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Boy Troubles


Question Posted Saturday April 9 2005, 11:23 pm

I'm a fifteen year old female. I used to go out with this kid, Jake. He and I always had fun, but I thought he cheated on me, so I broke up with him. He told me he didn't, but I didn't believe him. I finally asked the girl I though he cheated with, and she was really surprised that I would think that. So I was wrong, and I was really mean to him. I got an email from him saying sorry for making me think that, and that he still really liked me. I feel like such a jerk, and I still really like him too! What should I do?

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WestsideAngel answered Monday April 11 2005, 9:01 pm:
Tell him it is not is fault, it is yours and how sorry you are and that you really care for him. And then ask if you guys can try it again. I hope it works out for you.

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horsegirl93 answered Monday April 11 2005, 8:46 pm:
That's great that your boyfriend still likes you, after you broke up with him. There are not many boys like that, you should hold on to him! Tell him that you are still interested in having a relationship with him, and that you are sorry. Hope all goes well!

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karenR answered Monday April 11 2005, 1:12 am:
Well apologize! Sounds like youo still have a chance. If you want him go make up and get back together!

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karazimonki answered Sunday April 10 2005, 9:35 pm:
Say your sorry that you thought that and were so mean to him and ask him if he would may be like to get back together.
Good luck
Karazi Kenzee

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glamnglitz answered Sunday April 10 2005, 6:24 pm:
You should tell him exactly what you said here: "So I was wrong, and I was really mean to him. ... I feel like such a jerk, and I still really like him too!" Tell him that you're sorry. After that, if everything gets worked out, maybe you could both give it another try.

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ThugGirl041790 answered Sunday April 10 2005, 10:08 am:
You tell him you were really stupid and you was sorry that you didnt trust him.. tell him how you feel now that you kinda made a fool of yourself..tell him you still really like him to and that youd understand if he didnt give you another chance..but youd like one.. and maybe dont accuse people of things til you find out the truth hun..much luv dez x0x0

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mrs_radcliffe answered Sunday April 10 2005, 6:10 am:
Give it another chance. If he still likes you tell him that you would like to give it another girl and that your sorry for thinking he was cheating on you. Just be honest that will work.

luv roxie
XxX♥XxX

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insomniac.with.advice answered Sunday April 10 2005, 2:49 am:
Well first, acting on impulse can sometimes bring you you to this types of situations, You either end up getting hurt or hurting someone you care about. My overall advice is to get the facts straight, gather all your information before you make accusations.Especially if you really like a person. I know you are young and sometimes its eaiser to be influenced by rumors..that u hear in the hall way. Then actually taking the answer of the one you like. well If this guy is willing to work things out then u got yourself a SWEET HEART, just apologize for hurting him and work on trusting him. Trust is a basic necessasity in a realtionship. So communicate and trust eachother...Im sure that will bring you guys closer...I mean we all make mistakes...You should give it another try...

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CaitlinCrane answered Sunday April 10 2005, 2:15 am:
OMG i know exactly how you feel, something exactly like that happend to me like 1/2 a year ago...what i did is i told him i was sorry and i told him i still liked him too. i told him that i would never treat him like that ever again. so then, we started hanging out again for like, 2 weeks and then we got back together, just be honest and reamember that everything happens for a reason!

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LostAngel answered Sunday April 10 2005, 1:58 am:
I say give him a 2nd chance if he asks u back out and also be careful on the siginals.

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shake answered Sunday April 10 2005, 1:57 am:
You should say IM SORRY FOR BEING A FRIGG'N IDIOT. I SUCK SO MUCH ITS NOT EVEN FUNNY.

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