other questions about this please leave one in my inbox! I would love to help!

Always there-
Thanks for letting me help you=
Kels

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I have a cat that weighs 15 pounds and he's only 1 and a half years old. I'm worried about him, but my mom says it's no big deal and it's just his bone structure, but he was so tiny when he was a kitten! Do I have a valid reason to worry?

I would have to say to ask

http://www.advicenators.com/column.php?u=selectopaque

she is amazingly good with pet questions!!!

her user name is

selectopaque

and above is the link to her page!

sorry I couldnt help more, but she is awesome!

Kels

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the other day i was on my advice column abd it said i'd been rated 9 times with an average rating of 5. today i went on it again and it said i'd only been rated 5 times with an average rating of 4.8. what happened?

after 30days the rating is deleted.

hope i helped.

Kels

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this is just for the girls! im 15 years old and i am in 10th grade i started haveing periods in the 7th grade. it is now august and i havn't had a period since january. I know, i know the first thing that comes to mind is R U PREGNANT well no i know this for sure because i am a virgin, i have no clue what is wrong with me and i really need help. i have went to the doctors about it and all they did was send me to a gynocologist (however u spell it) i haven't went to that appointment yet but it is in a couple of weeks. is there advice you can give me or does anyone know what could be causeing me this?? please respond

www.beinggirl.cmo

it will help, and i am 15, and i got mine in 4th or 5th grade, and i am still not regualr! so, no worries! also, i get it like for just 3 days or for 12, or like twice a month or like only like once ever 2 or 3 months!

hope i helped-
kels

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I Lost my period last month on tha either 1 or 3 ummm i havnt started yet n i havnt had sex none im still a virgin im scared cause my mom wants to take me to the doctor .....what could b wrong with me

www.beinggirl.com

that will help, and at the begining, and even throughout the whole thing, it is not always regular!!

thanks for letting me help you!

of you have any more questions like this, please leave one in my inbox, i am good at this!!

always there-
kels:)

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Male 15
Theres this girl at skool right and i realy like her but im to shy i first step to a relationship is friendship but im just way to shy and neva now wat to say its like my mind goes blank around her. Wat should i do?

just say hey, or get her screen name.

ask her about her clasees and/or teachers

sports,
tv shows
after school activities,
family, friends, ect!

if you ever need anything, please leave one in my inbox!!

thanks for letting me help you-
always there=
kels


oh, and when you are with a great girl,who likes you for you! then everything should be fine, and there should be no problem with your mind going blank, its just because you are nervous, but when you have a girl, it will be fine, if she is a good one!

BEST OF LUCK!

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There's this guy that I like alot, but we never talk or anything at school. I', not sure if he likes me or not, but I think he might cause we always make eye contact in the halls. But anyway, my question is, I found out that he has a screenname, and my friend said I should im him, but I don't know what to say, because I never talk to him, so I don't want him to think I'm weird or something. So,how do I start out when I im him? Sorry so long! Thanks for your help! I RATE 5'S for nice advice!

send him an instant message, and say hey, and introduce yourself, and talk to him about teachers ect. and try not to talk about yourself alot. that is total turn off. check out his profile to see if he likes anyone or someone else. also, after a while, just ask who he likes, and if he says why, say just wondering! lol, Ive done that before, and its gotten me a boyfriend, who i have had for 14months and 14days as of today! and we are still going strong! :)

Hope I Helped-
Kels:)

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I'm going to a car show tomorrow with my boyfriend. It's suppose to be 72 degrees. I don't know what to wear, or how I should wear my hair(it's right below shoulder length)
Please help.

capris or jeans w/ cute tennis or flip flops, NO HEELS!! a cute tee or 2 tanks, like layred. and your hair ina "down do" like sides back or up in a cute pony! and bring a hair tie, if you leave it down! and also, bring sun glasses! :)

Hope I Helped-
Kels :)

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this guy i dated 4 a week brokeup with me. it was relly hard 4 me 2 getover him and 2 just move on. i said some rude things 2 him and now i guess u could say he h8s me. i still love him and i really want himback but after what i said 2him he doesnt want me. he called me fat and ugly but i said that i h8ted him. i stll really like him and wan him back. please help me i really need it. i r8 5s!
14/f

tell him that you were really sad about the break up, and thats why you said those things, because you wanted yourself to believe what you were saying, so that you could get over him, but, in all reality, you know that you over reacted, and that you do want him!

Hope I Helped-
if you need anything else, please leave one in my inbox!!

thanks for letting me help you-
always there
Kels:)

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Lately, my rating average on my site is really messed up. The other day I had 65 ratings, and today I have 61. There isn't anyway to delete a rating after giving it, is there? Whenever it says I have let's say 64 ratings now, my average doesn't change at all. I heard some where in your profile settings you can get your average right away. Any clue about that? Help.

if a rating is over 30days old, it gets deleted, and i know, it stinks!! :(

thanks for letting me help you=
Kels

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im asking this question for my friend...

one year ago, when my friend and her family were away, some little girl was walking through the alleyway. my friend's neighbor's dog is really big and scary, so the little girl ran, and jumped my friend's fence to hide from the dog, and as a result, broke her arm and needed surgery.

one year later, my friend's parents get a letter in the mail saying that they will be getting sued because it happened on their property. IT'S NOT EVEN THEIR FAULT. can they fight against this?

the little girl thourght the dog was scarry. you cant controlwhat anyone else thinks, thats imposible-and everyone who isnt living under a rock, knows that. also, if the dog was on a leash, then you are fine. its the girls fault really, because she got scared, of an inniocent dog, and ran over a fence, and broke her arm. and maybe she should have been drinking more milk because maybe thats why her arm broke (but that isnt a great point,its sounds sarcastic,but i am sarcastic lots) anyways, the dog didnt do anything, so they didnt do anything wrong. and thats just stupid. it isnt even worth the $ of getting sued, the parents of the little girl are just stupid I guess.

but i agree that it isnt their fault. if you need anything else, please leave one in my inbox, because i am sure that was sort of confusing!

also, it was the girls fault for being on their property, dur!!! so, its the girls fault, she shouldnt have been there in the first place.
and she should have known that climbing over the fence was a bad idea in the first place!!

thanks for letting me help you!
-Kels

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I need help on deciding on a stage name, my older sister's is Crimson, a shade of red, & I want mine to be a shade a blue, like Cyan or something, but I can't decide, & I'm gonna make my CD after my sister dose, I want her to go profeshinal before I do, since shes older, so I really need help on deciding on stage names... but I've got a while, she hasn't even gottena record deal, but please help!!! I'd like it 2 b a shade of blue cos my sistr's is Crimson

THANKS SO MUCH!!!

-Cameron

hey! this is Kels again, just on another name, so i can answer again! Okay- I am soooooo sorry! I didn't mean to!! please forgive me!! :( okay, well, I have another idea!! red and blue make purple, so if you ever preform together, or make a cd or whatever, it could be "the color purple"

okay, well thats all!

sorry, SIR!!!

Always There-
Kels :)

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Well I don't want to join theatre because I don't want to be known as the dork on stage...But I'm hoping to be discovered by an agent someohow...God works miracles in mysterious ways..that's my only hope for now..but thanks for the advice..

okay, but who will "they" be calling a "Dork on Stage" when you are famous and in movies?!

And, Yes, God Does Indeed Work In Mysterious Ways!

Best Of Luck!!

Leave One In My Inbox If You Ever Need Anything!
-
Kels :)

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I really want to become and actor...but I haven't seen any agents or anything...I might want to do The Starlet or something or hopefully, someone will discover me because I really want this...does anyone know what you have to do to be an actress...besides memorize lines? Also, I need to know how to cry on cue..I rate..

try getting involved in plays and theater at school, and ask the drama teacher there for help, if you are no longer in school look in your local news paper, or check online for a drama center localy by you! also, try taking a creative arts class, with dancing and singing ect. that should help!

if you ever need anything else, leave me one! i would be more than happy to help!

thanks for letting me help you-
Kels :)

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hi im 15 and my boyfriends 16. although many adults say that us teens dont know what love is teens know when their in love. i just want peoples opinions (teens and adults) on if teens know what love is and also me and my boyfriend are really in love and its NOT lust. we know it. anyways we decided we were going to have sex (no my boyfriends not like that hes never pushed me into sex ever) but were not having sex for the fun of it we really do love eachother. please give us ur thoughts and please dont be mean thanx!~Kelley

I am inlove with my boyfriend. I am 15 and he is 17. and we have been together almost 15months. but we arnt going to have sex until we are married.

I really go love my boyfriend!

hope I Helped-
Kels:)

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hi im 15 and my boyfriends 16. although many adults say that us teens dont know what love is teens know when their in love. i just want peoples opinions (teens and adults) on if teens know what love is and also me and my boyfriend are really in love and its NOT lust. we know it. anyways we decided we were going to have sex (no my boyfriends not like that hes never pushed me into sex ever) but were not having sex for the fun of it we really do love eachother. please give us ur thoughts and please dont be mean thanx!~Kelley

I am inlove with my boyfriend. I am 15 and he is 17. and we have been together almost 15months. but we arnt going to have sex until we are married.

I really go love my boyfriend!

hope I Helped-
Kels:)

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hi im 15 and my boyfriends 16. although many adults say that us teens dont know what love is teens know when their in love. i just want peoples opinions (teens and adults) on if teens know what love is and also me and my boyfriend are really in love and its NOT lust. we know it. anyways we decided we were going to have sex (no my boyfriends not like that hes never pushed me into sex ever) but were not having sex for the fun of it we really do love eachother. please give us ur thoughts and please dont be mean thanx!~Kelley

I am inlove with my boyfriend. I am 15 and he is 17. and we have been together almost 15months. but we arnt going to have sex until we are married.

I really go love my boyfriend!

hope I Helped-
Kels:)

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I want to put my advice column in my AIM profile but I just don't want to see a regular link. does anyone know of anyway i could make the link into a word like advice or something??

there are some links on the site, on the left hand side of the page, you go downto the bottom, and its under "link to us" and there are some in there!!!!!

Hope I Helped-
Kels :)

also, what the girl before me said, works too, but i didnt know what you were asking for!!

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Alright, well i'm doing a school research paper about Boston. I'm from Boston, so I can't really do it because I don't think we're different. Anyone from any other states that Mass, could you tell me some of the common Boston sterotypes? Thank you so much!

I dont understand but if you are asking for a common bosten sterotype, here are a few.

1- accent
2-broadway
3-dancers
4-either gang or rich

i think...

well, i sure hope i helped!
*Kels* :)

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ok .. this might be a little confusing but im sorry! lets say im lydia and my sister is brittany. There are 3 guys involved in this. Lets say their names are billy, mitch, and john. Well i used to go out wiht john but we broke up like 5 months ago. Long story about us but to make it short, my dad didnt like him adn told him to never talk to me again. So of course he hasnt. Well now my dad said i can talk to john again, and i really want to because i still like him! billy and mitch are both of his friends. Well over last summer, mitch liked my sister, then when me and john broke up, mitch started liking me. Now mitch likes me and my sister. i like mitch, but not as a boyfriend, yet im jealous when he likes other girls. About billy, Billy likes me, but he doesnt know that i like him. The other day one of billy friends called me and said billy liked me and asked if i liked him. I said no even tho i do. Now billy thinks i dont like him, so he said he doesnt want to go out with me. He now says im hott and he likes me but doesnt want to go out with me. (because i said i didnt like him). Its all really confusing but i dont know what to do. Wednesday i am going to try to talk to billy and john but should i tell both of them i like them? I like john way more but i think john has a girlfriend. Please help the best you can. Any advise is welcome!! thanks so much!

Dear: "Let's Say I'm Lydia", (Cute name by the way)
I would have to say- to just tell everyone the truth, and try to sort things out. It does seem a little confusing. But I have been in a situation like you before too, and so have a few of my friends. Just try to talk them threw it, and if they dont help, or understand, then thats their own loss, and you are too good for them :)

If You Ever Need Anything Else, Please Drop One In My Inbox!!!

I really hope that I Helped-
Thanks For Letting me Help!!
Always There-
(Best Of Luck!!)
-Kels:)

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