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ok here it goes its kinda long but i really need your help.
i have this friend she is like my best friend thats what she calls us... doesnt mean she is...
well her boyfriend broke up with her a while ago. she still hasnt gotten over him. she still loves him. i've talked to him on the phone and i asked him if he still likes her and he said no. and i was like well who do you like? and he kept saying no one until he said "me" i was like stop playing and he says im not playing i like you. and i kept saying no your joking and he goes no i like you, you dont belive me? and at school he always tells me he loves me, and he gives me hugs, and once he called me his girlfriend. i went to the movies last nite and he was there... he asked me to sit next to him, and i said ya ok. and at the movies he put his arm around me and he kept telling me he loves me and he gave me a kiss on the cheek. i like him to a lot. but i dunno what is he trying to do, does he like me? i think he does, but im not sure. he askes me if i love him and i say yes sometimes mostly i dont answer and wen i say yes he asks me why? and what should i do about it? he flirts with other girls to. so please help me, and tell me what does this mean? (link)
i think he might be just trying to get bac at his ex, or just trying to play you -n- maybe trying to get into your pants


ok well i have this ex b/f i will call him z and i went out with im on and off for almost a year i alos got quite heavy with him. i still like him and have done since we broke up. he has mooved on and been with loads of other girls so why cant i move on??? (link)
MOVE ON! i know how hard it is...gosh dont i know...-n-ewayz...go out with whoever, just jump boi to boi...be a pimpette...until you can find someone...being a pimpette can actually help ya out alot with moving on...you'll see alot of other options


I'm torn between two guys. They are both really great and I like them both. I have no clue which one I should be with. I know I have to be with one of them, but I don't know what one. *Jake is 16 years old. He's an awesome guy but sometimes we get into fights and say really hurtful things to eachother. But I still really like him, because he always shows that sweet side to him around his friends, when he's known as a "Tough" guy at school. *Erik is 17 (my age) and is an all time sweetheart, he's always there for me when I need him. He's just plan amazing. I like something about both of these guys, but I'd like a little feedback from you guys about what I should do. Which one should I choose/not choose? Thanks. (link)
lol, damn uhhh jake you argue with him -n- say hurtful stuff...maybe you're better of with erik


I met this really cool guy at a party a couple of weeks ago and we had like everything in common. He seemed a little bit interested in me that night, but it was hard to tell. He got my screen name from my friend and he IMed me and said he wanted to do something that weekend. Plans didn't really seem to work out 2 weeks in a row. He definatly seemed interested like a week ago and he kept trying to see me. I kept telling myself not to get too hooked on the guy because I just met him and I need to get to know what he's like. Plus I didn't want to get hurt if things didn't work out. So my friends asked if he liked me and he said he wasn't sure because he doesn't really know me, but that I'm an amazing girl. So naturally being a girl, I plan out this whole relationship in my head not being able to control myself. The past week we haven't talked much and when we have he didn't seem to still be interested at all. He didn't say anything about maybe doing something this weekend, which he normally would've done at this point. I'm sooo mad at myself for falling for him because now I'm feeling really sad about the whole thing. I haven't had a boyfriend in 2 years and I've been searching for someone, but I didn't like anyone until I found him. Do you think he still likes me and I'm just reading too into it? And am I crazy for being so obsessive? Like maybe he's just busy this weekend or something... I don't know, but I'm confused and I just want to get over it! (link)
uhhh, calm down...lol he's probably just getting aggravated at the fact everytime ya'll make plans they never work out, so he probably already figures if he tried again it wont work...just keep trying, sooner or later it'll work out


..........theres this girl in my class who is really hot,has a great personality,smart.and athletic. she just recently had a boyfriend but she dumped him.i like her alot and she sot of likes me.....im not absolutely sure,but she talks to me alot and i think she likes me. i need advice on how to figure out how much she likes me without snitches snooping and telling everyone i like her. please help (link)
dude! step up, flirt with her...be yourself around her...get some eye contact...just ask her out...or ask her for her #...call her sometime...it'll go from there


ok so im goin out with this guy..but we never see eachother at school...and it totally sucks!! i mean we talk alot online and on the phone but im always afraid hes gonna break up with me! should i talk to him about it??! (link)
uhhh, yeah talk to him about it, ask him how he's feeling about it...but dont make him think that you have a problem with it


hey...i was wondering what can i do to get this guy i like to notice me and to let him know i like him?I'm 15 years old and female if that helps any. i know him (the guy i like) because i'm really good friends with his twin sister and i ride his bus alot with my best friend. we have alot of mutual friends but i havent talked to him personally i've gotten to kno him by being around him alot with some friends but i've never actually talked to him and up until recently i didnt realize i was attracted to him so now i'm wondering what i should do whether to just not tell him or go for it...usually i would know the answer myself but i've been screwed over to many times by going with my gut feeling Thanx to any one that helps!!! (link)
well, i usually go for the eye contact...dont stare at him, but every once in a while try -n- get him to look in your eyes...-n- if ya'll catch eyes...you'll feel if he likes you or not...kinda hard to explain but i've been there before


k i have a boyfriend and i love my ex boyfriend,but he doesnt love me. my boyfriend doesnt know i love him but i do. me and my ex are still really good friends and my boyfriend gets really jealous every time we go somewhere. i feel bad for having a boyfriend cuz i only like him as a friend and sometimes i like him as more. i dont know im really confused (link)
ahhh, confusion i hate it, but being with the boy you're with now, [doesnt mean it gotta be forever] it'll help ya get over your ex...-n- then later you might find someone better


ok... so I've kind of been with this guy for a while now... and it's starting to get sexual... and I've never done anything sexual before so I'm pretty clueless. OK so he keeps feeling me up and I know I need to give him a hand job back... but I just don't know how. I mean does it have to be up before I start rubbin or what? and if it does what do I do to get it up... and idunno how fast to do it either... I don't wanna hurt him or anything and make him think I'm stupid... I obviously know the general motion.. I'm not THAT clueless... but yea. I guess I'm just looking for any tips on giving hand jobs and kind of 'instructions' I guess

Thanks (link)
uhhh haha, well you should at least tell him str8 up, you've never done it before...he'll probably direct you to what ya need to do...he's the one feeling it...-n- naw it aint got to be hard before you do it, thats what gets him hard, if he aint hard already lol


i have always liked this kid matt & he likes me and we would be perfect for eachother -- and he said we will prob go out we just need time to develop... so what should i do? this kid dave likes me a lot.. should i tell him about matt and only like matt? or wait till i know we are gunna go out? i have no idea what to do! (link)
well if you really like matt, to the point where you might actually "love" him, then you should wait for him...if you're too impatient, get with dave


my guy friend says he likes me but he is uncomfortable with me kissing him. what should i do? (link)
uhhh, dont pressure him too much...just be a little patient


Well, My 5 year olf brother and I walked into the room my 16 year old sister and I share, and we saw her and her boyfriend having sex...

They didnt even know we were there for like two minutes... I was frozen, my feet rooted to the floor, but then finally my brother pulled me away... the problem is... My brother asked me, just as we walked out, "what were they doing there?"

I seriously dont know how to answer him... I mumbled something, but all week he's been persisting, and I need to give him an answer before he asks my parents and gets my sister into trouble... Please help!!! (link)
..."Its a way of showing love"...or tell your sister he saw them, -n- get her to explain it however she wants to...since she'll be the one to get into trouble if he says anything to your parents


well..this is how it went...i had been going out with this guy for 5 months and had grown so attached to him and the first4 months he was so attached to me... i mean he would take me on dates and to the homecoming dance(which were things he was not used to doing) and then it hit the fifth month and he just didn't care about me. before he wouldn't even consider ditching me for his friends and now he was doing it everyday and well one day he had been at a party with his friends and he called me and said it was over and i tried to talk to him when we went back to school but he wouldn't talk to me and he has changed so much from who he used to be...he used to be a punk rocker and is now a prep. how we started going out last year was i had asked him to go to my party in may and he came...should i ask him to go to the one this year and how should i do it on the phone, in person, alone, with his friends there? i am 16 and female (link)
well, if you dont already talk to him in person, if you barely even talk to him anymore, maybe you shouldnt ask him at all...but if you two are still pretty cool...then maybe calling him on the phone, while it's you -n- him one on one...without his friends around...ask him then


20, male.

Okay, the girl I'm going out with and I are sitting watching TV. We've only been dating for a few days, but I've been her friend since before elementary school. She mentions a mutual friend was talking about a movie that we passed. So I, the idiot that I am, accidently call her by the friend's name. She pulled away from me for a few seconds, and then went into my arms again.

I explained that it was only because she mentioned her name seconds before, but is that enough? Should I try to explain in detail that I have no feelings for this other girl or should I drop it? (link)
totally drop it, if you keep talking -n- trying to explain yourself without her asking, she'll think you're feeling guilty about something




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