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Q: hey, you asked me to let you know what happened with the cutting thing? i have been diagnosed with depression but i refuse to take anti-depressants, they are thinking about putting me in rehab because i have developed a marijuana and alcohol dependancy, i have not been able to quit cutting just yet, the other day when i was at a party and ran out of drinks and had no way of getting anymore and everyone around me was drunk i sat scratching my hand for an hour ill get over it one day.. or die. i do very much appreciate your reply thankyou for caring sooo much
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I am not going to tell you what to do because I don't think it is my place, but if you every need anything or someone to talk to I am here. Good luck with everything and hope you understand that you are imortant to people, and you have people that care about you and don't want to see you get hurt! Write back.
~Natalie~
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Q: OK, well there is this guy who i really really like and he has a gf. I really like him and i want him and his recent gf to break up really bad. Should i tell him i like him or just wait to see what happens?
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wait a little while first.
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Q: When i wash my hair the day after it gets really greesy! any ideas what i can do to make it not ask greesy or not at all?
thanks a bunch
will rate
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Look for shampoos and conditioners that are made specially for people with greasy hair.
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Q: I got my prom dress todaii and its strapless...do you think it would look better to have my hair in an updo or styled down?
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if you hair is short then up and if it is long down
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Q: How can you find out your percentage of fat & muscle on your body??
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Q: I like this guy at my school, and I don't know if he likes me. He's shy and doesn't talk to girls, so I don't know if he would like me and how his personality would show it. He always looks at me and stuff, and he's so cute, but how can I find out he likes me without actually asking him? Please answer if you have a solution.
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Ask one of his friends! Or have one of you friends do it without letting him know your wanting to know.
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Q: i want to act as a career but everyone doupts me my confidence is low what should i do
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You should turn there insults and doubts into fuel to get you burning so you can show them how wrong they were and how serious you are.
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Q: I've been looking into several ways to remove hair from my legs and underarms. One of my friends suggested using Depillatory Cream. (Such as Nair, Veet, etc) My question is, does this really work? And is it safe for underarms? What brand or product do you suggest? And how long does the hair stay off?
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I would not suggest any of these I have tried them, and for one they smell disgusting and two they kind of burn and three they can leave nasty itchy red spots or rashes. And they dont always get all the hair.
~WestsideAngel~
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Q: im really happy with the rest of my body, and only my arms are big and flabby. for prom i want to lose the fat on my arms, and tone them up. im a gymnast, and we do TONS of pushups at practice, and it doesnt do anything. i want to lose the fat on my tricep mostly. does anyone know any tricks? we have a formal coming up in a couple of months and i want to look good in my dress.
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Try googling it, bet you will find exercises there. I have the same problem so if you find anything helpful please let me know. Oh and even beautiful stars like Beyonce have flabby arms, so don't feel bad!
~WestsideAngel~
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Q: I've been going to the tanning bed for a week now and everytime i go im all itchy afterwords...is this a form of me being burnt? And what can I do about it?? Someone please let me know im going crazy here...haha
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It could be but you might also be alergic to the tanning lotions you are useing. Try finding one for sensitve skin or something alone that line. Good luck :D
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Q: Ok, well me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and a half this month and we have talked about having sex and i feel like im ready and i think he does to but i'm just kind of worried that something might happen and people act like i dont think about wat could happen but i do and i feel so emotionaly ready to have sex i mean a lot of people who respond to this will say i shouldnt because im to young and i should wait because im 14 but i mean if i feel comfortable and ready for it then dont you think i can. i mean no one can really stop me from doing it but i mean i dont kno i just need advice on wat i should excpect i kno its gunna hurt but like other stuff... and like wat are the most durable condoms? please answer.... thanx
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KK girlly it is gonna hurt REALLY bad, and does not really feel good the first time or two but after that it will. You will bleed a little, not much tho. And don't be imbarrased of it tho, guys know that that is going to happen. Use Trojan or LifeStlye condoms (Trojan is the best) Make sure they are lubricated condom, and that it is the right size for him. And make sure you pee before, because with all the pressure sometimes you can urinate during intercourse without knowing it. The firstime it is best if he is on top and make sure he goes slow.
Well goodluck and have fun!
~WestsideAngel~
Your welcome anytime you need any advice or need to talk I am here.
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Q: How do you plan out a kick ass party? What sort of invitations should you give out without looking too kiddy-ish?
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Flyers on bright colored paper and not a lot of pictures,
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Q: well ive been going out with this guy tha i love and ever since ive been going out with him my best friend has been gettin all pissed at me and trying to break us upp....and now im not friends with her anymore cuz of this...and she said she wont be mad at me if i just break up wit my boyfriend but i love him and im not going to do that....i think maby she is kinda jallous that i have a bf n she dosent...but than again i dont know....help!!!
~*! *~panda~*-!*~
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Forget about her, because if she was your true friend she would want you to be happy with the person you love.
~WestsideAngel~
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Q: so i have this boyfriend. almost 3 months. but we have only held hands and hugged. he is going sooo slow. every one is like .. make the first move. but im really shy. like.. really shy. but just around the boy im going out with. are there anyway i can sortof give him hints.. but not make the firt move? 13/f
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Maybe when you hug him kiss him on the cheek. You wont be making the first move really, just helping it along and it will give him confidence to make the first move.
~WestsideAngel~
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Q: i have lots of make up,but i dont no what kind of make up to use for me,and what i should focus on.I have brown hair,brown eyes,and fair skin. My eyes are a little big. Can anyone help?
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Focus on your eyes and lips make them stand out. I'm not saying go and put on bright pink lipstick and blue eyeshadow. Nothing like that. But just define your lips a little more and make you eyes stand out with a lil color,some eyeliner, and some mascara to lengthen youy lashes a little.
~WestsideAngel~
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Q: I'm a fifteen year old female. I used to go out with this kid, Jake. He and I always had fun, but I thought he cheated on me, so I broke up with him. He told me he didn't, but I didn't believe him. I finally asked the girl I though he cheated with, and she was really surprised that I would think that. So I was wrong, and I was really mean to him. I got an email from him saying sorry for making me think that, and that he still really liked me. I feel like such a jerk, and I still really like him too! What should I do?
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Tell him it is not is fault, it is yours and how sorry you are and that you really care for him. And then ask if you guys can try it again. I hope it works out for you.
~WestsideAngel~
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Q: I had a bf and he admited 2 me.. that he loves my best friend! So i dumped him yesterday! Well my ex-bf helped me the whole way threw it and He tells me im his BFFL all the time and i tell him that too. He's serious and so am i. well i love him again but everytime i start to like him again and i tell him.. we start drifting apart and arn't that close of friends anymore! Should I confess? Or wait for him to come 2 me (if he ever does) i DONT want to ruin our friendship.. but i love him soo much!
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Tell him girl! don't wait. Don't miss out on the chance to tell someone you love them. And if you don't it will only hurt you and probably him to if he likes you which I think he does. Goodluck!
~WestsideAngel~
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Q: last week was spring break for me, and i went to the beach. While i was there, i got sunburned. My face is peeling and all. My question is, will it be ok to get my eye brows waxed tomorrow or will it make my face peel more?
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I don't know but it really doesn't sound like a very good idea. Sorry I couldn't help more.
~WestsideAngel~
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Q: Ok, i think i have the flu, and i keep coughing and my nose is all stuffy, but i don't have allergies. Would this be the flu? I already got my flu shot i thought though, so i wasn't sure... Anyway, does anybody know good ways to get rid of it fast? I an having a party in a week, and dont want to be sick for it. I tried all sorts of medicines, not all at the same time, but they just make me sleepy, and dont get rid of the cold. What else can i do? I've been drinking a lot of fluids. 14/f btw.
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It is probably a cold or a virus. Ask your parents to take you to the doctors and maybe they can prescribe a medication that will actually work. Goodluck and hope you feel better
~WestsideAngel~
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Q: My mother and I want to start a non-profit organization and I was wondering where i could find some information on starting one. I would really appreciate it thanx!
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It depends on what kind of one you wanna start. Goole it and find and non-prophit oganization and e-mail the founder or leader and ask them for help.
Goodluck guys!
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bio
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I love sports, expecialy footbal! My favorite team is the RAIDERS. I was on the tennis team at my school and plan to be again next season.Iluv blink182, Eminem, Disturbed, and Gwen Stephani. I like writing poems, watching movies, dancing , singing, and acting. I have a dog, 2 rabbits, a snake, and some fish. My favorite colors are pink, silver, red, and blue. My favorite movie is Dirty Dancing Havana Nights. And I love Latino boyz. MMMMHHHHH!!!!! YYUUUMMMMM!!!!! LOL! I love fairies, roses, dragons, Patrick from spomge bob, Rockyroad icecream,
Summer, sleeping, my bestfriend, the internet. I cry at sad movies, I laugh at stupid people, I talk to myself, and I like to party!
P.S. I have another column it is Ask Natalie but I cant get ito it any more so I started a new one.
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E-mail: Gender: Female Location: D~Town, Colorado Occupation: Student Age: 16 AIM: Member Since: April 10, 2005 Answers: 39 Last Update: April 13, 2005 Visitors: 3995
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