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i need to know if i should ask my ex to go to my party
well..this is how it went...i had been going out with this guy for 5 months and had grown so attached to him and the first4 months he was so attached to me... i mean he would take me on dates and to the homecoming dance(which were things he was not used to doing) and then it hit the fifth month and he just didn't care about me. before he wouldn't even consider ditching me for his friends and now he was doing it everyday and well one day he had been at a party with his friends and he called me and said it was over and i tried to talk to him when we went back to school but he wouldn't talk to me and he has changed so much from who he used to be...he used to be a punk rocker and is now a prep. how we started going out last year was i had asked him to go to my party in may and he came...should i ask him to go to the one this year and how should i do it on the phone, in person, alone, with his friends there? i am 16 and female
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well, if you dont already talk to him in person, if you barely even talk to him anymore, maybe you shouldnt ask him at all...but if you two are still pretty cool...then maybe calling him on the phone, while it's you -n- him one on one...without his friends around...ask him then
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If you want him there ask him.If he say's no,oh well. You tried. I'd try a phone call, then if he says no at least it won't be in front of others...could be upsetting if you still like him. Good luck.
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just because you got something good over asking him once doesnt mean it will happen again (go for another dude)
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i think that you should ask him!! it will be a good way for yall to get closer again. Dont do it on the phoen tho because you need to see his face and his facial expressions when you ask. So do it in person, also i would do it alone because alot of guys act different when they are around friends. Tell him that you want yall to become friends again and see how he reacts. Hope i helped. lemme know how things go!!
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