my name is vanessa williams
and i want anyone who has any problems, feel free to ask for advice, i am non judgemental, listen and give you good advice, not what you want to hear but the right advice
take care and God bless
Member Since: May 6, 2005
Answers: 98
Last Update: September 23, 2005
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lyke omg so i like this boy named george but he likes this girl named sara who happens to like this boy named justin who likes a girl named paulina who likes this creepy mentally retarded boy named sam who likes me what do i do (link)
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well if i were you i'll hang around with him to find out if he's digging you even though you think he likes someone else
well if you are sure he dosent like you i don't think there is any thing you can do
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ok so i talked so much about this boy before that i met in registration. Well i found out he chats 2 all the girls and so i was not the only one. maybe hes like one of them people who make people feel welcome in a new school. Well anyways.... basically all the girls guessed i like him because when he talks 2 me i go bright red so yeh one of them said they are going 2 ask him if he has a gf? im not sure what i should do ive like tried being nice 2 him but i don't think he is interested.help plz (link)
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hi there
if you like someone and you have the impression they like you i would tell you to go for it before someone else takes him maybe someone you know
he might just be a friendly person, dont be hasty but not wait to long because he might be taken
good luck
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I really like this guy and i want him to like me soo bad but I don't know what to do. I've heard he liked or likes me. And I'm also having friends try to spy. And I'm also being flirty and dressing myself up. What else can I do (link)
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hi there
well all i can say is be yourself some men want a confident independent girl
be yourself and also i would advice you to make a move before he thinks your not interested or someone is interested in him and forgets about you
good luck
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ok so heres the story im not allowed to date asian,black,paki,hindu, or anything but i was chatting 2 a guy who is paki and he is so nice. he wants 2 meet me! im not sure what 2 do? (link)
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ask your parent why you cannot date other races has it something to do with culture or where you come from
be careful though if you havent meet this dude be careful because he could be your worse nightmare
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for about 2 and half years the boy next door would make out with me a couple times a month.He was 3 years older than me but we never had real intercourse.He would finger me and I jerked him off and we both would cum.there was never any blood from what we did,I do not see him any longer and I was wondering if I still had my cherry? also am i still a virgin? i am almost 15. (link)
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you are as long as you havent had penetrative sex
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hi i just want to ask if is it ok to study MBA online in my home and how much does it cost.And can i find the same job as after studying in university? (link)
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its alright because you have the flexibility to study whenever but you need to find out what companies do the best deal and ask anyone who ask used the service
before making up your mind
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I am having heartburn today - I think from my garlicly dinner last night. Any quick remedies I could use here at my office. I am stuck at work. (link)
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my best advice would be drink alot of water or try gaviscon its effective to relive heart burn
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can you be in love when your 13? (link)
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i belive age has no boundry for love what first attracted you to this person is it their physical appearance most people class that as lust because if the person didint look that way would u still like them
look deep before you leap
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a couple months ago my parents started me on a "budget" and gave me $200 a month for me to do whatever i want with it. i know it sounds like a lot, but i have to buy all my clothes, pay for our trips for school [small ones] and pay for when i do stuff with friends. i know it's enough, but i always seem to shop on the sales racks for summer clothes that won't fit me next year i would guess. are there some ways i could do jobs for people or save my money better? (link)
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hello there
i feel your pain, well all i can say is you can have your own budget list of what you spend per week or per month and you stick to it i know its very hard to stay away from the sale items
if you have a budget most people stick to it
if that fails look for a part time job
its also depends on how old you are
well good luck
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i got my belly button peirced 6 weeks ago, but it is still kinda red at the top hole. what should i do to make it not red anymore. plus, how do i know if i can change the ring yet. like how do i know if it's healed? (link)
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you need some anticeptic or anticeptic lotion which might reduce the risk of infection. becuase infection can happen at any time until fully healed do not change the ring onto a banan one yet the fact is that most people do it. the redness should fade away with a few days f its being up to 6 weeks healing time depend of the individual, different people vary
good luck and God bless
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what does pure soul mean? cuz someone asked me Who is the person you know with the purest soul? what does that mean (link)
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pure soul to me means a person who hasnt put themself first in a situation who always do the right thing not because of doing it for gratification from others but because its the right thing to do.
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whats probobly the bst shampoo to make hair grow faster and smell pretty? (link)
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hi there
the best advice i can give you first is to have a heathly scalp first
your hair needs to be free of split ends i can't remember exactly how long a person hair grows yearly but it starts with a health scalp.
shampoo mot trust worthy ones would have to be herbal essence because it uses natural stuff which dosent hurt you scalp make sure to use a good conditioner as well to mositurise your hair for added protection
good luck and God bless
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i have aids now i had sex and im pregnent wat do i do HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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do you know for a fact that you have aids you have to be tested first then the doctor will tell you if you are aids or hiv
you're going to have to tell your parents sooner or later
incase you don't know anything about aids its breaks the repair system in your body i would advise you to have a blood test first.
whatever you decide good luck and God bless
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i was hanging out..dating this guy for about 2 months & we had so much fun together hangin out & he was so sweet to me.. we talked about not getting serious and everything since he was going pretty far away for college.. then he went on vacation with his friends for a week and came back & i went to a party at his house and he barely talked to me.. and now he never calls me and we havent hung out for like a month..was he using me or what ?.. i dunno what to do i really miss him!! ..it freaking sucks! (link)
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it would be nice if you just call me out and talk to him on a one to one basis to find out where you stand instead of living in doubts
i am sorry if i sound direct becuase no one deserves to be in the pain your going through
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ok so..i broke up w/ my bf cuz his friends threaten me and fight w/ me and stuff and i just couldnt take it anymore..and now i think it was a bad idea to break up w/ him..wat should i do? (link)
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if you really have strong feelings for this guy you shouldnt let this friend come between you two. have a talk with you boyfrind(ex) and he will know why two of you broke up.
good luck
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my boyfriend is the type of guy to cheat on his girlfriend. so me and him both have myspace accounts.. we both know the passwords to eachothers and everything. today, i was curious to see who he's been talking to because i don't really trust him. i saw him saying stuff to a couple girls and i'm really pissed. i don't know what to say to him, because i know if he found out i went on his account, he'll be mad at me. so what do i do? i can't just keep this in, and i know that i shouldn't of went on his name but i want to know if he's doing stuff behind my back.. help! (link)
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hi there
you start you statement by saying how he cheats on you , shouldnt that give you a clue, i don't mean to sound heartless but i know everyone is capable of cheating, but you know he's the type.
if it bothers you you hould have a talk with him , even though it he gets mad, because if you leave it he could be having another serious relationship behind your back i say talk to him, even though he gets mad, and he properly will talk to him, to find out where the relationship with you and him stand
whatever you decide
good luck and God bless
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most people say im too young to be in love, but there's this guy, i've known him for as long as i can remember.he's one of my really good friends.i find myself daydreaming about him all the time. i get all these weird emotions around him. lik when he smiles, and laughs. when he looks at me with his soft blue eyes.i want to tell him but i dont no, could it mess up our friendship??wat should i do? tell him? or keep it to myself? (link)
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hello there
love isnt to be used likely. would you still feel the same about this person if he was different in apearance like really old and wrinkly most poeple wouldnt some poeple fall in love with how they look on the outside which is wrong because true love and beauty is from within outside is just telling us where we are from
you can tell him how you feel if you say he's one of your close friend he might just that's its wierd and also you might not be as close as before.
this might just be lust not love think about it
whatever you decide good luck and God bless
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i had this boyfriend and after about 2 months I broke up with him because i thought i didnt like him anymore!but then i started realizing i do but before i had a chance to tell him, he got a new girlfriend!now i am really jealous and i just can't get over it!!!!!how can i?help!!!! (link)
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hi there
i understand your pain. first of all, were you in love with this boy , why did you like him in the first place, understand what attratced you to him and what revolted you to dump him
try to understand why two of you split up .
time is the best healer for the sore-hearted i am not saying that you should talk to him but he might just have this girl becuase he might think you might like him again, because for any relaionship after a break up a new relationshiop isnt rushed. because it takes time for someone to love someone
whatever you decide
Good luck and God Bless
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sry for the length...
yesterday i had my boyfriend over and my mom was watching us like a hawk she wouldnt leave us alone she was being a bitch..like we were just sitting there and she goes THAT WILL BE ENOGUH OF THAT! its terrible im not talking to her right now because she cant trust be she thinks im suck a whore and im not im just tired of her being like this..
What do u think i should i do?
thanks ill rate high
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hi there
well i think if you want your mum to understand where you are coming from is to have a mature converstaion with her
think about it some girls don't even want to bring their partner home and you did regardless of what your mum is like, to me that's shows that you respect her and you want her to know who your boyfriend is
all i can say its talk to her , obviously she woudlnt stopp starring like tomoorow but things like this take time
good luck and God Bless
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I always seem to ask my self this question..
Why is it that im only visible when people need something to do?
Its seems to always be true that people are really nice and stuff to me only when they actually need something to do..why is this?
thanks a bunch! ill rate you for a good answer!
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hi there
i so know what you are going through. i believe when you o something some poeple will think you have done nothing at all
they are some poeople who are just like that , there nothing wrong with you , you can't change poeple
some poeple like using poeple to get what they want and when they have got it its adios to you
most of us just come in contact with people like that.
my cousin says that poeple will only take from you what you allow them but i disagree because some poeple are nice by nature and they poeple who need something take advantage of that individual's good nature
my advise to you is to know who your friend are , from your statement you seem to be there for this individual but who are going to be there for you ?
whatever you decide good luck and God Bless
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