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What 2 do?
m/15
When you are having intercourse, does it matter if the girl is on the bottom or the top? What positions are are best for the guy and the girl? Me and my girlfriend have decided (after going out a year) to have sex and I don't want to mess up or hurt her. I've heard sex hurts the girl. Will she bleed? Also, does sex hurt the guy? I sound stupid, but the doesn't mean I'm not ready. I love her and that's as ready as I can be. I just want to know how to give her my best. -MB-
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i like it when your on top ............
love alway barby
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missionary is the best way. the girl should be on the bottom if its her first time because if shes on top you will go to deep in her and it will probably hurt her more. and yes she will bleed but just a little cause you are ripping her hole open(dont mean to sound gruesome but truth be told that is what you are basically doing). from what i know sex does not hurt the guy but if its her first time it will be a little effort getting in cause her hole is very small.
hope i helped ask me more questions id loved to give you advice.and no you dont sound stupid i understand that you wanted to know.
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It doesn't matter if the woman is on top or bottom. It all has to do with preference. Some prefer to be on top and some prefer to be on bottom.
As for hurting her, it might hurt her a little, so go slow at first. If you're afriad that you're hurting her, ask her to tell you when it hurts to you can stop and let her become ajusted to you. It depends on her body, she may bleed and she may not bleed. You can't really tell until it happens.
Sex won't hurt you, so you don't have to worry about that one.
Hope everything works!
-Trin
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what 2 do,
generally it doesnt matter if the girl is on top or bottom, what ever you and her are most comfortable with will work. yes the first time will hurt the girl but not much. she might bleed and she might not it all depends on her body. no sex will not hurt the guy. all the advice on not hurting her would be to go slow at first and let her get used to you before you completely pop her cherry. let her know that it might hurt but that you'll do the best you can not to hurt her. and ALWAYS use protection, i know you hear that all the time but it can not be stressed enough. btw, f/16
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a 15/m ehh? sounds so nice and sweet but i think you just evil like other guys just wanna have sex for "your feels good " ne ways guys doent hurt gl
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first thing i gotta say is AWWW!!! well that's adorable your probably a great guy, to even ask a question! well im a girl, and you should be on the top, and she on the bottom, and im guessing its both of yours first time, and sometimes it is uncomfortable for a girl or weird i should say since its her first time, it doesnt necessarily hurt her, but if you think shes is hurting ask her, and say do you want me to stop (that usually works) and she'll answer you, and sex doesnt hurt the guy, almost never, and dont worry, i didnt think you werent ready and you dont sound stupid and you'll definetly give her your best! hope i was of some help! ask me anytime!
-JoElen <33
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Okay so just to start off... the first time is going to be pretty painful for her. Just remember to go very slow and comfort her. It will not be painful for you, and for the fist time it is best that you are on top, so that she is comfortable. Be sure to use a condom. Get ones with lubricant andor have some extra it will make it less painful for her and help it go in easier. And yes she will most likly bleed, but not a lot. Good luck and have fun! LOL!
~WestsideAngel~
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okay congrats but be sure you use a condom and she uses birth control.
but just try different ways maybe she has some. whatever feels comfortable. so don't worry because you and her are virgins*i think*
yes sex hurts the first time for the girl it might get a little uncomfortable for you but if it does then switch positions. when the girl is top she's doing the most work. and when she's bottom you are doing the most work. when she is on the bottom it's called "missionary". it's probably the best for first timers.
yes she will probably bleed but don't worry
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1) Don't matter who is where. Whatever feels comfortable.
2)Be gentle, stop if she says to. Take it slow.
3)It might hurt the first time. No way around it.
Be kind.
4)Yes she may bleed.No way around that either.
5)Don't forget condom.
If you think enough about her to ask questions to try and make experience good for her, you are far from stupid. She's a lucky girl. First time probably won't be great, just do your best. It will improve.
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I dont agree with the person who said to let the girl go on top. For the first time..definately not a good diea. I know girls who are very sexually active and one told me when on top..it hurts more because the penis is going in verically..shes bouncing around up there..and its just more painful..save that stuff for when you do it more and more and shes becomes looser.
For the first time..you take the top..but go gentle because yes it hurts..every girl who has told me about their first time says it hurts. Your breaking her hymen when you take her virginty. the hymen is a piece of skin that goes from one side of the vagina to the other..hard to explain but it hurts when it breaks. SO be gentle..save the faster stuff for later on down the road when your comfortable.
there are lots of positions to try after shes lose and you've been doing it for awhile.
a)her on top
b) her laying down...you kneeling an wrapping her legs around her waist..having sex with her that way
c) you sitting..her on top
d) you can fold her legs back and have sex with her from that angle
If both of you are comfortable with anal sex you can try that..but again, go gentle because the anal area is sensitive.
a) you can be sitting and she can be sitting on your penis having anal sex this way 9save it for when you've dont it a few times
b) you can go on the bed, she can get on all fours, and you can have anal sex that way
c) you can go behind her..both of you laying down ..and do it that way
To make it great..remember the foreplay..the oral sex, the kissing, the touching..dont just strip and have sex with her..the foreplay will make it a lot better..
I know way too much for a virgin..but im a very knowledgable virgin i guess..i get that from my friends talking to me..and from the talk show talksexwithsuejohanson.com the show is called talk sex..
Hope i helped and you'll be great dont worry
-meliss
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ok well about the hurt ?...yeah it will probably hurt her and it might hurt you bC if a girl is extermly tight then it will hurt you...if you get what i'm saying!...the bleeding...she might bleed just depends on if her hymn is ripped..if she wears tampons then mabye a little bleeding may happen...but it all depends...and if yall ready!!
top or bottom??...that really doesn't matter...but some advice..try lettting her on top so it can go in and don't just start going right off the bat bC it will hurt her...slowly do this go in a lil and just let her get us to it a lil bit at a time ((i hope you understod what i just said)) since is the 1st time missionary you on top or her on top!! ...
if you have anymore ? i would be glad to answer them..and if there is something that i said that you didn't get let me know and i will try and explain it better for you!!
<3...be careful and wear a condom!!
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Look, it doesn't really matter. As long as you both are comfortable and if you aren't sure ask her. You may sound like an idiot but if she isn't then you don't wanna keep doing the same thing and yes usually a girls first time will hurt, but some pain is normal and other pain is from a bad position not right for her or you. It's just about not rushing through it.If you wanna give her your best then take your time, and let her know that your nervous that way she doesn't feel alone. Good Luck!
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No, it doesn't matter whos where, for intercourse. The best positions for a guy is behind her, along side her, or on top.
If you don't want to hurt her, be very gentle. Dont try to be like the porn stars and totally maul her.. If this is her first time, be very gentle. You'll ruin sex for her all around if she remembers her first time sucking badly.
Yes, sex does hurt the girl if her hymen has not been ruptured. She will bleed, but not much. The hymen is a very thin membrane of skin with a few blood vessels in it.
No, it doesn't hurt the guy unless his glans penis is very sensitive. Thats where alot of the nerve endings are on the entire male organ.
^^ <3 EJ
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