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Question Posted Saturday April 16 2005, 3:30 am

this guy i dated 4 a week brokeup with me. it was relly hard 4 me 2 getover him and 2 just move on. i said some rude things 2 him and now i guess u could say he h8s me. i still love him and i really want himback but after what i said 2him he doesnt want me. he called me fat and ugly but i said that i h8ted him. i stll really like him and wan him back. please help me i really need it. i r8 5s!
14/f


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Kels answered Saturday April 16 2005, 10:28 pm:
tell him that you were really sad about the break up, and thats why you said those things, because you wanted yourself to believe what you were saying, so that you could get over him, but, in all reality, you know that you over reacted, and that you do want him!

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ur_MY_weakness answered Saturday April 16 2005, 10:53 am:
that must really hard on you. tell your friends that it was wrong and you didnt mean anything that you said and you want him back to spread it around i mean one of them as to tell him but if not try talking to him say you sry and you miss him so much but in school try talking to him say your sorry DONT GIVE HIM DIRTY LOOKS!

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Karen answered Saturday April 16 2005, 10:42 am:
I'm sorry to say but if a girl says something mean/rude to a guy, then there is no possibility of you getting back with this guy. You need to move on and since you only went out with him for a week, it will be easier to move on. There are so many other guys out there that won't call you fat and ugly if you don't say anything that offends them. Now you know what to expect in these types of situations. If you still really like this guy, then write him a note, explaining how you feel and apologize to him some way and put it in his locker and he will read it. If he accepts your apology, then you may get him back but after what happened, he probably moved on.

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LoveNJstyle answered Saturday April 16 2005, 10:11 am:
well i understand but you dont "love" him. ive been with my b/f for a month and im not completely in love with him as much as a care about him. if hes says rude things to you, you shouldnt want him back. thats not love. calling you fat and ugly shouldnt make you attracted to him and if i got that from ANYONE i would dump them. you could apologize for what u said if you want to be friends but i wouldnt get too attached to this guy. this is an opinion...probably not what you wanted to hear <3

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sunshine1232 answered Saturday April 16 2005, 9:00 am:
well you just dated him for a week i don't think that he got a chance to really get to know you and to see how your personality is and everything i would either call him up if you have his phone number or if you see him say "i am sorry for what i did and i want to give you another chance and i will do anything to make this relationship work between us".

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angelmejessica answered Saturday April 16 2005, 8:28 am:
you dont love him, you might really like him but just get over him. you are only 14, you are still young. maybe if you get a new bf, he will get jealous and realize what he lost. act like you are too good for him. <3

&hearts;

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mrs_radcliffe answered Saturday April 16 2005, 7:42 am:
Sorry to say i dont think you two have another chance, So i think you should just leave it. I think because you said all them things to him you made it worse and thats why he hates you and probley doesnt want to go out with you again sorry to say. Find someone else.

luv roxie
XxX&hearts;XxX

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nicolenicolenicole answered Saturday April 16 2005, 6:42 am:
u went out with him for a week and you think you loved him.. let him go you obsessive freak! jus tell him your sorry and you only said it because you were cut at him, it was only for a week that you guys went out for he must be awesome if he was hard to get over after that

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