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lost the spark!
hi, i'm a 19/f and i'm in a little bit of a predicament. i've been with my boyfriend for a couple of years now which is great, but i think that as time passes us by, we're slowly getting into a rut.
like you know when you first date someone you get butterflies and those mushy feelings when you're around them? i know those feelings are temporary, but i feel as if our relationship resembles more of a friendship rather than an intimate bond.
what i'd like advice on is if there is anything i can do to put the spark back into our relationship?
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Do something you both would like to do together it seems like your relationship is getting stail and that it might be a reason to brake it of. There is plenty of things to do why not start from scrach with your boyfriend and start of like friends and take it from there do stuff you used to do when you first got butterflies.
luv roxie
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It's just young love growing old.. it should get betterr..
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-screw him..do it all in one night and tell him you love him
Trisha*
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You know what? Relationships aren't always the butterflies & mushiness -- sometimes there's a feeling of comfort that settles in, where you know you are at ease with the other person. So it isn't necessarily a bad thing at all. I think for the spark... go do things together you'd never done before. Be spontaneous, and show new aspects of yourself to you guy. You have to stimulate each other as much psychologically as physically, for it to work.
. Tracy
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