I had a bf and he admited 2 me.. that he loves my best friend! So i dumped him yesterday! Well my ex-bf helped me the whole way threw it and He tells me im his BFFL all the time and i tell him that too. He's serious and so am i. well i love him again but everytime i start to like him again and i tell him.. we start drifting apart and arn't that close of friends anymore! Should I confess? Or wait for him to come 2 me (if he ever does) i DONT want to ruin our friendship.. but i love him soo much!
vballchic89 answered Monday April 11 2005, 6:49 pm: If he doesn't feel the same way you could be scaring him. It sounds cheesy but hey...
anyways, I think you shouldn't tell him again if it causes ur friendship to get worse and if you have told him in the past and he didn't do anything about it. Good luck and I hope I helped!! - RiLeY [ vballchic89's advice column | Ask vballchic89 A Question ]
x0xTarax0x answered Sunday April 10 2005, 4:08 pm: i say don't ruin that good of a friendship. i mean if u have someone that will be with you all the time like that then don't try to go out with him because most of the time when people go out they break up and arn't friends, so stick with the friends.
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karenR answered Saturday April 9 2005, 4:23 pm: I'd let him come to me. If he get's cool towards you when you tell him you like him it's probably scaring him off. So I think I'd wait. [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
LoLo2454 answered Saturday April 9 2005, 4:01 pm: Dont directly tell him, just throw hints. Flirt a little more and spend more time with him. See how he reacts. If he backs away a little then you back away too and wait it out. If he responds well and kind of shows affection, then you should probably tell him. Hope I helped.
lilxxcrystalxxbv answered Saturday April 9 2005, 3:57 pm: If you really like him, tell him.. you should tell him that you like him.. but you dont want you 2 to start drifting apart like normal.. you want to stay close..and maybe, possibly go out wit him!
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xxBrOkEnxx answered Saturday April 9 2005, 2:50 pm: i would tell him but he would probably do the same thing so maybe say "i like you,and if you dont like me like that then can we still be bffl" thast just off the top of my mind. but something like that [ xxBrOkEnxx's advice column | Ask xxBrOkEnxx A Question ]
icey0990 answered Saturday April 9 2005, 2:36 pm: If you've told him and several times yuo have drifted apart because of it, i wouldnt tell him. Just be really flirty and he can figure it out for himself and then decide if he wants to make the move.I would be so afraid to lose a great friendship lik that..i would wait a few months ..and if he didnt say anything then i would confess because lets face it..feelings are feelings and bottling them up is not good. [ icey0990's advice column | Ask icey0990 A Question ]
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