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E-mail: Joze_Moon@hotmail.com
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Location: New England usa
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Where do i begin? I was recently married 9 months ago to a 47 yr. old nurse. I am a female,45,and officer and have 2 girls, 11 and 16. I was single for 6 yrs. before, having been abused and mistreated for 11 yrs. I started over and now have a nice home and 2 cars, and have worked hard alone for what I have. So anyway I always wanted to marry again someday and have the family thing, and be happy.So I took a chance and boy I have been wondering about my judgement. We so rarely make love its getting hard to recall. He is just not interested he says, He hates when I say something about it, Another problem is I wonder could he be Bi-sexual, Right after we got married I caught him on the computer with men and women and talking sex, writing Bi-Sexual couples etc. I have caught him not about 5 times since we got married,. I Now have forbid him to use my computer, well he went to the library, and did it and he probabley does it at work. He denies that he is BI, saying it was for kicks, he was just messing with them and he was just curious about people. He hurt my feelings so much and not wanting to sleep with me, makes me feel unloved,and depressed, I love him, and want my marriage to work, but you dont have to be a bright light bulb to figure something is wrong here. I have threatened to go elsewhere for sex and he says go right ahead. I am so hurt Im miserable. He says he loves me but he sure dont know how to show it and says he will leave if that is what I want. Im getting to where I dont talk to him, I hold things in, Do I need someone to just slap me and make me wake up here and quit wanting that fantasy of a decent kind,loving husband? Thanks P.s. He has 2 kids that wont have anything to do with him, he was an alcoholic and married twice before. (link)
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Dear lady:
"Please,settle this thing between you two, before it gos any further." It seems to me that he wanted someone to give him security and someone to lean on even if that meant commiting to someone he did not really want."
"Try to end this in a good way, and stay single until you know for a surety that theobject of your affection feels the same way about you." Take time to know a person before you commit." "Do backround checks and remember, this man's kids are not speaking to him for a reason and maybe you should pay them a visit and have a chat."
Good Luck
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My best friend is 16 now but she has been getting abused by her dad since she was old enough to walk. I saw him punch her in the face one time and bang her head against a wall. I am really scared for and her sister because I have seen him hit her too. She's asked me not to tell but Im scared that if I keep quiet that one day he might really hurt her. We tryed calling the police on him one time but they wanted to press charges against us and not him. I dont know what I should do and I dont know how I can help her. (link)
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try looking up shelters for abused teens in your city and your local family services-or child welfare in your area I believe that they will step in and find her a place to stay out of this abusive inviorment
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My sister at a young age died of luekemia. I dont really uderstand where she got it from. But lately I've been finding random bruises on my boyd and i know my sister had random bruises and ashe was always tired and im always tired. Is there a possiblity that i could have it too? (link)
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Put your mind at ease and go to your family Doctor and tell him your fears and have him check out those bruises. This could just be fear on your part but it is better to be sure .
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hey i want to address these questions to the guys:
-what is it that causes you to break up with us (excluding obvious reasons such as cheating, clingyness, and vice versa).
-when you get around to getting bored of us, what are your motives? and what do you do to "fix" the problem?
-if applicable, why do men cheat?
-describe your version of a "perfect girlfriend" (personality trait-wise mainly).
i was watching the simpsons last night where marge went to get lipo but got boob implants instead cuz she thought homer was getting bored of her and it just made me ponder about this to understand you guys better.
i myself am a current girlfriend, and our relationship is doing great, but i'd like to know what else i can do to make my man happy (other than the typical things). :)
thanks! (link)
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So sorry that I did not answer your question correctly - I apologise, In answer to your question - for sure a good attitude and personallity is good in making friends and attracting friends to you and I do believe this is something you need to work on.. Good Luck..
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Hey, sorry if this is confusing. But yeah, since it's lent, I have to go to confession today. And I know I've sinned, everyone does, but I just can't think of anything to say. Can someone help me? Is there anything I should tell him? I just can't think of anything. Thanks! (link)
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These little rituals that some Religions have us go through at certain times of the year get us motivated to look deep into our selves so that we can look upward to our heavenly Father for forgiveness and guidance. As there is nothing wrong with this, we must remember that when we accept Jesus Christ as our Savior as the Bible tells us then we can forgo the middle man ( Priest) and go straight to God himself. Then our sins well pour out things that we did not even realize we did and our heavenly Father will be faithful to forgive wiping the slate clean... Because of Christ his Son..
Peace
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