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i was hanging out..dating this guy for about 2 months & we had so much fun together hangin out & he was so sweet to me.. we talked about not getting serious and everything since he was going pretty far away for college.. then he went on vacation with his friends for a week and came back & i went to a party at his house and he barely talked to me.. and now he never calls me and we havent hung out for like a month..was he using me or what ?.. i dunno what to do i really miss him!! ..it freaking sucks!</33
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well i dont think he was usinq you. i mean if you were datinq for two months.. since hes movinq & he said that he didnt want thinqs to be too serious. he most liekly tryinq not to qet to close to you before he moves since its qoinq to be hard on you both & since he hasnt been around you in a week maybe hes startinq to qet over you. he had a week of space. let him know you care about him & ask him what was up at the party & why he didnt talk to you at all or anythinq. thats what i would do, quys are so confusinq so it could be anythinq. leme know what happens im curious ♥
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I guess that's his way of not getting serious. Maybe he thought you were getting to attached?
Since he'll be going away to school soon anyway, better to get over him now and move on to someone else. :)
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I think he took 'not getting serious' to heart. Call him and ask him what's up. You'll find your answer.
Good luck,
~*Tiffany*~
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He might not have been using you, its more like he just realizes he doesnt wanna be in a relationship with anyone, cause hes going away for college and everything. The vacation gave him some time for him to think, and that really made him realize alot of things. As much as it hurts you and everything you'll have to let go. But first talk to him and ask him whats up with you guys.Its better to ask now when you still see him and can talk to him, then waiting and never getting the chance. Good luck<3
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i think you should break up with him because a man dosnet turn on girl.Even though he aint a serious boyfriend he should still love you and cherish you like your the queen of his life.if he aint like that I have the feeling that you should just brake up wit him before its too late!!!!I hope it helps.
~!!Kristine!!~
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Well maybe you should try to call him and get a hold of him or atleast leave him a message and tell him that you have the right to knwo what is going on. Just dont worry about it show him that you are done playing your games and move on.
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He hasn't called you?
So by that you mean; you havent called him? You're just waiting on him to call?
No, it doesnt "freaking suck". The problem is you havent called.
Do you expect him to hold the realtionship up?
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You should definetly call him and find out what the problem is! Maybe he wants somebody he can get serious with and then go off to college. Guys can be guys.. Whos idea was it to not get serious? Obviously one of you brought up the idea first, and if it was you, he could just want to get with someone else for a 'quickie'. You should definetly suggest hanging out.. and maybe talk to him about why he was ignoring you.. and why he never calls?
♥Maddie.. hope that helped!
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Well, then call him and tell him that you wanna hang out a lot before he leaves for college in the fall. He's prolly just afraid that he could fall for you and thats why he's staying away from you bc he's scared. Ok well hope i helped! Love yah!
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it would be nice if you just call me out and talk to him on a one to one basis to find out where you stand instead of living in doubts
i am sorry if i sound direct becuase no one deserves to be in the pain your going through
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