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Hi I just got my period, I live withm y dad so its awkward to talkt to him about thta stuff. Can anyone tell me the normal how long it runs, ect stuff like thta\


PLEASE HELP!!

thnaks:) (link)
heyy yeah i know how you feel
i actually dont live with any males in my family but
when my moms bfs comes over i feel so uncomfortable
so i know how you feel if you live with one
Well your period is like a week tops. Sometimes it could be longer since you just got it.
Also use pads. I use always. Its the best out there.
But hey does your father have any gfs? friends? that are girls? if yes why dont you ask them to go to the store with you to get some pads . . and just give you a talk. If not then be sure to comment me anytime with any questions! adOrablexOmaShka

hope i helped

love always mariaa


I gave this girl perfectly good advice and I got a one!! Why are people so rediuclous??? Can people please be reasonalble for once?? (link)
ahhh that sucks im sowwy

yeah i know what you mean people can be so messed up
sometimes. But yeah like the other people said if you take the question off then the rating will be fine.

You see what i do is i answer the questions that
are put in a nice way .. something that is not like
oh i wanna have sex should i do it or not! because most likely those people are fake or gonna rate you low if you dont give them the answer they want to hear. So dont worry about it! i bet you give great advice so keep on giving it !

hope i helped


I was in love with this girl
i went to jail and came back and couldnt stop thinking about her. so i went by her cribe and her mother started crying and gave me a letter
telling me she died of aids and how much she lov3d me! now i dont know what to do? forget about her? (link)
w0w this sounds s0 much like one of my favorite songs! Immortal Technique - You Never Know

But i am really sorry but if it is like the song then never forget her. Hold on to the times you spent with her. She must have loved you and i see you did too because you went back for her after jail! Never forget her love ... and remember TRUE LOVE NEVER REALLY DIES

x0 maria x0


umm ok here goes i have a friend and i was over her house she has a bunch of fish
i was bored so i decided to take one out and by accident dropped it out the window and she was in the kitchen
i dont know what to do i feel guilty but i mean she has a bunch of fish (fishes) w/e the right way to say it is lol
what do i do

fish_killer (link)
Do what feels right! Feeling guilty is a way of telling us to do the right thing! Every person has there own right thing to do. For others your right thing may sound silly but for you its perfect.
I myself would tell her what happened. Shell understand. I mean if she has many of them then she might not even notice and my feeling is if she didnt notcie by now then she wont even care. But its better to tell her the truth!

h0pe i helped

love always maria


my friend has been 2 months late on her period.. she took a pregnancy test and claims shes not pregnant. she said that if there are 2 lines, it means shes pregnant..well i saw 2 lines, one was darker than the other and when i said i saw 2 lines she threw the pregnancy test back in the box. shes been awfully moody lately and has been telling her parents she has gotten her period for the past 2 months. she hasnt been acting the same..im really worried. what do you think? (link)
I understand you really care about your friend, but the reason she might be acting all moody is becuase she might actually be pregnant, and doesnt want to accept that fact. I think you should let her handel this by her self. I really do think you care about her, but the more you get into this she might get really pissed off or upset. Just leave her on her own untill she tells you she wants you there to help. Or as soon as you feel she had enough time to think about everything going on in her life at this time.

hope i helped

love always maria



i have this friend and she jsut went on this trip with our other firend Beth. and i called them cuz i told them i would call them back anyways..well my friend Beth is ahving trouble with like taking and being aournd this boy. well i wanted to give her adivce on it and my friend said that they had to go and i said can i please talk to her and she liek your on speaker and then i srat talking and then im like you get it and i relize that they hung up and like i know this is kinda stupid but like i feel realli left out...but i dont know if i should though and like i am really good friends wiht beth and my other friend and like i was trying to help beth and they jsut hung up on me i feel realli dumb cuz i felt like ot myslef..and im realli upset what should i do????
signed-
really confused=/ (link)
Aww I am sorry babe! Dont get all upset over that. It could have been an accident! You never know. So before getting all sad, you should wait and talk to your friend about it. Ask her what happened. I assure you it probably was an accident especially if she was on a cell phone. Cell phones get bad services just about anywhere and all the time. You shouldnt feel left out because I bet you have great friends and they do care about you its just you need to understand your friend is going through a bad time. I mean imagine you in her shoes. Even if she did hang up it wasnt because she wanted to make you feel left out or upset it was probably because she wasnt thinking. It happens so just try to cool down and call your friend later or better yet wait till she calls you.

hope i helped

love always maria


i like this kid so much for so long now
well im in 8th grade i guess i could say since we all going of to high school next year im never gonna see the guy again and it just makes me miserble to think about that
he acts differently towards me like everyday i just dont know what to do nomore
sometimes he talks to me sometiems he doesnt whats going on with him?
he knows how i feel about him well atleast he did i dont know about now
what do i do please help me

misery... (link)
I say ... Forget about him
i know thats not what you want to hear but
as you said you are in the 8th grade, next year your never going to see him agian.
Even if he does like you or whatver, its going to be hard to each each other more often. That might even end up hurting you, or your Relationship. I honestly dont think you want, nor need that. you say he acts differently to you each day, well that could mean alot of things, he could be nicer to you or try to stay away, but i am guessin hes not being as friendly as before. maybe its just a bad time in his life. family problems maybe uhh? i dont know. school issues. That could be so dont get yourself down becuase of that. Also if hes not into you thats ok becuase there are so many guys out there that might be so in love with you and make you feel like a queen. So dont waste your time babe! go to high school, and find your king!

hope i helped

l0ve maria


theres a boi in my science class who sits next to me and hes been realli nice to be lately and last friday when we walked out of calss he put him arm around me and he was talking to me.and then he was at my locker and we were talkin there...and in class he would talk to me and he would make me laugh and stuff liek that...and he made a joke once that i work for him and druign luc=nch he liek picked me up form my chiar and took me into the lunch room and like sometimes he would like scare me like poking me[like tickling me i cant explain it]. and sometimes like i want attention from him-could he like me?-could i like him?-or is it that i only want attention?-im really confused!? please help!
signed-
love confused (link)
Well the reason that you are confused is becuase
you dont know what you want, or how you feel. Its understandable. I mean of course if you guys flirt
around in class you are going to have some feelings
its only Natural, to have feelings for anyone of the
opposite sex. I honestly think that you want a little bit of both becuase every girl likes that feeling of attention from a guy. I mean i do. Surely its a great feeling. Even if you are not exactly interested in the guy. If you guys have any type of love its more Common to be puppy love. So i say just have fun with it. Go along flirt as much as you feel you need to! Get your attention and if anything is meant to happen it will. So just relex and go with the flow!

h0pe i helped

love always maria



Maria thankz for all your help with the boy trouble! i realzied that u were rite. i need to move on. Thankz agen!! (link)
It was n0 problem

and anytime you have a problem y0u can c0me t0 me


I was going out with this kid for 3 and a half months.I loved him with all my heart. Even thought im only 13 i now i loved him. Everything was going good. I mean he called me everyday and said he loved me and then all of a sudden things changed. He stoped calling me. He called me a hoe and said i was his bitch. He moved on. He never really broke up with me. We had no closer to our relionship. I dont now its soo weird. I still love him and i cant get over him. I mean he has moved on Y cant I?? I think about him 24/7. I dont now whats wrong with me. I cant get over him. I mean he treated me like shyt. People say he was using me for sex and shyt. I told him i would not have sex with him. im not ready for it. i cry my self to sleep somenights. I mean i pretend im all happy and im over him but im not. Can u plzz help me. Thankzz (link)
Sweetheart I don’t know how I can help you because your problem isn’t very easy to fix. It has to do a lot with your feelings. But I am going to try my best because it seems as if you are very unhappy and you shouldn’t be. You’re very young and I bet beautiful. Live your life to the fullest. Don’t get stuck on some loser which he is for having the nerves to call you a bitch/hoe. He treated you wrong you need to remember that.He doesnt Deserve you at all. you deserve so much better. You say you love him but Hun its only love if both of you feel that way, and he apparently he doesn’t. And never did. You say he’s over you. No he’s not because he never really did have you in order to be over you. I don’t want to judge the kid because I personally don’t know him but I can assure you that he was indeed using you for sex. Once you let him know you’re not easy, he took the easy way out of the relationship and called you a bitch, hoe and whatever. Only because he got pissed off. Well you did the right thing and I am very proud of you. Most girls would do anything for a guy if she thought she was in love with him. Also for every tear you cry it just makes you stronger. It may seem foolish now but when you’ll get over this you’ll laugh about this, because there are so many worst problems you may have to face. All I have to say is keep your head up high, forget him because he isn’t wroth your, tears, your time, and most importantly your heath.

Good luck

Hope I helped

And if you ever need to talk im me anytime

Love always Maria


lets call me MISS i have this friend she lives next to a place filled with books lets call that a library!
i need a book from there for my exit project but im so lazy to go get it!
should i ask her to get the book for me
what if she says no what should i do?

XMISS_CONFUSSEDX (link)
Hello Xmiss_confussedX

Well if you need a book from the library
and its your exit project then you go get it.

Unless you have a good reason for not having enough
time to go by yourself but i see you said you are
lazy! hmm sweetie i dont think thats a good enough reason. But if your friend is nice enough to get
it why dont you ask her. But honestly you should stop being lazy and get the books yourself.

Just being honest here

Love always maria


maria girl i love you. you know i do. its true.
no matter what i do to hurt you i really do love you
i know you might not be sure who this is becuase alot of boys like you. i just want you to know i really do care. (link)
w0w! firSt off i am n0t sure wh0 this isS?

but umm w0w. ThankSS i gueSs but wh0 ever you are

i bet if you care about me so much to put it on a site then i must have feelings for you or at least care and if i dont know that you like me then please tell me face to face or online if you wish. I dont mind. And i am sure that you do care. and i respect you for letting me now.


I am in 13, and in the seventh grade. What do I do if the girl that I like, has just kissed another guy, FIVE TIMES? I feel uncomfortable around her now, especially since she knows I like her. I don't know if I should support her, or if maybe I should just give up liking her. What do you think? (link)
ahhh im sorry kido
yeah since i am a girl i might have an idea why she did what she did. I mean i rememeber myself in 7th grade. i am only in 8th now but i have grown alot since 7th. She actually mite have feelings for you and just wanted to make you Jealous. i know it may sound messed up but thats just how some girls are.
But i dont know. i think its kind of silly. I think you should just give up becuase if she does like you and she sees that making you jealous didnt work she might tell you how she really feels and if she doesnt like you then dont waste your time on her.
You seem like a cool kid. So dont worry.
you'll find another girl to like

hope i helped

love always maria


Ok my hair just always feels so... i dont know like not as nice. Like everyone elses hair is so shiny and like reflects the sunlight. Its just so silky. Mine just feels more yucky i guess. Mine isnt like that. ugh. DOes anyone have any good suggestions like good conditioners or anything? THANKS SOOO MUCH!! I really need help! Ps. I take a shower every day if that helps (link)
hey hun
wow i know what you mean
my hair use to be such a mess. Gosh i remember looking at everybodys hair and then looking at mines and thinking what am i doing wrong?! well dont worry
i have some tips. First off dont wash your hair everyday. Thats one of the reasons your hair doesn't shine nor is it silky. Try washing your hair every two days. You can still take a shower everyday as you should but dont wet your hair. Also try using more then one conditioner. Now i know this may sound silly but it works .. after you wash your hair take a cup of apple cider vinegar and pour it on your hair then wash it off with coldish warm water.
It really gives your hair that shine that you seek.
Dont worry it works. Its a russian secret. But i am here to share it with you. By the way dont worry after you wash your hair with cold water your hair wont smell like vinegar. Thats what i thought too. But it wont dont worry.

good luck

hope i helped

and if any problems or questions

just comment me or im me anytime

love always maria


My hair is blonde and goes down to about my shoulders. Im thinking about getting my hair layered, but i need a good idea of what I want my hair to look like. DO you have any links or pics of what i should get my hair cut like? THX SOOO MUCH GUYS!!! YOUR A LIFESAVER!! I rate high! (link)
awww it sounds like your hair will lo0k great with layers. I actually have alot of friends with layers and i myself have layers so if you want some pictures just im me 0n aim adOrablexOmaShka
if y0u dont have aim ill be sure to email them to you. If that doesnt seem to help then when you go get your hair done talk to the person cutting your hair im sure they will have ideas and many pictures.

hope i helped

love always maria

mwaaa


My heels on my feet are seriously cracked and dry. Its disgusting. How can I make my feet smooth for summer? Are there any lotions/treatmants you recommend? (link)
ahhh sorry t0 hear about y0ur pr0blem
i get that to0 sometimess s0 i use
Cocoa butter with aloe and vitamin E lotion
itSs f0r intensive moisturizing, relief from dry
skin. Its the beSt i use it all the time and its
not only for your feet! y0u can use it anywhere.
Your hands, arms, legs, Its just great.
You can get it at any drug store. You'll be ready for summer in no time


i have the worst time getting up in the morning. I fall asleep around ten and TRY to wake up at 6:30. my alarm will go off, ill wake up, but then i go back to sleep till 7:15 and miss the bus. Can anybody help me wake up better in the morning? (link)
Well i also have this problem except i go to bed at 1 am or 12 am lol and gotta wake up at 6:20am
Because i know its hard for me to get up so i wake up early so that i can prentend sleep as i like to call it then around 6:35 my mom wakes me up so maybe you should like ask your mom to help wake you up
or dad or whoever. Also its better if you wake up early that way if you fall asleep your mom can wake you up at 6:30


Everyone is always saying "I hate tanlines" blah blah blah. Is it wierd that I actually like them? Like if you wear a tube top after wearing a bathing suit that ties around your neck, or if you had cris cross straps on your back. I think its kind of like a sign that you tan. idk, I think its kind of cool...is that wierd? I don't like tanning lines after you wear shorts, or a farmers tan... (link)
I l0ve tan linesS itSs n0t weird what s0 ever

i think itSs very cute and showsS that y0u did tan

and that you warn't born like that

that you actually earned that tan from many

hourSs in the sun hehe



I am going out with this guy who is in 9th grade and i am in 7th. I only get to see him on sundays, wednesdays, and sumtimes on friday and saturdays. I call him everyday but he never calls me. He thinks i might be prude but i never know when the right time to kiss him is. i am not prude and i dont know how to get this through his head! HELP!! i rate high if you dont have an answer that says just talk to him about it! (link)
Hunny you got to show this guy whos boss lol
as i would say it! dont let him think of you like that! Just the next time you see him right away just kiss him! he will get turned on as fast as you can say hello. It would be cute if you do it when he starts to say something just like pull him to you and kiss him. And if he pulls away and says something just say shut up and kiss him some more lol that should really be cute and youll prove to him that just becuase ur a 7th grader doesnt mean you cant kiss just as well and i bet better then all the 9th grade girls!

good luck hope i helped

love maria


sometimes when i pop my pimples, they turn into dark spots. some of the dark spots last for like a couple of weeks, but others seem like they're permanent.

i'm currently using neutrogena vicibly even moisturize wit spf 15 and neutrogena acne mark peel, but they dont seem to be working well...

is there anything i can do or buy that will help me get rid of the dark spots faster?

oh and also, are they permanent???

thanks muchh (link)
I would have to say not to pop your own pimples
Becuase when you do it you most likly pop them
the wrong way and right after you do it you have to put on a mask. So its better if you not pop them unless you read more about how to do it! i would say if it bothers you that much go get a facial.
About the black stuff dont worry it will go away after time. The best way is to get a tan on your face. It will make the scars look better and stop more pimples from coming! Also you should try different kinds of face cleaners. Its better to have at least 3 different kinds.

hope i helped

love maria




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