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is there a way to get your boobs bigger yet keep your stomach flat?

birth control pills. I used to have acne problems and the doctor recommend them to regulate my hormones etc. ANYWAYS i went from a B-D and tho they tend to make you gain a few pounds i just excersiced a little more and now ive got a stomach flat enough to wear a bikini with confidence. hope i helped.

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do guys care if a girl has really small boobs i mean when you are like having sex and they take your bra off would they be little turned off about it please help i am 15 105pounds and have an A cup and i feel really uncomfortable about it and i really want to have sex soon so guys what would you think

it depends on the guy. your skinny so really any bigger boobs youd look unporportionate. I have big boobs im 15 too and im 34D. It makes me uncomfortable too. everyones uncomfortable with their body. Guys find it really sexy when you're confident... or atleast pretend to be lol.

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welll i was out with my boyfriend and his friend and my friend today and i got the impression he was flirting with her i know i may sound paranoid but he was like rugby tackling her and like stuff and the way he looked at her and stuff and alwas standing closer to her than me and it was really getting to me and it was the first time they'd met and she said she thought he was nice and that she was happy i was going out with a good guy am i just getting paranoid and protective???? please give your ides love me xxxxxxxxxxx

id wait a little while if I were you. Keep your eye out for it because it might have just been that night and he might have not done it intentionally. I wouldnt confront him until youve done a little more investigating because if its nothing you might freak him out.

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I like going to school but i'm really really really SUPER extra nervous for high school. In our school we have ALOT of people who THINK theyre better than everyone else. They push others around in the hallway, look at you funny, always act retarded to get attention and teachers love 'em they get away with everyone. Theyre just annoying! I HATTTTTTTTE it. Is there anything i can do to stop it?

No its high school welcome to it. Get a close knit set of friends and stick together and it makes the ecperience so much better

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hi 14/f
im 5,5 and 125 pounds
is that fat normal
please help me
if i am fat
how do i get skinny?

I call that skinny personally. i wish i were 125... if only. lol Love your body. Theres nothing wrong with a little meat, more to love. your 14 you have the rest of your life to worry about that stuff.

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I have to go to a party today and I cut my side bangs just now.
I think I cut them way too short because Im wearing my hair up so if they were longer I would have left them out of the ponytail ( if that makes sense)
anyways they're just a little past my eyes ( they use to be alittle longer. do you think this is too short to wear as side bangs? please be honest and answer soon because I have to leave in a little.
thanks

noooo its a good length. If you really hate them you can always pin them backk so wear your hair down because it minimizes their effect.

peace

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okay, there's this gorgeous boy I know. He's completely flawless, and I have a big thing for him. One of my friends tells me that he actually likes me. Naturally, I was thirlled, but there's on problem: HE WON'T GO OUT WITH ME!! There's a lot going on with him, I guess. I mean we still flirt, hang out, etc., but does this mean I should lay off him in terms of flirting? the things have nothing to do with me [more-so family], but does that mean I should leave him be for now? thanks

I'd keep on doing what you're doing. Eventually he'll be ready and you'll be there. If something real develops he'll realize you're worth it.

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ok so people keep thinking im in like 10th/11th grade when im only in 7th(im 13) and its really weird and it just started happening like a month ago...and these older guys will try to pick me up..and when they ask my age and i say 13 they go...ur kidding right? i know this should be like a good thing but its kinda creeping me out

hey same thing happens to me. I'm 14 and I've passed for 20. It's a compliment at times and other times its just annoying. I guess it's something your just going to live with.

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Could rope jumping be counted as cardio excersizes?

yea actually its really good

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Today this girl that I really don't like, but hang out with anyways, asked to see a note that my best friend had wrote me, that said stuff about her in it. ALOT of stuff. I said no because it was mine and she had no right seeing it, she took my purse dumped it out on the floor but I hid it in my desk, and then she randomly got into my desk and found it, I didn't want her to see it, and now I'm afraid my best friend's going to be mad at me, but I'm not sure because I really didn't do anything wrong, right?

you didn't do anything wrong but your friend might still be a little mad because it looks like you did somehting wrong even though you really didn't. Explain to your friend the situation and with some ecplanation and a little time she'll get over it.

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okay at skool the other day i leaked and it was all over my chair. i coverd my pants with my jackett. i was wearing a extreamly large pad. it went through. am i bleeding to much
this is my 3rd period

Change between classes, wear the heaviest type of pad you can find. If that doesn't work, wear a tampon and a pad. Thats sure to cover everything

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im a fourteen year old gurl. i have alot of freinds but ive never had a boyfreind and i think its becuase of my weight i dont understand why guys dont like me just becuase of that one thing im a good person and really does hurt. what should i do to help me?

If a guy can't get past your weight than it'shis fault and you should hit him with a smelly sock. He doesn't deserve you. Plus, your 14, take your time getting a guy. Just hang with your friends, and eventually somebody will come along.

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hey, im friends wit this girl but i dont want to get to close with her cause im scared i might end up liking her and getting the old response "i dont want to ruin what we have" so umm yea im 15 going on 16 so i want a answer for a 15y/o person... thanks... im a guy.

well if your too distant, your probably just going to drift apart, and you won't be friends anymore. I mean you don't even know if you'll like her. In my opinion, nothing ventured nothing gained. Maybe things might be awkward between you, or it may be great!

hope i helped!

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Sometimes I get urges to go up and hug a guy, is that normal?

Yea sure HUG A GUY! girls hug eachother all the time, so who cares. As long as you don't have urges to get in his pants its completely normal.

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Heylo everyone,
i'm going on hols tomorrow (yay) but my lil bro always goes through my stuff!!! i'm gonna be on my period so i dont want him looking through my suitcase like he always does and finding the pads. so where can i hide them? i've had the idea of like rolling them up in my socks but i think they might be too thick or it might damage the pad or curl it up and make it hard to wear?

put them in your pants pockets. Or hide them with your underwear and bras etc. MAybe he'll be freaked out and won't search through it. Or hide them with your mom.

Hope I helped!

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I had a first date with this guy Jack last night. We have been talking for a while, and so I asked him out, and we went to the movies, and to a friends house afterwards. The date itself was good, no akward silences, kept the conversation going, and he held my hand, which I wasnt expecting him to do, because he is quite shy. At the end of the night, he walked me to my door, and gave me a hug. I almost kissed him, because I thought he would be too shy to make a first move, but he turned away, so I ended up kissing his cheek (and I am so embaressed about it) He said that he didnt want to get me sick (he has been sick for the last week, or something) Do you think thats the real reason, or did he just not want to kiss yet? Is there anything I could say to him to fix this?

If he got up the courage to hold your hand, and as you said he is shy, it might have been too much for him to kiss you too. Maybe hes not a very expierenced kisser and he was embarrassed, or he might have been sick. If I were you, I'd just take a step back, go out with him again, and maybe on the third date try to kiss him again. He might be ready.

Hope I helped!

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omg! i already had a question about this kid Brandon, (who i like and is 15)..he is my cousins friend, and im younger than him..well last time i went over there and my aunt and uncle weren't around, he started touching me..i mean, my butt, my chest, stuff like that..omg and i havent told my parents! what should i do?!!!

he's a hormonal guy. I wouldn't tell your parents. They'll just freak out and never let you date like ever. Anyways, next time just say NO. If they refuse then you have something to tell them about.

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They come big in random spots- under my hair- in my eyebrow- under my eye. They're huge. They don't go away. It feels like there are lumps inside of them and they stay for months. When they finally do go away they leave a big old hole that you could stick a pin into with a black old cloud underneath. Crap squeezes out of it until it bleeds and scabs over. This whole thing can last for like three months. It's so weird.
What the hell is wrong with me and how do I make them stop??? I eman there's never more than one of them at once but they're ugly and they hurt and they suck.

Don't pick them. I did that and the exact same thing happened to me. I know its hard, but they go away a lot faster if you just keep it clean and let it be. Also maybe go to your doctor and he might be able to perscribe you something for it. Thats what I did. Anyways hope I helped

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what is the meaning of life?

cheese

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I am 13 years of age and I had my period two times last year. Only two times because it started at the end of the year. I've only had it two times because I haven't had it this year yet. Is that normal? Is that supposed to happen? Is it healthy when you period does that?

Its completely normal. Heck I'm 15 and I still skip some. Eventually it evens out, then you can expect it on a certain ddate. But rejoice in you period free days!

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