HI! im 15 years old! i have many friends that have helped me through alot of drama in middle school n high school life! I have been through alot of stuff that I can hopefully help you out with!!!
E-mail: lilangel412@mail.com
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IM STARTING HIGH SCHOOLL!!!
What are osem ways to get really popular?!?! (link)
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just be yourself..popularity isnt everything.just pay attention to ur school work b\c in the future it wont matter if u were popular or not being successful is what matters.
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My hair has been extra tangled lately. In the morning it takes 10 minutes to brush out my wet hair. Can anyone suggest some products to cure this problem. My first thought was Johnson & Johnson's No More Tangles shampoo, but isn't that for little kids? (link)
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hey infusium 23 leave in conditioner works good..and thermasilk shampoo and conditioner REALLY works good....my hair is down to the middle of my back n it always gets tangled n when i use thermasilk it works!
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I'm going into high school next year and want to try out for cheerleading because I've been doing gymnastics for a while. Does anybody know what requirements are needed to make it on the team? (link)
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hey whats up...ok well anyways it depends on the school but for my school i had to do a cheer..school song...2 jumps toe touch for sure..n i fu can tumble which is a plus..more points..anyways good luck hope u make it..oh n MAKE SURE YOU SMILE!!!!!!!!!!
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What do u do when the guy youve been going out with dumped you cause he wanted someone hotter?
age 13 gender female (link)
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hey hun whats up! i went through this to...just think your better than all those other girls think your hotter think positively about it and think that there are guys out there that will fall in love with you..one thing you cannot do is think negatively...it helps
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Okay well im turning 13 and guys just dont seem to like me... they have intrests in lots of my other friends but just not me... guys have never really liked me, im not sure why though, not to sound vain but im not ugly, am i doing something wrong?! (link)
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hey! well middle school is a hard time because all the guys care about is popularity n if your fast or not. Dont worry your time will come. My time came in my freshman year guys started talking to me more. its not much of a popularity contest in high school as it is in middle school.. hope i helped
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My period started early today and im going shopping tomorrow!! It wouldnt be a problem or anything but i have really heavy periods and the 2nd day is always the heaviest. Tomorrow is gonna be the 2nd day! im not calling it off because i cant let my friends down and ive wanted to get some cds and stuff im buying tomorrow for ages. any suggestions, like how i can cope and what i should do?! and when i say heavy i mean really heavy as have to use night pads in the day and change them every 2 hours. (link)
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if ur not to scared try using super plus tampons and pads. mine is like that to n it sucks. also at the shopping place they have bathrooms so just bring stuff in ur purse n change it..takes 5 minutes tops no big deal
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this is a question directed to the cheerleaders..
does anyone know any effecitve and quick ways to increase the height of my jumps? (link)
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hey whats up? i had this same problem..ok so just stretch out each night REALLY GOOD n do like 5 jumps a day n they should get better each n every time! hope i helped
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This may be long and I will try and not confuse you. My parent got a divorce like 2 years ago and are still going to court and everything for money cause my dad didnt pay for awhile ( he got caught up in drugs and had a lot of crack whores at his house, friend married one and also his friends son almost got shot cause a bunch of blacks *not offense but these people should be dead* wanted drug money or something) anyways i wanted them to get a divorce cause how i see it i dont have a dad. A dad isnt a person your scared when he comes home and u have packed extra clothes for when you get sick of it and run away again. *wow this sounds like a sob story* well we didnt talk for almost two years until i stupidly bought him and christmas gift and had a friend bring me over to his house he bought. He wanted me to blow off my friend and stay with him (he is an alcoholic and was on the verge of getting abusive again) so finally as politly as i could i told him that i already had plans and had to leave. we traded numbers (i hate being rude) and he called a few times i really didnt answere them. then after about 6 months he calls up to tell me he is dying 6 months to a year he has left to live. yeah i know i should be spending every moment with him. that night we went out i had an ok time he made me drive :( then while eating he tells me i need to lose about 20 pounds (im 145 but really athletic and used to be anorexic when i was little) did i also mention i start smoking ciggerates and cutting myself at 8 and drinking around 9. ive stop smoking i cant allow myself to be addicted to something and i dont drink as much. ok maybe i added stuff that dont belong but im trying to show what all im going through. Nows my question *finally* should i start talking to my dad again since he's dying but when we talk all i heard is whats your mother saying about me, why wont you come over im dying, let do this cause im dying. now i sound cold hearted. Any thoughts would really help im so freaking confused. sorry its so long. (link)
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ok so i would hang out if my dad was dying in 6 months to a year. because after he passes away you may regret not spending time with him.. now if he gets abusive and drinks and doesnt spend time with you then you could leave because you shouldnt be goin through that. hope i helped
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hey i recently got spacers and one of them came out the next day, and so we put it back in but it did the same thing it did the first time and came back out again. is this normal? will it delay my braces? thanks. (link)
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hey its normal but schedule an orthodonist appointment to get it replaced...mine came out from eating steak a few times. I dont think it will delay b\c my 3rd time they came out was a few days before i had to get my braces so i just waited n she put a spacer in that day i went to get my braces left it there a few minutes n took it out....
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hey im 15, and i was wondering can teenagers get breast cancer? like on my left breast i feel like some bump on the inside or something but i dont know if its really a bump and it hurts a little in that area. i was wondering could that be breast cancer? im really worried and i want to know, if any of you know what can that be, maybe its just that my breasts are still growing or something i really dont know. please help me.
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i dont know about the bump ur probably fine i have never heard of a 15 yo getting breast cancer...as for the pain you can get that if ur having that time of the month ...its one of the symptoms mine always do weeks before i get that time of the month.
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I believe in sex after marriage, but my boyfriend is persisiting i have sex with him. He aggrivates me ALL the time and I can see myself giving in. I know I will regret it as soon as I've done "the deed". I'm confused as to what I should do; should I choose the easy option and give in? or go by my wishes and wait? (link)
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dont do it!!! you will regret it n then u will feel guilty. i know if that happened i would be 30 years old n regret that i did it..look more towards the future n not the present.you will feel better about yourself.
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My boyfriend an I have made plans for the future. I never ask for advice, I rather give it.. but I find myself at a loss of words when him and I tackle a few subjects. Our relationship is amazing, everything is going right, and is headed in a positive direction. However, for quite some time now.. I've believed strongly in a few select topics. And he refuses to be open-minded about these things. He relies on the excuse, "It's how I was brought up." I'm sorry if it's being unsympathetic, but I just don't see that as an excuse. He's an adult, he can make up his own mind. Everytime we talk about these things, it starts a debate, which neither of us can seem to win. If there would be one thing that would end our relationship, it would be this. He denies that he's closed-minded and it's a pointless argument everytime to him, but he refuses to change and I refuse to be okay with this. Any advice? (link)
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i say respect him n his decision....n if he was brought up that way then u might not be able to change it.
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hi!! omg..in the middle of the night of when im in bed and i stretch..i get a cramp on the bottom of my left or right leg and it hurts like hell. i swear to God it hurts so bad i want to yell but it hurts to bad to yell and i just hold it and its like rock hard i dont know what to do and the pain is just soo unbearable im like OWWWW oh godd....soemoen please help me i dont wanna get another one!! and they happen outta nowhere! someone please please help me! (link)
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hey your getting charlie horses or w\e there called....i get cramps in my calf muscle if thats where your talking about....standing up n walking around helps me. dont worry about them they happen to everyone.
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There is a new girl in my school. She was recently expelled from her Catholic school because she got an abortion. One of my friends was friends with her for a while since they lived near eachother and now she's coming to my school. I have my opinions about alot of things and abortion I have a very strong opinion about it and I'll argue my point until my face is blue. I'm 1000% against unless you were raped or you are having difficulties with your pregnancy and it could cost you your own life. Just by knowing this, I already do not like her because of that reason and that reason only. My friends all know that if they were to get pregnant and get an abortion, I would probably never speak to them again. I am not a virgin, but I do know that if I was ever to get pregnant, I would never get an abortion reguardless of my situation. I just think it's wrong. But please, do not bash me because of my beliefs just answer me this, could you at the very least understand why I wouldn't want to be friends with her? Is it wrong for me to feel this way? (link)
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the people that are for abortion i hope you know your killing a person n thou shall not murder...thats one of the ten commandments....not a good idea...i am totally against abortion! go bush!
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Okay im new at this but im going to give it a try. I am a sophmore and i am goin out with this guy we've been going out for almost 4 months now. Well there is this girl who USED to be my friend and talks about me all the time and im getting sick of it well i just found out the other day that she has a "plan" to get me and my boyfriend to break up. i dont know what to do??? please help me i'll rate high!! thank you so much (link)
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yup i know what your talking about! talk to your boyfriend and tell him whats going on...if he likes you he wont listen to your ex - friend.
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is it wrong to love a baseball player thats a year younger than me?
*honest oppinion needed*
i rate high (link)
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i think its alright to date somebody a year younger because you cant help your feelings...if you think about it, in the future if your a few years older or younger it doesnt matter. so just follow your heart.
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can sum1 please tell me when a disposable razor needs to be disposed of? i've 13/f and i've never used a disposable razor before.. whats a way to check if its dull or how do you know when you should throw it out? thanks (link)
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usually you have to throw out your razor when you have to press down to make it work good. so when you get to the point where you have to put alot of pressure on you razor throw it out and get a new one.
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ok well i have this friend aaron and we're really close he's always there for me and he's always watching out for me. Well my boyfriend and me just broke up 3 days ago and we got backtogether the day after we broke up because he told me he would change blah blah blah...and like aaron was gonna call me at 2:30 in the morning just to wae me up and make me mad and i didnt think he would so i put up an away message on AIM and said "trying to stay up till 2:30 to see if fag will call me" well my boyfriend saw it and called me at 3 wanting to know who it was and i told him and he sounded cool well then he called me at 4 and goes you like aaron and i was like no and he goes wel since u can stay up and talk to him and not me im gonna go and hung up
but i feel really bad about what happend...
can anybody give me any advice..
sry for the length
ill rate all 5 to anything thats not mean!
THANKS! (link)
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Ok well I think your boyfriend is overreacting. Talk to him n reassure him that you n him are cool! Explain to him what happened!
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