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Your life consists of the beginning, middle and end. It's always great to get of to a good start and it's important to finish of well but it's the middle of your life that counts. That is exactly why I'm here to make sure that all of you make the most of your life.

No i'm fuckin around thats a pile of shit. Hence my name and all that . LIFES A BITCH! My friends!

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I am having a party in two weeks because its the end of the school year. I have this one friend who I just met this year. I really like her and I want to invite her to my party. The only problem is that some of my friends dont like her. They think she is annoying. I really want her at my party but I dont want to upset my friends either. Some of my friends said they wont come if she is there. I really want my new friend there but I also want my other friends to have a good time and come. What should I do? Thanks for your help!

hey, i'm sort of in the same position 1 of my best fiends doesn't like my other best friend who really does nothing to offend her. Lifes a bitch. The only advice I can give is to do what you want, they are all your friends and invited them all, why not?. I understand that you want everyone to be comfortable at your party. If your other friends refuse to come beacuse you invite the other girl, thats their problem and their just bein bloody well imature (sorry bot the language!) They'll relise what their missing by not going and they'll probably fell really shit beacause they missed your party. By the way they are not true friends if they can't except your decision to be friends with some1 else and don't come to your party.
sorry bot not bein to nice bot your other friends but i'm in the same position and it pisses me off.
Hope I helped. rate me, don't mean to sound foward but no one else does

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Oh um i wear mostly sweatshirts cuz they are comfy and fit me right..cuz tight shirts look funny on my cuz of my curve in my back..-kittygurl90

yeah same here. I was reading your advice column, very good by the way and I saw that you are going for an operation. Good luck, cuz God that brave. Everytime someone says operation to me I freak out, I just don't think I have the will power to go through with it.

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I'm a fourteen-year old female I have a girlfriend that I really love but never see. When she talks about sex, she reminds me of my rapist so we haven't had sex yet and I don't think I want to. Every time we talk about getting together she talks about sex, but she writes me poetry and she's really loving. She's suicidal and I feel like protecting her. She hasn't come out to her parents yet and I think she feels safe with me. What should I do? She sort of creeps me out, mostly because she cares about sex so much. I'm a virgin save for my molestation when I was 7 through 8. I don't think she gets that I'm touchy about it, no pun intended (dark humor, sorry). I used to cut myself but I stopped, and she still wants me to. I told her I stopped and she asked me why not. She still does. Her mom's always on heroin and she does pot. I want and don't want to dump her at the same time. Should I break up with her?

This girl needs your support, you said yourself that your'e the only one that she trusts. I don't want to say this but who knows what she'll do if you break up with her now. Tell her that you are not ready for sex in the mean time, while you are helping her trough this and she should understand beacuse she does really seem to love you. As in everyone elses advice ring up an advice line, explain your situation and they will tell you what to do. My friend used to cut herself but we got through it together with help given by 'professionals.' After your girlfrend is back on tracks consider what you want to do, break up with her or stay with her. At the end of the day it's your decision, tread carefully.
hope I help. Good luck!

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what do you mean consious of my curve? (thats what you answered in my question) get back to me...kittygurl90

I meant like you don't like wearing low cut tops around your back because of your curve or not buying clothes that you really like as they make your curve slightly more ovious?

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Ok so i have scoliois. my curve is somewhere around 50 degrees. my back always hurts because of this..is there anything i can do to make my back not hurt as much..or often? thanks in advance! ill rate you!

hey I have scoliois and my curve is around 45 degrees, sometimes I do get pain. I find that basic things start the pain of, like carrying a heavy schoolbag around school or sitting on a hard stool with no back in it to support you. Don't sit up against radiators, as the heat softens your spine even more creating more pain. Try not to slooch (can't spell) over when walikng or sitting keep your shoulders back and when sitting lean back and sit in a comfortable position according to your curve. Just out of interest are you consious (can't spell once again) of your curve?
hope I helped xox

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A week ago today, I accidently poked myself in the eye with mascara in the morning. Since then, the bit which I poked has been red and blood shot. My Mum said it was like a bruise and would probably go soon but it's been a week now and it seems to be getting worse. What is wrong with it? What should I do?

hey. You seem to have a eye infection which is called conjuctive itis (can't spell but it's said like you spell it) It is an infection which you get from using someone elses make up or getting something in your eye that you are elertic to (once again can't spell). I get it all the time it's one of those things that get worse before they get better. Get some strong eye drops or gel from your doctor or near by pharmacy, they always help me. Hope I helped and I hope that you eye gets better and clears up. xox
"Isn't life such a bitch." ;0)

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