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My mom is like soooo annoying! She constantly makes me repeat myself and takes everything the wrong way(for example: i'll say something like completely random and not in a mean way or anything and she'll take it as an insult and i'll give her an insult and she thinks its like a joke or something). Also, she still treats me like i'm about 3 years old and I'm actually 14!I try to put up with her the best I can but I usually end up being mad at her for severaly pissing me off. I know it doesn't sound like that big of a deal, but believe you me it gets extremely frustrating after 14 long years! Also she always points out the odvious and asks stupid questions and never listens to any answers! plus I just wanted to send in a question cuz this is my first!:)
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I get mad a lot at my mom too, but it happens a lot when they realize that you are growing up: they don't want to lose the darling daughter that always listened to whatever they said and whatever they told her to do. You need to remember that she's not in the same generation as us, and she won't know that the things we say aren't insults but playful jokes, etc.
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OMg my mom is like that to. I just try to tune her out whenever she gets annoying. Just nod your headand say mmmm hmmm. lol . hope i helped.
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I think any child can feel what ur going thorugh because all mothers are like that. they never want there kids to grow up to fast and leave them. You should try to understand her side to this. But if its really bothering you that bad just talk to her if you dont want to just write her a letter telling her how you feel. I think its best if she reads it while you are out of the house so she can cool down without gettin mad and that way she has time to think. I hope i helped out
love always maria
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(sigh), this sounds like my mom...details and everything! in my case tho, she wants me to be 3 one day and 22 the next and do everything on my own, pay for everything and take care of myself however i can. the stupid questions...bear with them and make sure you have her full attention when you answer. look in her eyes and speak clearly. as for the random things...maybe explain where it comes from or just avoid saying them all together. i know how frustrating it is! i would try talking it out before summer starts b/c then you dont have school as an outlet ad things could get ugly. congrats on ur first question! rate mee. <3
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Listen hun, this is a comman occurance for you to hate your mom. i do to most of the times. its just that your mom is getting old, and she can't remember shit for her life. that's why you need to repeat yourself all the time. and as for the random thingy; once again, she is old, she has no idea what it is like to be 14 in 2005. she isn't up on all of the new stuff that all of us say and do (my parents just started realizing that Snoop Dog talks his little special "languizzle"). your mom is probably treating you like a three year old because she wants you to be a three year old. she is realizing that you are growing up, and that you don't really need her any more. So for now, just try to ignore her when she goes into one of her old lady fits. if her old ladyness is really starting to bother you, let her know. (p.s. sorry about this, i'm kinda pressed for time)
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Ah, this sounds exactly like the problem me and my mom had earlier this year. Try sitting her down and telling her how you feel. Tell her that she frusterates you when she takes things the wrong way and the way she constantly makes you repeat yourself.
Hope that everything works out alright!
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Well, sometimes mothers do get annoying sometimes. They think the worse of what you're doing though it isn't. As for me, i just ignored my mother when she is at that situation though I get really irritated when she gives false accusations against me. Rrrrr. Boy do I get angry but then just the same she's still my mother and I have to exercise patience with her. Try to do the same thing.
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well i think she doesnt want you to grow up, she want to have you as her little daughter you used to be. But look at it this way, at least you have a mom that listens.. or so she seems like she does lol.
h.i.h. and good luck with her ;)
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