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most people say im too young to be in love, but there's this guy, i've known him for as long as i can remember.he's one of my really good friends.i find myself daydreaming about him all the time. i get all these weird emotions around him. lik when he smiles, and laughs. when he looks at me with his soft blue eyes.i want to tell him but i dont no, could it mess up our friendship??wat should i do? tell him? or keep it to myself?
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It will only mess up your friendship if you let it. I think you need to ask him how he feels about you. If the feeling is mutual then give it a try. Agree up front that if either feels to brotherly or sisterly about the relationship you will just remain friends. :)
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hello there
love isnt to be used likely. would you still feel the same about this person if he was different in apearance like really old and wrinkly most poeple wouldnt some poeple fall in love with how they look on the outside which is wrong because true love and beauty is from within outside is just telling us where we are from
you can tell him how you feel if you say he's one of your close friend he might just that's its wierd and also you might not be as close as before.
this might just be lust not love think about it
whatever you decide good luck and God bless
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Ive been in the same situation. I asked him out. He said no because it would be weird(because theres 3 of us in our group thing) for the rest of the group. We are even closer now though, so i say, GO FOR IT!
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first of all, ANYONE is capable of falling in love. but remember, love is a very strong word. it could be just lust. well, i think that you should definately tell him. does he flirt with you? if or not, telling him will get a load off your mind. and your heart. you'll feel alot better after you get all that off your chest. and if he is TRULY your friend, and he's not into it, it still shouldn't ruin your friendship.
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your never to young to be in love trust me so ask around like your closest girl friend and tell her to ask him if he likes you more than a friend if he does go in for the kill but if he doesn't give him signals that you like him and if he doesnt respond move on becuase trust me eventually he will.
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Maybe you do love him. Actually, it all depends on what you think "love" is and how strong you're using the word.
Since you're really good friends, it should be okay to talk to him. Don't tell him you love him just yet. Just tell him you have strong feelings for him and etc.
If your friendship is really strong, it will not mess it up. If it does mess up, it just shows you how weak it was. So either way, you win because you gain knowledge.
If you don't tell him, you'll probably regret it. Keeping something like this to yourself will probably eat you alive. Take risks. If you never take risks, you'll never gain anything good. So go out there and go for it!
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Does he hint to you that he may be in love with you too? If I were you, I'd tell him. Yeah, of course there is a possibility it could make your friendship a bit awkward if he doesnt share the same feelings, but if you have known him for a long time I'm sure he will understand your feelings. In my opinion it would be better to get your feelings out in the open. And if he feels the same way about you would, wouldnt it be awesome that you finally opened up to him?
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