My boyfriend wants me to kiss him before he kisses me. At least I think so. It seems like it because after we go somewhere together...for example we went to the movies. When I got home i was talking to one of his friends online and he said hows come you didnt kiss him? And I think he should kiss me first!!! What should I do??
karenR answered Saturday March 26 2005, 2:08 am: Actually it should be a spontaneous thing.You both should just sort of kiss without worrying who's gonna go first!
You need to tell his friend that if he wanted to kiss you , you were right there.Not his business anyway.
Teza answered Saturday March 26 2005, 12:28 am: Well it doesnt really matter on who kisses who first. Its just a kiss. Guys are expected to make the first move but at this point he wants you to do it. I think that you should defenetly make the first move and kiss him. If you dont wanna french kiss just give him a nice kiss on the cheek when you see him. He would appreciate it and he just might end up kissing you. You both have to get comftrable with each other. =] x0 [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
partygurl24 answered Friday March 25 2005, 11:51 pm: I think that you should go by how you feel. You may think that's corny, but it really isn't. Just because people say you should kiss him first doesn't mean you have to. I mean, you should doo whatever you feel is right because that's the instinct that you're most comfortable with. If you feel that he should make the first move, then let him. Don't rush things because he probably might not be ready. If you're not sure though, you guys could just kiss at the same time instead of worrying about who should go first. I hope I helped! [ partygurl24's advice column | Ask partygurl24 A Question ]
some_girl answered Friday March 25 2005, 11:24 pm: kiss him. It's 2005, girls have just as much right to iniciate a kiss or ask a guy out as they do. However, personally I find it funner if the guy goes first. Anyways why don't you kiss him, and then the next time, it can be his turn. He'll get the hang of it, he's porbably just nervous. [ some_girl's advice column | Ask some_girl A Question ]
freun989 answered Friday March 25 2005, 11:00 pm: It all depends on the situation. You seem like the old-fashioned type who thinks the guy should do the asking out, the door opening, the kissing initiation, etc. Just sit it out and see how things unfold. [ freun989's advice column | Ask freun989 A Question ]
Miss_Lily answered Friday March 25 2005, 10:44 pm: This is 2005 dear. It is okay for a girl to make the first move. If he is a shy person, then he could be just like you, waiting for you to make the first move. And in that case, neither of you will kiss because you will be forever waiting for the other one to do it first. The next time you think it is an appropriate time for a kiss, lean into him and start to kiss him. Either he will return your kiss back, or pull away. Either way it goes, you can tell from his reaction whether or not he is ready to kiss you, and more likely then not, he will return that kiss. [ Miss_Lily's advice column | Ask Miss_Lily A Question ]
blueskies482 answered Friday March 25 2005, 10:40 pm: Well if you want him to kiss you first, just tell him. I know that doesn't sound romantic or anything, but you could pull it off. Picture a perfect date, everthings gone perfectly and it starts raining, you're both drenched standing in the rain, laughing and you say "damnit, just kiss me" I mean, that situation is very unlikely, but my point is that there are ways you can tell him without just completely ruining a date. [ blueskies482's advice column | Ask blueskies482 A Question ]
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