Depending on the day depends on the type of answer you will get from me. Most of the time i give what i would do if i were in your shoes. That means it could be harsh and stereotypical or nice and easy to understand. i love giving advice so ask away. challenge me a bit and you will get a good answer out of me. i have played the harp for 7 years and love it to this day. God bless
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My sister at a young age died of luekemia. I dont really uderstand where she got it from. But lately I've been finding random bruises on my boyd and i know my sister had random bruises and ashe was always tired and im always tired. Is there a possiblity that i could have it too? (link)
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This site is all about luekemia and it may answer your question.
http://my.webmd.com/content/article/70/81046.htm
Hope you figure it out
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I need a new tennis racket but I'm not sure what kind to get. Any suggestions from tennis players? (link)
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Wilson is what I have and my friend. They are pretty good.
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Hey, my family might move from here in Wisconsin to Florida. I want to sooo bad for the weather. But I just can't leave all my friends here. i love em all to death. And my best friend and I are really close and it will be so hard for me to leave her, and everyone else. How can I not miss her so much?? (link)
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There is no way to miss her BUT if you keep in touch it is better. Call everynow and again in the evenings and write both letters and emails. Also exchange photos of each other. Talk with your parents and see if you can go up and visit over the summer. My friend moved to Mali africa and that is how we keep in touch. I miss her A LOT but just getting something from her makes me feel better. Hope you can work something out!!
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I recently found out that my boyfriend drinks. Every fiber of my bones is completely and utterly against drinking and alcohol. I hate it like you would not believe. My dad was an alcoholic and my best friend died from drinking and driving a few years ago.
I love him. I really do. I care about him and beg him not to drink. But he tells me he knows his limits. He says he doesnt get drunk just "tipsy". The other night he went out with a few of his friends and they played drinking games. He didnt tell me about it but his friend did.
I feel lied to. I feel betrayed. I know it's his life and he can do as he pleases. I dont want him to think Im trying to control him. But I dont want him to die either.
Help me. Should I leave? Should I stay? How can I look past his drinking habits? (link)
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It is a hard situation you are in. I know that you may not agree with what he is doing but it is his choice. Let him know the reasons why you want him not to drink. Tell him that you are not trying to control him and that it is his choice in the end. Tell him your worries and just ask him to at least do less drinking. That is all you can really do. Hope I helped
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i am a 6 ft 15 yr old female and i was just wondering, is being tall a turn off? i have a thin frame and get called 'hot' sometimes, so excluding looks is being tall a bad thing? through a mutual friend i have with my brother i found out what my brothers mates were saying about me 'imagine having sex with bozzas sister what a tall freak forget that I'd rather have sex with bozza' (LOL, note: that was the cleaned up version) (link)
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Aren't all the models hot? They are mostly tall too. Most guys I know like tall chicks instead of short ones. So I would say forget your brother's friends and find guys who are interested in tall chicks.
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17/m Last weekend a very close friend of mine told me that she liked me. I said that I liked her too and that we should go out sometime. The reason that I said that I liked her is because everything deserves a chance. Well we have been on two dates and it is clear to me that she likes me way more than I like her. How do I let her know that I want to be just friends with out ruining a good friendship? I rate high. (link)
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Just explain it to her. Not harshly but gently. Ask her how she feels about you. Tell her that you like her but not enough to date. Whatever you tell her it will hurt her if she really really likes you. But the truth is always better. Tell her that you will always be there and that you are a best friend to her. Right now you don't want to date. Just tell her kindly and your friendship should be saved.
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Is there a way so find out someones screen name (like on the computer) on AIM if you have there name?
(besides asking them...duh)
Thanks (link)
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if they have a profile and in AOL or something like that you can look it up that way
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hey i want to address these questions to the guys:
-what is it that causes you to break up with us (excluding obvious reasons such as cheating, clingyness, and vice versa).
-when you get around to getting bored of us, what are your motives? and what do you do to "fix" the problem?
-if applicable, why do men cheat?
-describe your version of a "perfect girlfriend" (personality trait-wise mainly).
i was watching the simpsons last night where marge went to get lipo but got boob implants instead cuz she thought homer was getting bored of her and it just made me ponder about this to understand you guys better.
i myself am a current girlfriend, and our relationship is doing great, but i'd like to know what else i can do to make my man happy (other than the typical things). :)
thanks! (link)
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Even though I am a girl here is what I think:
1) Relationships can end in many different ways. there is a fight, disagreemnet, misunderstanding, boredom, no connection between each other, lack of communication, lose of interest. Anything really. If someone thinks it isn't worling out then that is another reason.
2)Jazz up your realtionship with random gifts to each other, suprises, and go on new dates. Not just out to eat or to the movies. Go paintballing or to a laser war or anything like that. If you are athletic go to a nearby indoor rockclimbing place or play sports. Just find new things to do and try new things together.
3)Even though I am not male I know many guys who cheat. They feel like they need attention from as many girls as possible. THey need one girl they know wil lbe there for them and the rest are supposed to worship him. There is also the reason of boredom or arguement or something is wrong in the relationship.
4) can't answer this one
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so today i asked a guy i really like to be my b/f and he said yes after keeping me in suspence for a few hours during the school day. hes really shy all the time so i asked him out. im afraid this relationship isnt gonna work out cuz he wont call or talk to me... should i give it some time to get comfy (if yes, how should i help him) or just tell him to forget it? (link)
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If you like him then you should def. try to make it work. Find out what he likes to do in his spare time and do that with him. It will make him feel better. Tell him that it is ok if he calls you from time to time. Also just hang out with his friends as well as your friends. he needs to be i nareas that he feels comfortable. If you are there then he will become more open and more comfotable around you. It may take some time but it should work. It has worked for me a lot. Hope you two work it all out.
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ok here it goes its kinda long but i really need your help.
i have this friend she is like my best friend thats what she calls us... doesnt mean she is...
well her boyfriend broke up with her a while ago. she still hasnt gotten over him. she still loves him. i've talked to him on the phone and i asked him if he still likes her and he said no. and i was like well who do you like? and he kept saying no one until he said "me" i was like stop playing and he says im not playing i like you. and i kept saying no your joking and he goes no i like you, you dont belive me? and at school he always tells me he loves me, and he gives me hugs, and once he called me his girlfriend. i went to the movies last nite and he was there... he asked me to sit next to him, and i said ya ok. and at the movies he put his arm around me and he kept telling me he loves me and he gave me a kiss on the cheek. i like him to a lot. but i dunno what is he trying to do, does he like me? i think he does, but im not sure. he askes me if i love him and i say yes sometimes mostly i dont answer and wen i say yes he asks me why? and what should i do about it? he flirts with other girls to. so please help me, and tell me what does this mean? (link)
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My best friend had dated this guy for 3 years. They broke up and he started to hang out with me more often. Finally he told me he liked me and wanted to date me. At first i freaaked out because I thought I could never do that to my best friend. I had liked him and still did at that point. I talked to my friend about it and i knew she still liked him. She was mad at me because she took it as me betraying her. I dated him and she eventually cooled off. Even though we don't date now I am still friends with him. Everything with my best friend has smoothed out and we are working at being best friends again. Basically what I am saying is talk with your best friend let her know how you feel and what he is saying. Don't let her find out through someone else then she will get extremely mad at you. If you like him date him see what it is like. If it doesn't work out then it doesn't work out. But best friends last 10 times longer than any relationship so put that above the guy. Good luck!!
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Hey i've been working with the same SN since 7th grade almost and now i'm a 9th grader...i want a new sn heres somethings about me or words i want in it.
Icy
Figure skater
Pink
silver
16
18
thats all i can think of right now i hope you guys can help me. THANKS IN ADVANCE! (link)
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silverS8ter16
icskater18
those are two ones i can think of off the top of my head
hope you figure a good one out
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I live in Utah and I expect everyone to have big opinions on my religion because it is different. My boyfriend is LDS (morman) and I am Lutheran. We have breifly dicussed if we were to get married, where would it be at. He wants a temple wedding and I want my chruch wedding. There is no way I would convert. But we seem to argue about this a lot. I am scared I might lose him because of this. How can I settle it without losing him? (link)
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I play in weddings (my harp). Some people have 2 weddings to make both sides happy. YOu should have both keep the cost down on both and have one recoetion. The weddings do not have to be on the same day just a day or so apart. I have played in 2 weddings for the same person before...(catholic and baptist). It allows everyone to be happy. If I were that is what I would do at least.
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Okay, so! I'm 15/female and I met this guy last week and he seems pretty cool. He likes me and all, and I like him too. It's just that, I dont like him like boyfriend/girlfriend. He's a great person and all, and I'd be happy with being friends but other than that, I'm confused. See.. I'm not hott or anything, I'm average, but he sees me as beautiful. And I desperatley want a boyfriend because I havent had one in over a year and I'm getting lonely. But I dont want to go out with this guy for the wrong reasons. Should I go out with him once and see what happens or what? (link)
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I think you should get to know him a little more and then decide whether or not to go out with him. Go in groups and talk with him. Find out what he is like and his personality. If you find that you like his personality and who he is then go ahead and date him. But if you go out with him now then you might regret it without knowing him.
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If god knows that we are gonna do something bad, like look up porn, why doesnt he try and stop us. I dont really understand it but, i am a porn addict and its getting harder and harder for me to stop. why would god let me do it if he knows its wrong? (link)
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God does not stop us because we have a choice. It is called free will. We know it is wrong to do things but we are creatures of habit and tend to stay in one path. The only way to stop is by trying really hard and asking God for support. The temptation will always be there but if you resist it, you can only gain confidence and a stronger relationship with Christ.
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I'm a really good singer. All of my friends have said so, and are threatening to take me too American Idol when I'm 16. And I love to sing. But when I go to do it in front of some people I get really nervous and choke up. Any suggestions on how to get rid of my nervous-ness??
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I am a harpist and singer. I used to get really nervous infront of groups when I preformed. The only cure I found is practice. First start witha small group of family and friends. Then gradually move up. It does help to memorize anything that you are singing. Close your eyes before you are about to preform and imagine you are where you usually practice. Start to sing then open your eyes. Ignore the croud or group in front of you. Sing for yourself and put all your emotion and feelings into the song. You won't even realize it is over when it is. Stage fright is one of those things that make the preformance a thrill. It is as if electric is being pumped through you right before a concert. Hope you get rid of it because you should share your talent.
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Me and my girlfriend just broke up and i was kinda glad that we broke up at first but noe i miss her really bad and i am not sure if she likes me so what should i do? (link)
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Just yall don't go out anymore doesn't mean that you can't be friends. Talk to her and explain to her that you miss her. It may be the same thing with her. If she wants to be friends stay friends but you never know, you two may go back out. Just try and see what happends. Hope it works out for you!
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Well over the weekend I'm stuck with a huge project over the weekend and...its a group project and two of the guys in the group goof off all the time and are failing the class and the other guy is a cute,nice,funny guy I flirt and joke around with sometimes. He's into the project but he's not into getting everything together. I've got this amazingly funny and fun idea for the project, and the only way I'm gonna get it done is if I do it all by myself. So my question is, do people hate it if you do all the work? Does doing all the work piss people off? Will the guy not like me anymore if I do it by myself?
Thanks so much for helping! :-) (link)
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Tell him the situation, which I am sure he is aware of and explain to him that you want to get it done. If he want to help he will say so. Either than that, you should do it on your own then go to the teacher and explain that 2 of the boys did not help at all and that they should be excluded from being graded. When I have group projects and certain people don't pitch in at least a little bit I make sure they don't get a grade. It is their fault they didn't do anything and they should not get a free grade out of it.
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Hey I realized my friend sorta WANTS to have sex and she is only 13, shes not going to have it, its just she wants to. I was on her computer and saw alot of porn websites, is this normal for a 13 year old??
I rate high! (link)
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13 is the ackward age that is between preteen and teen. yes it is thirteen but you are still at that mind set of i am a teenager but not old enough to be really considered mature enough to be a teen. I hope that last scentence made since to you. Anyways, it is normal but she should not act apon those thoughts. You say she won't and hopefully she will stay true to that. Let her know that there are guys out there that will take advantage of her once they find out about her curiosity. Hipefully she won't fall into a trap, but I think it is perfectly normal for her to be curious.
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ok me and my boyfriend hve been together a while. and we hve done most everything but, sex. alot of my friends hve already had sex. i know some people might say im too young but me and my boyfriend love each other and i know we are both physically and emotionally ready. well he comes over often but everytime im on my period [ kinda wierd? ] but we both hve tlked about this.. and sometimes i want to and others im jus like idk.. but i think i am ready but im so scared i might get pregnant but most people i know of hve had sex and used a condom and hve not got pregnant. seriously what are the chances. do you think im ready? and how would i let him know while we are together that i want to..? PLEASE DONT SAY IM NASTY OR NETHING IM REALLY NOT! please answer asap (link)
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If you are scared you shouldn't do anything. It is your mind telling you are not ready, even if you think you are. Please don't do anything!!! My friend she had sex AND USED A CONDOM and she got pregnant. They aren't reliable. Plus they broke up and now she is alone, pregnant, and considering aportion. But before everything happened they thought they were ready. So my point is don't do anything you could even think about regreting. If he loves you he will respect your opinion and thoughts. If he doesn't then he doesn't really love you. It is your decision in the end, no one can force you into something you don't want to do.
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Okay now I dont want to sound too sluty but yesterday I went some where with my friend and when we got there it was this really cute boy there. Now he was flirting with me(rubbing my leg and holding my hand) but the bad part of all this is he was doin gthe same to my friend, when we went outside, we actually made out. When we got back to my friends house she told me that they made out! Now I don't know if that is true or not because they were never really alone together bu twhat if it is true? I have to see this boy every thursday, and I think we both like him, but who does he like??? PLEASE HELP ME (link)
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This is what we call a player. They come in between two friends and split them apart. He may be cute and funny and sweet to you but he is with every other girl. if he really cared about either of you, then he would choose. but he didn't and won't. It will only drive your friendship apart. It happened with my best friend. Only there were a few more reasons but the guy was the main part. In the end he left both of us (at different times). So we both lost and now we don't even talk because we can't trust each other. If you do not want this to happen to each other then ignore him and don't even look at him. Hope you stay friends and he goes away.
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