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Eating disorder
I've had an eating disorder for lets say longer than a year. (anorexia) I finally got over it this summer. I'm worried about school though and how my friends will react because i wasn't eating lunch all last year. Will they make a big deal out of it and will i end up starting it ALL OVER AGAIN????? I RATE HIGH
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Well if anything, they'd COMMEND you. And I don't know how anorexia works, but, for me, when I get positive feedback, I keep doing the same stuff. Unless they're also anorexic. If they freak out in a negative way, then I think it's time for some new friends.
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If they didnt know about it then I dont think they would make it as a big deal. Even tho they might say something about it. Just tell them that you have to eat.. I dont think they would argue about it.
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wellit would be helpfull if you told me why you stopped but ill work with what i got no just tell them i didnt eat and im sorry i know it was dangerois and thats why i started up again and i will never stop again i prommiss
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dont be worried about hwat other people think of you...you should be proud of the fact that you fought away this eating disorder..Whenever you really need help just pray to God
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i really think that you should tell them (( if they say anything about you )) that your over that phase of your life, and you have changed && never wanna go down that path again, hope i was helpp<3
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If they know about it, they won't. They probably wouldn't anyways. They might say something to the effect of, "You're eating!", but they might just be surprised. Don't worry though, I think it will all be fine. You won't start all over again if you had good rehab. I hope it all works out.
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dont care about what other ppl say about your eating habits. i eat ALOT and my friends laugh at me...but i laugh as well cause its not a big deal. dont worry about last year, now that you're eating healthy...if they're your friends, they will be happy for you...that your healthy again.
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im glad that you got over anorexia. you should tell your friends about the high risks of you becoming anorexic again and you should ask them to stop making a big deal. if they dont listen to youm you should find better friends that respect your wishes because apparently they arent your real friends. no offense. I hope i helped.
X0X0 BoDaCiOuS bRuNeTtE aka Prillie X0X0
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it shouldn't matter if they ask just say that your hungry now. like your going through a growth spurt. also just start out bringing it once a week then twice then three times... etc. to get used to it.. hope i helped
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tell them u got over it and tell them not to make a big deal about it because you'll feel bad. Hope i helped and that things work out...bii!
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I hope this helped. I can't say firsthand that I know how you feel but I'll do my best!
I used to not eat lunch at school just for no reason. I'm naturally skinny and people used to always call me anorexic [my friends] but they were always kidding!
Now, they're your friends and they should back you up any which way you decide to flow, you know what I'm saying? They shouldn't treat you like your uncool or a loser just because you had an eating disorder. People learn over time to forget the past and try to make way for the future. But, if they start to not talk to you or something then don't be friends with them because it's not worth the pain. Last, sweetie, if you believe that you've completely stopped and trust that you can prevent this from happening again... with the encouragement of a friends and family you won't start again! I believe in you!
Love to you,
Christine
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um, screw your friends. If they started it in the first place, then their not your friends. Wow, I would dump some food on their heads. jerks. Don't worry about what other people think of you. It's your life, not theirs.
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Chances are they won't even notice. If they do and say something, either tell them about your eating disorder or try a little half truth "I was dieting last year but now I'm not."
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one thing you have to do is not worry about what other people think. But i mean yea they might notice but they'd probably be glad that your actually eating. So don't pay too much attention if they take it in a bad way.
<3 simone
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Tell them not to make a big deal of it. And yell at anyone who does, loudly. "I am having lunch and it is none of your buisness!"
If your friends care about you, tell them you rather not make a big deal of it and they wont. If you need to yell at them or even eat your lunch somewhere else to protect your health, do it.
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They probably won't make a big deal of it. You have probably seen a doctor concerning your eating disorder. If you have then rely on that help again if you need to. Don't let what others think rule your life. :)
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