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my sister is going to get hurt
my best friend has been ahving a lot of probelems wit her aunt and she has a problem wit her bf he really doesnt love her . i have tryed tellin her but she dont listen he look her in the eyes today and told her he doesnt want to break up wit her and was smiling the whole time.he reall doesnt he ahs told everyone and we try telling her but doesnt want to believe it even though he has been giving her signs like leavin her all alone and ignoring her. they have been togetehr 4 a month and eh wont break up wit her bc he doesnt have the guts. what should i do i cant just stand here and watch my friend suffer like this!! plz help!
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it sounds to me like your the one who has a problem with this guy. if she doesnt believe you..quit telling her. if shes happy how she is then let her be. ever heard the saying "ignorance is bliss"? if shes happy in the relationship and is oblivious to what hes doing to her, then its ok as long as shes happy. dont you think?
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Your friend needs to see that first her bf doesn't want her, if it takes having to do some divious things then so be it. You could call him on 3 way and have her be real silent (he won't know she's on the phone) but the call to him must come from your phone. And then you ask him if he still likes her and if he wants to break up with her. Then once she does know how he feels you need to let her know that it isn't okay for him to do that stuff and tell her she needs to do something, stand up to him. I hope this helps, Good Luck!
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Talk to the boyfriend, and tell him if he's going to keep treating your friend like that then he might as well break up with her because he's being a jerk. If he wont listen, talk to your friend again, and try to get her to see how he's been treating her. She might need to talk and thats why she's in denial about him. I hope it all works out.
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This girl likes this guy a lot and because of it she denys anything u tell her that is gunna mess up her love life. the best you could do is show her whats happening and let her deal with it. it is a hard thing to get used to. You are going to have to sit this one out .tell her what you think or know and let her learn her lesson if she doesnot listen its the best you can do . good luck
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how is your sister going to get hurt if its about your best friend
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