ok..ive been dating a guy for 2 years and i luv him so much!! all weve done is kiss and make out. but i want things to move a little faster, like i want 2 give him a handjob or blowjob or something. but i dont know how to aproach asking him, or if he'll let me do it. hes kind of prude, but sometimes hes wild so i dont know if i should put it off or ask him or just do it or what, and i want 2 still date him..but if he says no then itll be so awkward around him. please help!
K2204 answered Saturday April 16 2005, 8:07 pm: well, if you have been going out with him for like 2 years, you should just be able to talk to him about it!! so, go ahead and do it!!
bootygirl341 answered Saturday April 16 2005, 3:41 pm: firstable never ask a guy "could i do this and that" never ever.....while you kiss just put your hands in the wrong places and then take it from there....if he will want you to stop you'll know it [ bootygirl341's advice column | Ask bootygirl341 A Question ]
karenR answered Saturday April 16 2005, 3:29 pm: Just hang in there and wait. I know it's hard to do but he may not be ready for all that. And if he is and isn't pushing you....what a catch! He must have a great deal of respect for you, and love you very much. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
ThugGirl041790 answered Saturday April 16 2005, 11:04 am: Hun this is a guy i dont care how prude he might seem.. im sure he's like any other guy.. he'll most likely let you do it.. i wouldnt even ask if i was you.. one day when your making out just move your hand down there when he is kissing you so it'll be something a lil exciting to him.. then keep kiss him and take his pants and what not off.. then you make your decision on weather to give him head or hand job from there.. hope i helped and good luck hun..dez x0x0 [ ThugGirl041790's advice column | Ask ThugGirl041790 A Question ]
angelmejessica answered Saturday April 16 2005, 8:32 am: maybe one day when you two are kissing, you just start unbuttoning his pants. see what he does. and if that doesnt work, just tell him how you feel. i mean you have been dating for 2 years. he should get the picture. ♥ [ angelmejessica's advice column | Ask angelmejessica A Question ]
wondering answered Saturday April 16 2005, 6:16 am: haha .. don't ask . that would be awkward ,i think . =) hmm .. are you two old enough to drink even just a bit ? it would be easier if you got him a little tipsy ( but not drunk ), but try not to drink much yourself . Both of you still need to know what you are doing . Guys are usually wilder when they take a bit of alcohol , and if you really are embarrassed , take a bit too . Remember , don't take too much cos the point is NOT to get drunk or to have sex .Okay when he's a bit tipsy just start kissing him ,a bedroom would be ideal cos its private . pull closer to him and sort of like grind your hips against him , and maybe change the position of one of your hands from where they usually are when you kiss him , and put them at THAT part .If he likes it , most likely he'll start showing it now ( by moaning , or maybe he'll get a boner ) . now use the hand that is at his pants and unbutton / pull down the zip . He should be responding somehow , like by touching you or trying to remove your clothes .Ok now you stop kissing him , and you squat / bend down . This is when you start playing with him . use yor tongue first cos its more of a tease , and then your whole mouth . [ wondering's advice column | Ask wondering A Question ]
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