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I like my bros friend
Well my brother is 18 just turned recently and he has this friend he is also 18 or 17 not sure yet.Well he is so nice and really understanding. I can talk to him just about anything.He is like one of my brothers bestfriend and he is so cool. I like him very much i'm about to turn 15 I don't know if i should stay quiet about it and keep it as a crush or let him know.Or how can i get tips if he likes me or not. plz help thanks.
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His being 18 and you being 15 could pose a problem. If you date and things get heavy he could face going to jail for contributing to the delinquency of a minor ( for starters). I think you'll just have to be friends for about 3 more years. Sorry.
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Ask him to play 20 question. U ask each other 20 questions where you MUST answer each one honestly.
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Personally, I think theres a little bit too much of an age difference--not TOO much though, its not like a 20 year age difference. But its wierd because you're still 14-15 and he's 17-18. He'll soon be graduating (if he hasn't already) and he'll be moving on and going to college (maybe? maybe not, idk), and you still have either 2 or 3 years of high school left. But if this doesn't matter at all to you, then you should see if he likes you back. If you and your brother are cool, and you feel comfortable, you can tell him and see if he's ever been interested in you or not. Good luck!
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HyperactiveMiss is right. keep it as a crush. he most likely thinks of you as "my best friends sister" and nothing more. You are turning 15 and he is about 3,4 years older. that wouldnt be right unless he was desperate enough to date you. Sorry dear, but if i were you i would keep it a simple crush. <3
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you should tell him. get it out of your system, i mean if you REALLY like this guy. i also have a crush on my brother's best friend shh!!! LoL i told him and we're dating now. now if your brother is anything like mine, he's probably VERY overprotective of his little sis. if your brother has a problem with you two, just remind him that he would much rather you go out with someone he talks to and trusts much rather than a little punk that he doesn't evn know. but be careful. there is a law between 18 year olds and minors. just don't do anything you'll regret later cuz, believe me, regret is not something you want to feel. take care
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1) Don't fall for a friend (especially best friend) of your brother's.
2) Don't fall for a guy that is 3 or 4 years older than you until you're out of school.
My honest advice to you? Keep it as a crush. You don't even know how old the guy is! lol. If you don't even know how old he is, how do you know if he doesn't already have a girlfriend?
You probably just admire him a lot. It's very easy to like older guys because older people are usually very cool and you just want to hang out with them and everything. Just because you like him doesn't mean you should make anything of it.
When I typed number 1 up there, I do mean it. It's best to keep it that way. Your brother probably wouldn't want his friends dating his little sister. Would you be comfortable with your best friend dating your brother? And even if it did work out, it would cause problems. You might "steal" his best friend away from him. Or he might want to butt into your relationship. Things like that.
When I typed number 2 up there, I do mean it. The guy is 3-4 years older than you! Of course it wouldn't matter once you're out of school; people get married with people 10 years older than them, but the thing is, it DOES matter when you are still in school. Grades are what make ages a big difference. Think of it like this. Someone in 5th grade and someone in 8th grade. In years, that's not much of a difference. But in grade level, it's HUGE. That is an elementary schooler and a middle school almost moving on to high school. See what I mean?
If you ever went out with your brother's friend, more troubles will come. He is probably already done with high school or at least getting ready to graduate. And you will have just be beginning high school. See the problem here? You two will need to go your separate ways and it will be hard to stay together. Since he is older and you are younger, you guys are experiencing different things. People date people their own ages because usually they are going through the same things together at the same time.
If there was ever an 18 year old guy wanting to date a 14 year old girl, it would only be because he was desperate or wanted to use her. Of course there are a few special guys that aren't like that, but that's rare. He probably does like you, but only as his best friend's little sister. And if he's nice to you, it means he's a nice guy, it doesn't mean he's trying to make moves on you.
So what I'm saying is, it's best to not say anything to him. I know it's probably not what you wanna hear, but I'm just trying to give you advice and let you see what the cons of the situation are.
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