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Lately, I've been feeling REALLY lonely. How do I tell my parents that, I don't want to be here anymore? I'm tired of my friends, I'm tired of my family, and I'm tired with the people around. I do hang out with good people who make good decisions--I'm not tired about that. But I don't feel completely happy with them. I sometimes feel a little left out, and I do blame myself for not being more "in the loop". But I don't have that many things in common with them. My parents are also good people. They give me the things I need and have brought me up pretty well. They really are good parents. I'm just sick of living here and being lonely. I feel like theres no one around. I recently just lost my "best friend". She was great, but I did realize that she wasn't exactly the kind of person I want to be friends with (she constantly reassured herself by making fun of other people, she was REALLY competitive @ EVERYTHING, etc.). Is there anything I can do, or anyone I can talk to, or IM? (Theres a lot of other things I'm upset about) Is there anyone who's been in a state of depression or anything? Because I seriously need to talk to someone.
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i know exactly how you feel i always feel out of the loop and lonely.... and lately alot of my so called friends stabbed me in the back..... you can I.M. me at Forgottenlovex8 if you need someone to talk to!
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OH yes. i have been in depression. and like my therapist would say, it aint like bakin no cake. Get a therapist! my real wake up call was when my parents found a suicide note i had written...they confronted me about it and i was shocked at how much they cared.i got therapy, was put on anti - depressants, and now i have to say i am much happier and living a better life. If you would like to talk my aim screen name is eatingupsidedown. i hope i helped!
<3 staci
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just go to talk to people..
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I was in the same situation you are in right now about 7 ot 8 months ago, right before school started. I was always with my friends, but like you, I didn't as "welcome" as before. I had a really hard time deciding what I was going to do because i had always had lots of good friends because i'm really outgoung. My advice for you is to talk to someone who has seen their lonely days and try to get as much from them as possible. People who have felt what it is like to be alone are more often likely to try to offer a helping hand and listen to your problems rather than just sit there and pretend like you listening I really hope I helped and good luck. If you wanna talk some more just IM me. CaNdiShOpGurll (AIM)
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I can relate. Last year I cried at least twice a month because I moved the year before and everything was so much differente.This year, since I'm going to a different middle school I made tons of friends and everything worked out better.Next year, I'll be in high school,a whole new adventure. but change isn't always bad.Try to be more outgoing and fun, sometimes I feel left out but try to make your way in.
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you can talk to me, then you won't be lonely....
-hitler
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Everybody has some depression at one time or another.If it gets out of control you need to see someone about it though. A profesional. You are right about telling your parents.Maybe you and mom can have a "girls" day and go out for lunch or something and just have a good talk.I'm sure she would be really happy to help you out.And would be really pleased that you respect her opinion.
Since so many teens have wondered about what depression is, I have put the symptoms in my column under generic advice.So if your concerned about your symptoms feel free to go there and read them.:}
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get a myspace and meet and talk to people on it
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First of all if you ever need to talk just IM me!! I know how you feel and I feel like that sometimes also. I get tired of where I live and even my friends sometimes. Dont get it wrong tho cuz I love them l0l ! But anyways. I think thats its okay to feel like that at times. As you grow up you will relize everything. Talk to your parents. They seem like really nice people and of course they will understand. They will only try to do the best for you. Maybe you and your family could move. Maybe change schools? Go out and meet new people. Its always best. I've gone through depression a lot and Im doing way better. The friends you have now all care about you and you know that! x0 `
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I think that you should think about the decision that best fits you. If your lonelyness has droven to depression then you should talk to your parents about it. If you feel like you should be living in a different place with another relative that you can relate to then you need to tell them that. They will understand that you are not comfortable with the environment or the people in it. It's better to be in a place where you feel welcome than in a place where you don't. If you feel that you want to come back to your family and friends once you have found you happiness than you can. Talk to them so that they together can help you find a solution to your problem. I hope I helped and that all goes well for you!
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its okay to feel lonely sometimes but at the same time not want to be with anyone. every once and a while everyone gets sick of the same old people and the same old thing. i think maybe you should just talk to your parents about it. tell them how you feel and im sure they will help you feel better. try talking to one of your closest friends and maybe they can help. if not then keep talking to someone about how you feel but dont do anything you will regret. just try and talk it out because somebody will be able to help you. good luck and feel better!
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First of all if your thinking of suicide, just don't do it. It's a permanent solution to a temporary problem. Confront your parents and ask to see a counselor. You should also probably see a doctor about anti-depressants. I have taken them since the third grade and they have helped me along quite a bit. About your friends, either find a new group of friends that have similar interests as you and you instantly feel "in the loop." I have changed friends almost every year since 6th grade. Almost four years later, I find myself happy with the friends I have. This is mainly because of our similar interests. I say seeking out a counselor is your best option. They can help you a lot. They are people who are there to listen to you and help you. Good luck.
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It sounds like you have a few symptoms of depression. The only person that will be able to help you right now is a therapist or psycologist. Talk to your parents and tell them exactly how you are feeling, and that you think you need to talk to someone professionaly because this is not normal for you. Hopefully they will take you seriously and seek out the help for you that you need. If you want to talk to a school counselor first and then have her make an appointment with you, the counselor and your parents. Depression si very common, and with the appropriate counseling and/or medications, you will start feeling better really soon.
If you want to talk to me further then you can instant message me on AIM at <b>shadiggy01</b>.
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1st of all-don't worry so much bc a lot of people go through this-you're not alone. It's OK to see the faults in other people-everyone has them, but just try to be more excepting to some of them-if it's just too much(for you to be friends/get along with them) then yeah it's okay to not be friends w/ everyone.
if you're sick of the situation you're in try making more new friends, try new activities-like if you're interested in music go join a music club etc.
everyone feels out of the loop sometimes and everyone feels alone & left out even more of the time. if it's really bothering you then i think it's okay to talk to your parents, they'll understand. hope things get better!-write back if you need anything!
SaRaH
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Well, when you say you don't want to be here any more, I really hope you are speaking geographically. Life has way too much to offer to abandon it early. Anyways, I know how it feels to just want to get out. I live in this town that everyone thinks is completely amazing, but it just isn't for me, so I'm going to be an exchange student in Spain relatively soon. Just do what is in your power to give yourself something to do. Get a job, anything, eventually you'll go to college and you won't care any more. I'd give you my SN, but the school years wrapping up and I'm hardly on, but drop one in my box if you need anything else.
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