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Confused a lil. PLEASE HELP.
ok here it goes its kinda long but i really need your help.
i have this friend she is like my best friend thats what she calls us... doesnt mean she is...
well her boyfriend broke up with her a while ago. she still hasnt gotten over him. she still loves him. i've talked to him on the phone and i asked him if he still likes her and he said no. and i was like well who do you like? and he kept saying no one until he said "me" i was like stop playing and he says im not playing i like you. and i kept saying no your joking and he goes no i like you, you dont belive me? and at school he always tells me he loves me, and he gives me hugs, and once he called me his girlfriend. i went to the movies last nite and he was there... he asked me to sit next to him, and i said ya ok. and at the movies he put his arm around me and he kept telling me he loves me and he gave me a kiss on the cheek. i like him to a lot. but i dunno what is he trying to do, does he like me? i think he does, but im not sure. he askes me if i love him and i say yes sometimes mostly i dont answer and wen i say yes he asks me why? and what should i do about it? he flirts with other girls to. so please help me, and tell me what does this mean?
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i think he might be just trying to get bac at his ex, or just trying to play you -n- maybe trying to get into your pants
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wow, dejavoo. i m going through almost the same thing.
mii cuzin dumped this kid ryan who still liked her nd i tried so hard 2 get them back 2 gether nd he still has feelings 4 her so i was on the phone wit him tellin him that he should ask her out again cuz its worth a shot nd he say theres no chance, besides i like u,
i try so hard 2 convince him 2 not like me
i guess we are good like that
j/p
i dont no wat 2 do myself so i really dont got n e solutions 4 u
sorry
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My best friend had dated this guy for 3 years. They broke up and he started to hang out with me more often. Finally he told me he liked me and wanted to date me. At first i freaaked out because I thought I could never do that to my best friend. I had liked him and still did at that point. I talked to my friend about it and i knew she still liked him. She was mad at me because she took it as me betraying her. I dated him and she eventually cooled off. Even though we don't date now I am still friends with him. Everything with my best friend has smoothed out and we are working at being best friends again. Basically what I am saying is talk with your best friend let her know how you feel and what he is saying. Don't let her find out through someone else then she will get extremely mad at you. If you like him date him see what it is like. If it doesn't work out then it doesn't work out. But best friends last 10 times longer than any relationship so put that above the guy. Good luck!!
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Well, this might not be very helpful, but do you like him back. I had this exact same problem, except I was the one who liked the X... I told my friend, and she was a little steamed at first, but then she realized that her relationship was over and that she couldn't keep him forever. As far as I was concerned she was (and still is) one of my best friends. Since we were (are) so close, she understood. but the guy didn't like me anyway, and you know what, they almost got back together again after I asked him out! Maybe if you get your friend and him to be friends again, they can get back together. A happy ending for all of you. right?
Oh yeah! If you don't like him, tell him! It'll get him off your back, and onto someone else's... sorry, that sounded really crule...
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He likes you. If you aren't dating him its alright for him to flirt with other girls. I think he sounds sweet but another thing is I would also think about your friendship with your bestfriend before thinking about going out with him. It might hurt your friendship because she still isn't over him.
x0x britt!
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ahh i'm going through the same exact thing right now. okay all you have to do is say.. listen i just can't do this to my friend and if he says well if she wasn't in this would you go out with me just say maybe.. i dunno what would happen. just say that cause you always wanna side with your friend. but if you really really want him, then just explain it all to your friend and say that you're starting to like him back and then seh'll either flip out or not. i mean i don't know your friend but it's just best to explain it to her either way.
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I think you said it yourself--he flirts with other girls. I doubt that if he "loved" you, like he said, he would go and flirt with other people. This is not to mention how fucking insensitive this guy seems to me, having just broken up with your best friend. There are things to be done and things to be done AFTER a certain break-up time, and he doesn't seem to grasp the importance in the difference. I think this guy isn't worth all that much - I mean put yourself in your girl friend's place: would you really like to go out with a guy, knowing that the moment you break up he goes and flirts with gazillions of other people?
. Tracy
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Well if he doesnt like your friend she has to forget about him first of all i need to know do you like him? or not? because if you do then you should tell your friend and explain you cant help your feelings for him...
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ok.. well first of all you can't let this out to your friend.. the best idea might be that you tell her that you don't like him and about everything that is going on so that if she sees him hugging you in the hallway or w/e then you and her won't get in a fight. If she really likes this guy then you need to make her get over him and help her find a new guy. If you can't find one then you need to be there for her.. the next best thing to your boy firend is your best friend so be there for her. In the mean time just support her and make her date other guyz so that she can get over the other guy and if it works .. maybe if you like him and she wouldn't care then you could go out with him.. but that would be a while and who knows maybe you could make your friend into a girl who her old boyfriend would want to date so that they could go back out!.... well i hope i helped ! Good Luck!! XoXo
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