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Hi! I'm Riley! I loooooove volleyball and cross country! Feel free to ask me anything- dont be embarassed! If you need anything just drop one in my box :) -RiLeY
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Ok im 15 and ive been going out with my BF for about 7 months now... HE's great and everything, we hung out yesterday, went to the movies, and yeah it was great!!! ;)... Well this morning when i called him he never answered which was weird because he always does it for me but i was like "ok maybe hes sleeping or something"... So then later on i called him and still nothing but a lil while ago i IMED him when i came online and i was like "Oh hey whats up,blah,blah why didnt you pick up your celly when i called you" and he was like "Because i didnt feel like it".. SO im thinking ok maybe hes having a bad day or something, so i asked him if he was and he was like no im fine... So it made me upset because he didnt feel like talking to me, so i told him he was making me mad and he was like "So" and i just got mad hes never treated me like this before... I love him so much and i dont know why hes being so rude too me today :(... So i signed offline and when i did i told him that i hope hes in a better mood later and too call me and that i loved him' and he never answered me :(... Not even too say bye or i love you too.... ::GRR:: This is really making me upset, I dont know what too DO!!! He always tells me he loves me and today he blows me off like im a piece of shit, IM really pissed and ready too break up with him even though i really dont want too!! ugh PLEASE HELP... GIVE ME ADVICE
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Since you already tried telling him how you feel and he still blew you off, I say you dump him. He obviously doesn't care... so dump him before he dumps you. lol
Maybe once he sees how much he misses you, you two can get back together, but its his loss if things don't work out :)
Hope I helped!
ok so i have this friend that i know loves me like a sister but doesnt act like it. when were always talking, she blows things out of porportion. and i feel bad b/c sometimes i make it seem like i'm mad at her even though i am but i dont want it to seem like that. it really sucks because shes a sister i never had and i dont want it to be like this. i'm so sick and tired of her doing the things she does and it sucks! ugh...! help
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CRaZy OuT Of MY MinD
Hey!! I have a friend JUSt like this... she talks about her only 2 best friends behind our backs, and she lies about just about everything! She blows things WAY out of proportin just like your friend, and she is... lets just say far from shy when it comes from guys.
I know exactly how this feels... when we are not around anybody else, just the 2 of us, she acts like a sister.. but whenever we get around others, she gets HORRiBLE! I find the best way is to sit down and talk to her about it. Tell her how much it hurts you that she acts like this. Tell her that you're not really mad you just want her to stop acting like this.
okay i hope this helped!!! if you have any other questions, just ask me!
theres this kid that keeps following me like everywhere and its freaking me out...what should i do?
Woah. Stalker. Tell somebody! quick!
Okay im new at this but im going to give it a try. I am a sophmore and i am goin out with this guy we've been going out for almost 4 months now. Well there is this girl who USED to be my friend and talks about me all the time and im getting sick of it well i just found out the other day that she has a "plan" to get me and my boyfriend to break up. i dont know what to do??? please help me i'll rate high!! thank you so much
Some short but sweet advice:
If your boyfriend really likes you then he won't let this girl break u two up.
The only reason she's talkin about u is because shes jealous!!!
Hope I helped! -RiLey
I had a bf and he admited 2 me.. that he loves my best friend! So i dumped him yesterday! Well my ex-bf helped me the whole way threw it and He tells me im his BFFL all the time and i tell him that too. He's serious and so am i. well i love him again but everytime i start to like him again and i tell him.. we start drifting apart and arn't that close of friends anymore! Should I confess? Or wait for him to come 2 me (if he ever does) i DONT want to ruin our friendship.. but i love him soo much!
If he doesn't feel the same way you could be scaring him. It sounds cheesy but hey...
anyways, I think you shouldn't tell him again if it causes ur friendship to get worse and if you have told him in the past and he didn't do anything about it. Good luck and I hope I helped!! - RiLeY
im a fourteen year old gurl. i have alot of freinds but ive never had a boyfreind and i think its becuase of my weight i dont understand why guys dont like me just becuase of that one thing im a good person and really does hurt. what should i do to help me?
Guys are so shallow...
I have a friend too that has never had a boyfriend, probably because of her weight. The best thing to do is be yourself. Be nice to the guys and show them that u are a good person despite your weight.
The right person will come... just give it time :)
Hope I helped! -RiLeY
I've like guyz since like the 1st grade. I've never ever let them find out. I'm an admirer. I don't ask people out, I dont tell people i like em. How can I tell them without seeming "out of character" or embarass myslef.
Please don't be negative I rate high!!
Maybe try getting a friend to tell them you like the person.
I was like that too... I was always afraid of boys but always liked them and once they found out how I really was, everything changed. There was no big shock... just good stuff happened!
So don't be embarassed or afraid about your character changing, cuz this change is for the better!!
Hope i helped and good luck! :) -RiLeY
What if someone said something offensive about you and you had a disablity, and ur friends and family didnt do much to defend you? I have the right to be mad right? I have the right to be mad at my family for not defending me right? what should i do?
Yes, you have every right to be mad!
Just tell them how you feel about them not sticking up for you. tell them that if it happens again you'd like them to be a little more defensive about it.
Maybe they just didn't want you to be embarassed about your disability or something so they didn't say much...
Well it wasn't much, but I hoped I helped! Good luck! -RiLeY
my cat constantly follows me and everytime i sit down she comes to sit on top of me.. i will get up andmove somewhere else but she still sits on me.. i push her away but 2 minutes later she comes up again.. i know its cute and everything but it just really annoys me sometimes.. does anyone elses cats do this.. how do you get them to stop
your cat loves you, there's nothing you can do about it :) -RiLeY
I want to have kind of a spa - afternoon at my house, maybe with 1 friend over. But I was wondering - what should we do?? I have a hot tub ..anyone have any other ideas that we could do to be pampered? Please help!! =) Thank you ..ill rate high and give feedback!
Hmm, buy some face mask mixes/face masks! buy pedicure stuff! hand scrubs! lotions! ooo ADD BUBBLES! give eachother masages! paint toe/fingernails! scrub feet with feet scrub (duh lol) soak feet!
lol i hope I helped!!! Have a fun Spa day!!!!! hehe - RiLeY
Hey...I'm 15/f and I've had my period for a year and about 4 months now...I'm worried because I didn't have it for March...I haven't had sex but what if there was sperm on the toilet seat or something? Someone please give me hope! I RATE!
you can't get pregnant from a toilet.
maybe it just got messed up for some reason. i know it's been a year but maybe your body doesn't have a cycle yet.
hope i helped! -RiLeY
my cats name is jack...and he drools...alot...is that normal?
maybe hes retarted
ok...so there is this guy...anyways i REALLY REALLY ThInK i like him and i ThInK he likes me 2 but i dont know! Every time i'm with him he's always like holding hands with me and trying to kiss me but we're not even going out! BUT, when some1 comes around it is like he doesn't want to be seen WITH ME WITH ME! like...as a couple...! i don't know what to do or how to tell him how i feel...do u have any ideas?
ThAnKs A BuNcH!*
Hmm... if he really likes you, he won't care what other people think.
Just find out if he likes you... get a friend to do it for you, ask his friends, ask him, just find out. if he does, he'll ask you out.
He could just be uh... u kno... and want somebody to play with and he could be choosing you.
So, find out what his deal is, if he likes u or not.
Hope i helped! -RiLeY
i know its stupid .. but i need help!! i have never been french kissed before and i think im ready, but i dont know how to do it! do both you and your boyfriend put your tounges in each others mouth or does one just put theirs in the others mouth? and how do you know whos tounge goes on top or bottom? I REALLY NEED HELP!!
No that's not stupid at all! I mean, that's what this site is for afterall! Anyways, just follow what the other person does, and you'll know just what to do. ;) everybody's different, so i can't really tell you exactly what to do. lol I hoped I helped! Good luck -Riley
One of my teachers is always making fun of the students. I know it is just in good fun but 2 girls started crying over this. Should i tell someone or just let him go on making fun of everyone?
Please i need help!
NO! you cannot let them keep at it! Tell your principal or other administrator (maybe a vice principal, counselor, other teacher...). tell them what they said and bring the friends that have been made fun of. You have got to stop this guy!
K good luck and i hope everything works out!
Okay... I hate my life and everything right now. All my friends are in fights with eachother and me! And their is a nasty roomer going around my school that im not a virgen any more which i still am! And b/c of this roomer my 3 month boyfriend broke up with me. Im 13 by the way! So i dont know what to do! None of my friends will talk to me,eachother ugHHH! There are nasty roomers going around with them too. Everyone is making fun of me and my friends. Please Help Me! I Will Rate & Give Feed Back too =)
That is what happend to my friend. Everybody is spreading a rumor that she is pregnant with a 21 year old and she is only 13 as well... I think the best thing to do is to go to the counselor and tell them about this rumor. if you know who is spreading it, tell the counselor. My friends and i went there just recently to tell about the rumor i said above ^ and it really helped.
Just act yourself. Make sure that everybody knows it is not true! As for your friends, sit down with them and talk. Ask them how they feel and why they are acting this way and tell them what they don't like about eachother so they can change it. GOod luck with everything and i hope it works out! :) love, Riley
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Hey! Sorry i didnt respond sooner... my computer was broke!!!!!!! anyways. yes it is very very great to have somebody who feels the same way as you do! thats cool... you know what they say... great minds think alike! lol
hey if u ever need anything just drop one in my box!
Luv ya! :) RiLeY
i have been seeing someone on /off for the last ten years . recently moved out because the depts are way to much for me, i know he cheats on me so why do i feel like i cant move on???
If you really love someone you'll let them go... :)
HE IS NO GOOD FOR YOU! you know that!
So just focus on the bad stuff he does... maybe that will make you not love him
eRm, hope i helped! Good lUcK :)-rIley
my friend wants to come over, but doesn't have a ride. She keeps telling me to ask my parents, but I'm not going to because it's her parent's responsibility to give her a ride not mine. I kept telling her no and she is buggin me!!ugh! please help!
Sometimes it is okay for your parents to give her a ride, but you are right, not always. Tell her that she should ask her parents first for a ride and actually see if they can't before asking you for one.
Hope things work out! If u ever need anything just drop one in my box :) -RiLeY
When is a good time to tell your boyfriend of a year that the relationship is getting too serious and you're not realy for it?
whenever it gets so bad that you just have to tell him...