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need a motive
hey i want to address these questions to the guys:
-what is it that causes you to break up with us (excluding obvious reasons such as cheating, clingyness, and vice versa).
-when you get around to getting bored of us, what are your motives? and what do you do to "fix" the problem?
-if applicable, why do men cheat?
-describe your version of a "perfect girlfriend" (personality trait-wise mainly).
i was watching the simpsons last night where marge went to get lipo but got boob implants instead cuz she thought homer was getting bored of her and it just made me ponder about this to understand you guys better.
i myself am a current girlfriend, and our relationship is doing great, but i'd like to know what else i can do to make my man happy (other than the typical things). :)
thanks!
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Even though I am a girl here is what I think:
1) Relationships can end in many different ways. there is a fight, disagreemnet, misunderstanding, boredom, no connection between each other, lack of communication, lose of interest. Anything really. If someone thinks it isn't worling out then that is another reason.
2)Jazz up your realtionship with random gifts to each other, suprises, and go on new dates. Not just out to eat or to the movies. Go paintballing or to a laser war or anything like that. If you are athletic go to a nearby indoor rockclimbing place or play sports. Just find new things to do and try new things together.
3)Even though I am not male I know many guys who cheat. They feel like they need attention from as many girls as possible. THey need one girl they know wil lbe there for them and the rest are supposed to worship him. There is also the reason of boredom or arguement or something is wrong in the relationship.
4) can't answer this one
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Hey --- please don't get offended by ANY of this. Just speaking MY opinions and thoughts about all of this.
1. Usually we get bored. Guys are comletely different from girls. We mostly like to get some, if you know what I mean. And if a girl is not putting out, we move on. But that doesn't apply to all guys. For me, some reasons would have to be: girl is too shy, boring, and in some cases, the stuff I mentioned at the beginning of my answer.
2. Try to do more things. Not always sexual, but new things. Say instead of going ot the movies all the times, go to an arcade or park. Spice things up someway.
3. As I mentioned before, men usually want some. And they think if a girl isn't putting OUT, that, then, she's not interested. So they move on to someone else. Or SOMETIMES they're not getting ENOUGH fFROM ONE GIRLK SO THEY TRY TO GET MORE TILL THEIR SATISFIED. Or they meet an even hotter girl.
4. For me, it's mostly about personality anyway. She has to be somewhat decent looking, and I'd like her to be nice, pretty, funny, you gotta love a girl with a sense of humor, and someone you can trust and have fun with. Someone you can be comfortable with.
DO ANYTHING. Something new! Surprise him... like say he likes hockey, take him out to a hockey game or something. Ya know? Well hope everything goes well! Please rate me and view my site.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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So sorry that I did not answer your question correctly - I apologise, In answer to your question - for sure a good attitude and personallity is good in making friends and attracting friends to you and I do believe this is something you need to work on.. Good Luck..
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