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Well my bf of over six months is leaving for the summer. Im not gonna be able to talk to him or see him all sumer till he comes back. So I'm thinking do we stay together or should I just tell him well see what happens when he gets back (not necciseraly breaking up)or should we just stick it out all summer and stay together. we both love each other very much Im confussed what should we do? I rate 5's! (link)
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Well, this all turns to the question, Do you trust him? If you trust him, then you should stick it out. If you don't trust him, tell him that you do want to see him, but you'll have to see what happens when he gets back.
Hope everything works!
-Trin
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I hae to close friends that are pregnant. Unfortunantly one was raped and the other one was by her boyfriend. They are both considering abortion. Why is it that people think it is all right for my friend who was raped to get an abotion and the other one isn't. Both are still killing and innocent child...Please help me understand the difference!! (link)
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Some people think that its ok for someone who go pregnant by a rapist because it wasn't their fault and it wasn't their choice. They didn't want to risk getting pregnant. They were forced to take that risk.
For someone who got pregnant by their boyfriend, they think its wrong because, they willingly took that risk, by willingly having sex with this person.
Basically it comes down to being forced to take the risk of getting pregnant and willingly taking that risk.
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Are girls scared of erections? I mean if you're making out and they feel one, would they be freaked out? (link)
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It depends on the girl and the situation. Like where does she feel it? If its an all of the sudden thing, it might startle her. I'm a girl and personally, it wouldn't freak me out. I'd be proud... I think.
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When you are having intercourse, does it matter if the girl is on the bottom or the top? What positions are are best for the guy and the girl? Me and my girlfriend have decided (after going out a year) to have sex and I don't want to mess up or hurt her. I've heard sex hurts the girl. Will she bleed? Also, does sex hurt the guy? I sound stupid, but the doesn't mean I'm not ready. I love her and that's as ready as I can be. I just want to know how to give her my best. -MB- (link)
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It doesn't matter if the woman is on top or bottom. It all has to do with preference. Some prefer to be on top and some prefer to be on bottom.
As for hurting her, it might hurt her a little, so go slow at first. If you're afriad that you're hurting her, ask her to tell you when it hurts to you can stop and let her become ajusted to you. It depends on her body, she may bleed and she may not bleed. You can't really tell until it happens.
Sex won't hurt you, so you don't have to worry about that one.
Hope everything works!
-Trin
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Okay, so I played the lead character opposite a guy friend of mine in our school's spring play. The only problem was, we were good friends before, but we had to actually kiss onstage, no stage kissing, no angling it - it was real.
The first time he kissed me, it was during an excercise we were doing for our drama teacher to "develop our characters' relationship," and we both got really into it.
The day after that, he wouldn't look at me, and ever since then our friendship has been...awkward? I mean like, we used to talk about everything, now every conversation we have seems to be awkward and forced, almost as if we're afraid to talk.
The play's over now, and our friendship is sort of going back to normal, but there's still a little...awkwardness to it. I never got a crush on him, but my character definitely liked his character, and his definitely liked mine. But we never liked each other as who we really are...if that makes any sense...Why do you think all the awkwardness happened? I'm just curious to see what you all think. (link)
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More than likely, its just because you two had to kiss each other and you've never thought about each other in that light. Try talking to him. It might turn out that you two do like each other and just don't want to admit it or just didn't know about it.
Hope everything works!
-Trin
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i am starting to like this guy but no one knows. he sits next to me in one of my classes, and yea we flirt =] but one of my good friends has started coming over to my seat lately before class and really flirting with him and he flirts with her.. and the last couple days its been really bothering me b/c she never came to talk to me (but really she just talks to him) until him. should i say anything..? what else should i do? (link)
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Well, if she doesn't know that you like him, tell her so that she knows that you do. If she doesn't like him and she's a good friend, she'll stop flirting with him. If she does like him, then you'll both have to sit down and talk about what you should do. Don't let it turn into a battle of who's going to get him first. That's the worse thing that you could do. Just sit down and talk about it!
Hope everything works!
-Trin
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Ok i have this friend that is like a big drinker and i try to get her to stop but it is just not working what should i do. if you can help write. M.Lee (link)
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If she's under 21, you need to get her help. Talk to her parents. She may hate you at that moment in time, but she'll thank you later for saving her life, in a sense. She definatly needs to stop drinking. She'll see that you are a good friend for helping her!
Good luck!
-Trin
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I think I am pregnant what do I do what are the other side effects beside a missed peiord please help me out
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-throwing up
-dizziness
-headache
-fever
-nausea
-diarrhea
-gaining weight
-eating more (being more hungry and just wanting food)
-sore breasts
-mood swings
-sensitive (emotional)
-morning sickness
Your best bet for finding out is to go to a doctor and they'll tell you what to do to find out.
Hope that everything works out for you hunny!
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ok so my boyfriend and me have been going out for about a month and a half or so.. he goes to a different school and hes 16, im 13.. i loved him sooo much! last night i was talking to him online and i asked if he was gonna come and meet me at the ice skating rink (where i always meet him) and he said "maybe, i might go to the mall with some friends instead but if we dont go then ill come see you." i felt kind of offended by this that he wanted to go see his friends instead of me. i can only see him on friday nights so if he didnt come i wouldnt see him till next friday (if he decided to come) and so i was like oh, alright i guess. then later that night i was talking to one of his friends... (not a very good friend tho) i only met him last weekend when my boyfriend wasnt at the ice skating rink... we talked for like 5 minutes... then when we were talking online last night he asked if i was goin ice skating.. i said probably not, he asked why and i told him about me being kinda mad about john not going. so then i ask what jake has said about me to him. chris, (the guy im talkin to online) says he wont tell me what john said about me because he doesnt want to hurt me. i finally get him to tell me what jake does on the nights when he doesnt go to the rink with me. he tells me that john has been seeing another girl and goes to hook up with her and only comes and sees me if shes not availiable. im so upset when i hear this... but i think his friend likes me so i dont know if hes telling the truth... but john never tells me where he goes when he doesnt come.. it all makes sence... both stories do... i dont know what to do... (link)
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Well, its possible that this guy does like you and is telling this to you to get you to break up with your boyfriend, so be careful when you decide whether you believe him or not. For the fact of your boyfriend, ask him about it. You'll be able to tell if he is being honest with you. He won't be able to look you in the eye when he replies to you.
Hope everything works out!
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i am a 16 yr. old male. i am 6 ft. so i am thinking i dont have much more growing to do. my body is well developed. but anyways...i have developed a hard bump in my left nipple. some people have told me that its from peuberty and they all had it in like middle school. but i find that hard to believe b/c i wasnt a late bloomer or anything. and im just now getting it? is this normal? (link)
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It could be normal, but you might what to have the doctor or nurse at school check it out. Even though your a male, it is possible that you do have some sort of breast cancer. So have a doctor check it asap!
Good luck!
Trin
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my father abuses me what should i do (link)
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Definatly tell the police! If you don't, he will probably continue to abuse you! He has NO right to abuse you in any way, shape or form! If you can't tell the police, tell someone that you trust. Like your mother, sister, brother, uncle, aunt, a friend's parent, teacher, just tell someone!
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My mom is like soooo annoying! She constantly makes me repeat myself and takes everything the wrong way(for example: i'll say something like completely random and not in a mean way or anything and she'll take it as an insult and i'll give her an insult and she thinks its like a joke or something). Also, she still treats me like i'm about 3 years old and I'm actually 14!I try to put up with her the best I can but I usually end up being mad at her for severaly pissing me off. I know it doesn't sound like that big of a deal, but believe you me it gets extremely frustrating after 14 long years! Also she always points out the odvious and asks stupid questions and never listens to any answers! plus I just wanted to send in a question cuz this is my first!:) (link)
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Ah, this sounds exactly like the problem me and my mom had earlier this year. Try sitting her down and telling her how you feel. Tell her that she frusterates you when she takes things the wrong way and the way she constantly makes you repeat yourself.
Hope that everything works out alright!
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