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i don't trust my boyfriend
my boyfriend is the type of guy to cheat on his girlfriend. so me and him both have myspace accounts.. we both know the passwords to eachothers and everything. today, i was curious to see who he's been talking to because i don't really trust him. i saw him saying stuff to a couple girls and i'm really pissed. i don't know what to say to him, because i know if he found out i went on his account, he'll be mad at me. so what do i do? i can't just keep this in, and i know that i shouldn't of went on his name but i want to know if he's doing stuff behind my back.. help!
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Ok you are sort of right,you shouldn't have gone on his account but on the other hand mabey he shouldn't have given it to you. To get to the main part if you don't trust him then don't go out with him because a good relationship is built on a solid foundation of trust. You can't be happy together if you don't trust eachother so if you still want this to work talk to him.
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if you dont trust your boyfriend, that's a big clue that you've got a problem in your relationship. you have every right to approach him with your concern, and if he gets angry, then you might as well end it there. you dont deserve to be one of a couple girls he sweet talks. as for the myspace girls.. honestly, i doubt he'll ever actually come in contact with those girls. people will say anything online, and if he knows what's right for himself, he'll know the real thing is much better. dont forget, guys will be guys so they do deserve a break once in a while. but from your scenerio, id say this guy doesnt deserve your time. cheaters are no good my friend.
-ask_anything
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If you don't trust him then you need to get out of the relationship. Trust is very big when it comes to a relationship and if you don't have it in each other there is really no point in continuing.
Something said in a conversation is not cheating. Unless he actually went out and dated someone else behind your back then what he wrote shouldn't make a big difference.
You need to have a long talk with him about how you feel. If you want a relationship with this guy then you have to learn to trust each other. He may get mad because you went into his site, then again, if he were trying to hide anything why would he have given you his password? Talk to him. :)
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Yea i know how you feel i am the same way but you have to say somthing to him or he is just gonna keep on doing it to you. the best thing to do is talk to him about it.well good-luck and please tell me how it turns out...... Hope i helped you
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Maybe they are just his friends. And if they are and you confront him, I doubt he's going to be very happy with you, but the fact that you know his password also makes me think that he can't be mad at you--- I mean he gave you the password right? Next time, if you don't trust him, confront him directly, and don't sneak around.
~*Tiffany*~
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Well if you know hes that type why would you wanna be with him? If hes telling other girls that then hes not exactly "cheating" or "liking" other girls. If they dont even live in the same town then you should just say "i went on your account, i know i shouldn't of but i did, and i saw what you were saying to some girls, and i just wanna know what your intending when you say that to them?" and tell him if its something he thinks is ok, then make it clear that it isnt and you wont tolerate it. But YOU hAVE TO TELL HIM. dont put it off or ignore it. Its gunna bug you like crazy. Good luck<3
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well what was he sayin to those girls? was he just being nice or was it like you're hot or something? if it was the 2nd one i'd dump him the first i wouldn't worry about it
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Well the number one thing in a relationship is trust if you dont have trust then why are you guys together. you would want him to trust you right? yeah he might have cheated on his other girls but you might be different you might have changed him and he might like you alot an not want to cheat on you. Its okay for him to have girl friends just to talk to but nothing more just liek you would want to still talk to your guy friends with out him getting mad. just lossin up and trust him more.
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Just talk to him about it. You do not have to say hat you went on his account, but say something along the lines of "Look, i think we have to talk. A relationship takes a lot of trust, and right now i'm not trusting you very much. Can you just tell me whether you'd ever cheat on me or anything?" or something. If you dont find a way to trust your boyfriend soon, you'll always be worrying about that kind of stuff though, so if you dont trust him soon i think you may want to break it off with him and find someone better that you can trust and will treat you right.
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First thing's first...Trust is probably one of the most IMPORTANT things in a relationship. Without it, why bother trying? If you do not trust your boyfriend, you shouldn't even be going out with him.
If you think he's the type that would cheat on his girlfriend, why are you still with him?! If it were me, I'd dump him before he hurt me. I wouldn't bother with a guy that:
1) I don't trust 2) is a cheater 3) has been proven doing things behind your back.
You shouldn't be worried if HE will be mad. You have a right to be mad. Who cares if he gets mad? What you need to do is tell him directly you went on his myspace account and you know he's been writing things to other girls. You did it because you had suspicions, and behold, your suspicions were correct. If he loved you he wouldn't need any other girls behind your back.
Conclusion? Have a talk with him and break up with him.
TIP: Don't forget to change your password!
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What do you want to do?
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why are you with someone you dont trust in the first place? thats the real problem here. why dont you find yourself someone who you can trust that way you arent worried and stressed. find someone who doesnt want just another girlfriend, find someone who wants you. as for what to do about it, tell him you did it, why should you be worried about him trusting you when you cant even trust him.
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It is not "going behind his back" if he knows you know his password. You should talk to him about it.
The real issue is why you are with someone who you do not trust.
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If you are dating a guy that you know is likely to cheat, then you are just setting yourself up for dissapointment. How can you be mad, you knew this was coming. What do you expect?
You have 2 options to rid yourself of the problem.
One: Stop snooping around and just pretend to yourself that he doesn't cheat.
Or Two: Leave him and find a guy that wants to be with just you.
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hi there
you start you statement by saying how he cheats on you , shouldnt that give you a clue, i don't mean to sound heartless but i know everyone is capable of cheating, but you know he's the type.
if it bothers you you hould have a talk with him , even though it he gets mad, because if you leave it he could be having another serious relationship behind your back i say talk to him, even though he gets mad, and he properly will talk to him, to find out where the relationship with you and him stand
whatever you decide
good luck and God bless
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you could say you heard from someone else but your not going to name any names. that would work. thats really rude and he should be punished
~natt~
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how about since you dont trust him just break up with him that way you have no worries and then he's not a problem and out of the way.. ♥ Dez
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Just be like...I dont trust you,and I wanted to see if you were cheating on me. change ur password and ill never go again.
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