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Stuck Between Friends
I am having a party in two weeks because its the end of the school year. I have this one friend who I just met this year. I really like her and I want to invite her to my party. The only problem is that some of my friends dont like her. They think she is annoying. I really want her at my party but I dont want to upset my friends either. Some of my friends said they wont come if she is there. I really want my new friend there but I also want my other friends to have a good time and come. What should I do? Thanks for your help!
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you should invite her and to tell your freinds its your party and that you want all your freinds to be there and have fun its not fun to be left out exspecially by a freind and if they were truly your freinds they would ome to your party anyway.
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You know what? You just can't please everyone so don't even try. It is your party. You invite everyone YOU want to be there. Anyone has a problem with it...well, they don't have to come. If they miss the best party ever its all their own fault! Invite your new friend, the others can practice good manners or get lost. :)
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Who's party is it? Yours? That's what I thought. You need to please YOURSELF because in the end that's what really matters. If you really honestly truly care about your friends, then don't invite this girl. I think that that;s wrong though. It's your party...
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Tell them your going to invite cuz she's also your friend and tell them if they dont like her they just dont have to talk to her at the party and look at her. The party will be fun dont worry have a good time and hang out with both of your friends.
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if u like her then invite her or it could ruin your friendship. she might not think that you see her as a friend.
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Uhm wow..if they dont come because of her thats pritty shallow. I mean they should come for you not for her... Tell them that. Tell them that their coming for you not her.. Thats exactly what happend to me.. My friend HATED my other friend and said she wasnt going to come to my party if my other friend came. And i got upset and i talked to her about it and told her that she would be comeing for me not her.. And it worked! They just didnt talk at all..which was fine with me cause they were both talking to me! haha but good luck and try what i said!
michelle♥
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If your other friends were really good friends of yours, they wouldnt mind.
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Invite whoever you feel like.If it were your friends party it would be a different story but this party is all yours.If they don't like this girl..who cares if they don't show up?You like that girl and thats what matters.You shouldnt listen to what others have to say about her and then not invite her when your opinion matters most.If they are gunna leave you like that then they arent exactly such great friends.I would say invite her because it wouldnt be fair to the girl that you went by what other people say when those could be lies or exagerated stories.
xO LiSa*
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hey, i'm sort of in the same position 1 of my best fiends doesn't like my other best friend who really does nothing to offend her. Lifes a bitch. The only advice I can give is to do what you want, they are all your friends and invited them all, why not?. I understand that you want everyone to be comfortable at your party. If your other friends refuse to come beacuse you invite the other girl, thats their problem and their just bein bloody well imature (sorry bot the language!) They'll relise what their missing by not going and they'll probably fell really shit beacause they missed your party. By the way they are not true friends if they can't except your decision to be friends with some1 else and don't come to your party.
sorry bot not bein to nice bot your other friends but i'm in the same position and it pisses me off.
Hope I helped. rate me, don't mean to sound foward but no one else does
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Whose party isit anyways. It's your party and you can invite who you want. Are you going to let your friends tell you what to do your whole life. Tell your friends that when they have their own party, they can invite or NOT invite who they want. And I would be surprised if your friends who threatened not to come, would follow through with their threat and miss the first big
party of the summer! They would be sitting home realizing that they made the biggest mistake........
Michele
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i think if they are all your friend, they should come together to celebrate your birthday and put their differences aside, because if they are your true friends the will try at least make an effort, since it your party
good luck
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