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Okey, my friend told me to ask this question. She has been shaving her mustach for about a year now..and it looks really bad!! what can she do? she cant wax because she gets rashes and for some reason it doesnt even work..and she cant tweez because there's too much hair. And she cant colour cuz it still shows..any suggestions?

wow thats fucked up, u need to get some surgery then...

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Lately, I've been feeling REALLY lonely. How do I tell my parents that, I don't want to be here anymore? I'm tired of my friends, I'm tired of my family, and I'm tired with the people around. I do hang out with good people who make good decisions--I'm not tired about that. But I don't feel completely happy with them. I sometimes feel a little left out, and I do blame myself for not being more "in the loop". But I don't have that many things in common with them. My parents are also good people. They give me the things I need and have brought me up pretty well. They really are good parents. I'm just sick of living here and being lonely. I feel like theres no one around. I recently just lost my "best friend". She was great, but I did realize that she wasn't exactly the kind of person I want to be friends with (she constantly reassured herself by making fun of other people, she was REALLY competitive @ EVERYTHING, etc.). Is there anything I can do, or anyone I can talk to, or IM? (Theres a lot of other things I'm upset about) Is there anyone who's been in a state of depression or anything? Because I seriously need to talk to someone.

just go to talk to people..

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i always write before i go to bed because im a young author, and well, i always leave my light on because i forget because by the time im done writing im really tired. anyway does sleeping with a light on really give you lukemia?

no

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female/14/texas/eighthgrade

Okay...I really like this guy and recently he found out that i like him which is cool and all but i don't know wht to do now...I mean I don't know if he likes me or not...what should i do?

first what i would do is get a friend that you can trust and have them ask him who he likes (do this without knowing tha you want to know).. after this question if it is yes or even a "maybe" keep on talkin to him not like all the time but just here and there so he knows you are there... the key is to waiting even though it is hard but from this you can go to many places

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okay well my schools formal was the other night, and i have a problem. well i hang out with my brother and his 2 friends. well im going out with the one, and when he thought i didnt like him before we started going out, he said yes to the formal to this girl who asked him. so it ended up that i had to go with the other friend. and while we were there we won the prince and princess thing, and i ended up saying all this stuff to him how it was his night with me but i wasnt going out with him, i was going out with the other kid, and even though were all good, i think hes still mad at me.

just give it time if he is a loyal friend he will be there when you need him the most. Also if you see him in the halls sey "hey" now and then letting him know that you are not mad at him for anything but dont talk to himto much were it sounds like you like him or something. it depends how much this guy really likes you and from it will be how long he will be frustrated but not mad because if he really likes you then he could never be mad at you.

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ok.. me and my boyfriend of 10 mths broke up.. its almost been a month.. and im still totally in love with him.. ive told him.. and he knows.. i think he might like me again too.. so i was wondering.. if the next time we hug as "friends" should i kiss him on the cheek? or do i show him any type of emotion towards me wantin him back, or should i just act like friends with him?

*Madinga*

first figure out if he likes you or not because there is nothing more embarrising then liking someone who doesnt like you. and do this by having someone else like a good friend talk to him or someone you can trust once you find out that then faith will decide your path.

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ok i just moved to this new skool in another country. it has about 250 total kids. and i've heard that like all the girls at my new skool like me. and i dont know if i like any of them, and i'm only goin to be here until the end of the skool year. and i dont know wat to do about this... should i like just ignore them or sumthin?

no never ignore girls because when it comes down to it a girl can give you the best. Get to know them nd find out if you can possibly see yourself with any of them and if you can not then become friends with them because once one girl turns evil to you then they will all become evil towards you.

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i have always liked this kid matt & he likes me and we would be perfect for eachother -- and he said we will prob go out we just need time to develop... so what should i do? this kid dave likes me a lot.. should i tell him about matt and only like matt? or wait till i know we are gunna go out? i have no idea what to do!

first off this dave guy if you think you may like him then figure out first if you do or not and if you think somethnig can happen then let time play its role but if not then tell him that you view each others at friends. he may get mad at first but if he likes you that much then he will still be loyal to you. next on to matt, the only way to find out if he likes you or not is giving time, even though this sounds hard because you want everything to work out that will get him less anxious about you and might think that you r to whip for him. but time again is a very difficult thing, yuo see him and realize you need to be together but you cant do anything about it. it would drive a person insane but coming through this will make two lover's meet and join together. so give it time but also let him know you are there.

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soccer is coming up soon.... i need to get in shape... really bad. whenever i run now i feel i get out of breath a lot easier. and i think my leg muscles decreased, i lost a lot of weight. what can i do do get in shape, and increase my muscles (mainly leg muscles.. although arm muscles would help for my throw-ins)?

thanks..

well as a soccer player i know the key to it is endurance. at first it willl seem very hard but as time goes on it will become less harder. dont quit because you feal liked it instead do it to make you a better athlete. as michael jordan once said "I can accept failure, but I can't accept not trying."

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I have dark brown hair, it kind of looks black. People say I can't dye it blonde, but I kind of want to since people believe they can stop me. My skin has a natural tan, if that matters. My friend said I could dye my eyebrows to match. What do you think?

it doesnt matter what you look like... you should do with whatever you feel more comfortable with wether that be dye ur hair or keeping it the same. dont think what other people have to say cus by doing what other people do is keeping you inside the box! it a originalty is a key in life!

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