Member Since: March 16, 2005
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I've had an eating disorder for lets say longer than a year. (anorexia) I finally got over it this summer. I'm worried about school though and how my friends will react because i wasn't eating lunch all last year. Will they make a big deal out of it and will i end up starting it ALL OVER AGAIN????? I RATE HIGH (link)
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dont be worried about hwat other people think of you...you should be proud of the fact that you fought away this eating disorder..Whenever you really need help just pray to God
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Me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 2 years..we have been recently getting in arguments about stupid stuff really..but he said hes starting to think that i dont care about him.. i really do care about him alot..How do i prove to him that i havent lost my love for him? (link)
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honestly honey..if you really have to convince him you love him after all these years..then he isnt mister right.As harsh as it sounds thats wat you need to do
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I recently found out that my boyfriend drinks. Every fiber of my bones is completely and utterly against drinking and alcohol. I hate it like you would not believe. My dad was an alcoholic and my best friend died from drinking and driving a few years ago.
I love him. I really do. I care about him and beg him not to drink. But he tells me he knows his limits. He says he doesnt get drunk just "tipsy". The other night he went out with a few of his friends and they played drinking games. He didnt tell me about it but his friend did.
I feel lied to. I feel betrayed. I know it's his life and he can do as he pleases. I dont want him to think Im trying to control him. But I dont want him to die either.
Help me. Should I leave? Should I stay? How can I look past his drinking habits? (link)
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I think you should tell him you honestly don't feel comfortable with somebody who drinks. Tell him that if he doesn't fix it you will leave him...not just for your safety but for his too.
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OK so my BFF's little brother is completely discusting!!! He acts very preverted even to me! It's sooo gross. He does things that are well REALLY inapropriate! Oh man when ever my friend and I try to tell him to stop, he will just ignore us and tell me I am sexy. Ya it's that weird for peet sakes hes only nine! How do I get him to stop?! (link)
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You give him a good little slap in the face .... that oughta straighten him out. But, don't forget to tell him that if he doesn't stop u will tell his mom...normally that shuts the little brats up!
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Most of my friends are gettin pregnat and getting herpes it is scaring me ... All my friends I thought were so much smarter than me are stupid and having sex already . I know you want to but you need to hold back .... I am scared that in a way I am gonna be forced into it .... Can you help ? (link)
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You are making an excellent descions. You shouldnt be have sex at this age at all!! You need to tell your friends that havent already and help them not. If your friends start forcing you to do thins that you don't want to do then u need to find new friends, because apparently those are true friends.
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I am a virgin and I am ready to have sex i think about it all the time but i'm afraid that it might hurt. My question it what does the first time haveing sex feel like? Is is digusting and painful or is it wild and crazy in good way? (link)
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Its painful...because you've just given pretty much your whole life to somebody who you don't even love! Wait till your married.
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ok well im 18/f , and my b/f got me pregnant , lik 3 months ago, b4 he broke up wit me. today he punched me in the stomach , nd in my face. and i dnt kno wut to do?? plz help me. how do i kno if he killed my baby? (link)
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ok well its called LAWYER AND DOCTOR!!Fisrt of all thats abuse and if he killed your baby he could be charged with manslaughter.You need to tell somone QUICK!!Before it gets outt of hand.
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i'm 14 and i think about sex kind of a lot because this one guy that i really really like wants to have sex w/ me but i don't really want to but then again i look at some of my friends that are 14 and they've lost their virginity already but i don't really want to have sex w/ this one guy but then i do..i'm confused and i don't know if i'm totally out of my mind for thinking about this but i don't want to have sex w/ him but then i do..is it bad to even think about it when i'm 14? (link)
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OMG YESS!!Baby doll at 14 sex shouldn't be an option for you.Trust me save your virginity as long as you can.
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i hear constantly about 14 year olds having sex... this is scary. what has the world come to? one day people will be having sex at 8 and then people will finally realise there is a problem. i dont see why 14 year olds have sex when they are so young... at 14 i was like, gross, why have sex? i'm 17 now and i am a virgin... i am proud of that and i like it coz guys respect me and i know a guy isn't going out with me for sex. what i want to know is why do girls lose that respect at such a young age? and how young were people when they lost their virginity???
- confused (link)
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Finally someone who relizes its wrong to do what young girls are doing! You keep having respect for yourself and keep doing what your doing. Trust me everybody will respect your wishes.And God would be very pleased at you choice.
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I had sex with a guy almost 3 weekends ago.. and the condom fell off... i didnt get the morning after pill but my friend said i could just take 3 birth control and it would be the same thing... but i'm afriad! what are some EARLY pregnency signs?! lately i have felt nausaous and i've had spotting... please help... (link)
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Planned Parenthood can help. They have helped over millions of teenagers and other ages around the world.Just whatever you do don't keep it a secret.
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I ahve ben going out with this girl for about 11 months and we both want to do things together but we never have time between school and sports we dont really get to see eachother and her parents are going out next weekend and she'll be home alone should we just do it then or should we wait and not have to take the chance of her parents coming home early and catching us what should we do???? (link)
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Don't do it..period.Unless your ready to be the best father in the world for your child don't do it at all!
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Last night I was over at some friends house and I was the only girl and there was three boys (I'm 19) and we were drinking and they must have got drunk becasue they grabbed me and flung me onto the bed and started having sex and I didn't want to! Now this morning I won't stop bleeding! PLEASE HELP...oh my god I don't want this to happen to me I'M A GOOD GIRL! (link)
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Honey you need serious help along with a lawyer. It's considered RAPE here in the United States if you are forced to have any sexual contact that is unwanted.You need to tell someone and fast because it could seriously ruin your life if you don't get help.
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i have this really good guy friend who is a year older than me .in fact , i call him my "big brother" and he calls me "little sis" . LOL . anyway , the other day when i was just talking to him , i reached across him to get something from the person sitting on the other side of him . ( we were sitting in a row , with him in the center ) and i sort of brushed against his chest while bending back . After that , i noticed that he got a boner and there was a lump in his pants . well now i'm kinda freaked out cos i never thought that he would like me ( especially bcos of the little sis big bro thing ) . i'm confused and don't know if i like him .. what should i do ? (link)
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First of all just because you gave him a boner by brushing up against him doesn't mean hes into you. Sorry for crushing your heart but its all hormones and puberty.Every boy gets them its nothing new.
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ok me and my boyfriend hve been together a while. and we hve done most everything but, sex. alot of my friends hve already had sex. i know some people might say im too young but me and my boyfriend love each other and i know we are both physically and emotionally ready. well he comes over often but everytime im on my period [ kinda wierd? ] but we both hve tlked about this.. and sometimes i want to and others im jus like idk.. but i think i am ready but im so scared i might get pregnant but most people i know of hve had sex and used a condom and hve not got pregnant. seriously what are the chances. do you think im ready? and how would i let him know while we are together that i want to..? PLEASE DONT SAY IM NASTY OR NETHING IM REALLY NOT! please answer asap (link)
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Honestly honey nobody should be ready at your age for this kind of commitment. If you aren't ready to drop outta school to take care of your baby because you can't feed him while in school you practicaly ruined your whole life...along with your baby's life too. I've seen many girls like you think that they are truly in love with somebody and give up their virginity to someone which in a week after sex will have broken up with you and left you nothing but a broken heart and a ruined life along with a baby to take care of.You should save yourself until marriage. I think that is one of the best gifts you could give your soul mate for eternity, and it wouldn't mean much to you and him when the time comes and you are truly ready and are setteled with your life.
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Does anyone know if it's possible it increase the size of your breasts without gaining weight? I know that if you gain weight your breasts will grow larger (considering it's all fat tissue anyway). But I'd like to increase the size of my breasts without gaining weight. Is this possible? Thanks, I rate. (link)
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Easy..it's called Breast Implants...or sometimes in stores you can buy breast pads that go into your bra with a comfortable fit and a great clevedge! Without gaining weight.
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Ok heres the problem, i LOVE to sing, i can sing very well too. The problem is i can't preform in front of people! I am way to nervous. I can't even sing infront of my family. Its just to nerve -racking. My family says i should go out for singing lessons because sometimes they hear me but im to nervous to go out. When i get older i really wanna try out for american idol, ya it sounds stupid but i do. Its just im to nervous in front of people! Does anyone have any tips to get un-nervous, or any advice for me to go out?
- Shy Singer - (link)
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Dear Shy Singer,
I suggest that you practice infront of a mirror or with a couple of your really close friends,so you become comfortable in front of an audience. Trust me I am on a competitive cheerleading squad. Almost every weekend we perform in front of over 1000 people! yah..its nerve racking..but just believe in yourself and you can do amazing things. May God be with you in the process. Do good in whatever you do and you will succeed.
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20, male.
Okay, the girl I'm going out with and I are sitting watching TV. We've only been dating for a few days, but I've been her friend since before elementary school. She mentions a mutual friend was talking about a movie that we passed. So I, the idiot that I am, accidently call her by the friend's name. She pulled away from me for a few seconds, and then went into my arms again.
I explained that it was only because she mentioned her name seconds before, but is that enough? Should I try to explain in detail that I have no feelings for this other girl or should I drop it? (link)
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Drop it! I think she understands what u meant.But if it really means that much that you have to know that she isn't mad at you get her a present.Not chocolate or flowers....something that will last forever like your Love for eachother!
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ok i am a freshman in high school i have had sex once about 2 years ago its a long story so please dont call me a slut and no its not because i cant get any more ... so dont be rude about it please.
on anyways and soon after that i started my period and i have clear discharge every now and again and i was wondering if any one knows if thats from the sex maybe the guy had an std or from the period/tampon / w/e thing please help
~lexy~
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Tell somebody. It's very important for your health and to make sure you will be alright. You don't want it to hurt you. It might not sound like a good idea, because you might be scared to tell. If you don't tell though then it could effect your future. Just ask God for help. He will lead you in the right direction.
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Okay so I'm a 14 year old girl. I have 4 best friends...ish. It's really more like 3. One of my friends, is a complete snob! She thinks shes better than everybody else, and shes completely obsessed with shopping. I mean, I'm not against shopping, but whenever we go with her she flaunts about saying how she can buy anything she wants because her parents give her all the money she wants. I'm TIRED OF HER! Yet, no body else likes her, so if we abandon her, she'll be alone. at times theres nothing I would want more, but I don't want her a complete loner.
signed, confused (link)
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Dear Confused,
I feel your pain. Trust me.When I was your age I had a friend like that.Always thinking shes better than everybody and yes at sometimes it is very annoying.But, honestly I think you should confront her about her problems.Tell her as a true friend how you feel.If she doesn't change and doesn't belive you than shes not a very good friend. You deserve better than that. Whatever you do Let God be with you and he will give you the real answer and give you the words to tell her.
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So, what do you do when the people you used to be closest with begin to ignore you? when they forget you have feelings and make snide comments?
What do you do when people keep secrets from you? When the same person tries to hit on and steal your best friend?
What should I do? (link)
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ah ha! welcome to the real world honey. Ive been through the exact phase with my friends. You just need to find new ones.Yah its hard but take chances..grown outta your shell...be free!!
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