Hey, my name is Christine and I am 16 years old. My friends are family are a huge part of my life. I love to dance, sing and act. I also play soccer, lacrosse and football with my neighbors. Feel free to e-mail me at ChristineKayadvice4you@yahoo.com or IM me at ckayadvice4you on AIM.
E-mail: christinekayadvice4you@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Age: 16
AIM: ckayadvice4you
Member Since: July 30, 2005
Answers: 21
Last Update: December 17, 2005
Visitors: 3271
Main Categories:
Love Life
Friendship
Families
View All
|
| |
|
Who do you think will win the world cup draw? any predictionas at all, about who will lose, get close to winning ? or just anything? (link)
|
To tell the whole truth I have no clue what you are talking about, I'm sorry! A sports event I guess? I don't really keep up with these things.
Love to you from Christine
|
Hey, I think I'm starting to like this one guy that i met back in 7th grade (im in 9th now). we both go to different schools but we always message back and forth. we bboth ask each other questions and answer them. one time he did this one survey that if i were to ever ask him out he said he would say yes. i really like him and i want to know who he likes and i want to tell him how i feel. ne suggestions?
wHaT to Do? (link)
|
Going with a guy from a different school is hard. I remember I fell for this guy in sixth grade... and still like him now but he goes to a different school. Are you still friends with this guy? Just, have a friend type of chat and pop up the question. I'm always asking my guy friends stuff like that. Go ahead and tell the guy. What's the worst that's going to happen? If he stops talking to you or starts acting like a jerk then he's not worth it. Trust me, just come out with it... it wouldn't hurt to try right?
Love to you from Christine
|
|
what types of precautions should a person take before taking part in sexual activities if they have never had sex before? (link)
|
Here are a few...
1. You cannot have sex under the age of sixteen
2. Be aware of STD's (Sexually Transmitted Diseases). Try to make sure that your partner does not have one or has had an STD in the past. The male or female condom will provide protection (some) from STD's.
3. Understand both the concept of birth control and condoms
4. The fact that you can get pregnant...
That's about all I'm going to say.
Love to you from Christine
|
|
How/where can you get myspace layouts or even just background colors and all that? (link)
|
You can search it at the top searchbar on myspace. Just put myspace layouts or something like that. Or, you can also go to layoutsbykt. That's what I use... hope that helped.
Love to you from Christine
|
|
Hey theres this junior that i really like. im a freshman. we met by my best friends bboyfriend. (link)
|
Dear Forever Confused,
He's not going to just tell you friend... maybe he's the witheld type? He could be embarassed to say to your friend. Not all guys are going to come straight out with an answer right?
Just talk to him more... hang out after school maybe? With a few of your friends? Find a way to show him that you like him. I left you an e-mail so you can check that out too. If you need anything else just e-mail it or ask it here.
Love to you from Christine
|
hey
i really like this oone boy that goes to my school! he is really sweet to me! sometimes i kind of give hints,but i'm not sure if i am doing it right! i don't know how to tell if a boy likes me! plus i hate falling for boys that don't fall back!!! can you tell me how to tell if a boy likes me?
signed,
hopeless
(link)
|
Dearest Hopeless,
Sorry it took me so long to answer, I've been out and about. But, usually if you notice the guy is acting nicer to you, talking to you more, and joking around a lot then chances are he may like you. But, of course, that doesn't go for all guys.
Every girl hates falling for boys and they don't fall back... it happens all the time. You can't make a guy like you just because you like them! But would life be easier that way? I truthfully can't give you an exact answer to tell if he likes you, but follow you mind... or your heart... whatever! Follow whatever and if something feels right with him and you then maybe you should get more into depth with him.
Gosh, you probably think that was the worst answer ever... hope I helped.. a little bit?
Love to you from Christine
|
|
Ok...I always wash my face once a day. Sometimes 2 times. I can't keep the zits from coming! I need help. How do you prevent zits and blackheads!!?!?!?! (link)
|
I hate that! I do the same but then whenever I get rid of one bad zit another one pops up somewhere else... it's tragic!
I use daily cleaning pads... any kind words well. Stridex or Clearsil... both work well for me! Hope that helped!
Love to you from Christine
|
Alright. So about 6 months ago I started talking to this guy. We'll say his name is " Kurt ". And at that time I was just getting over a break up from an 8th month relationship with " Wayne ".
Kurt had just broken up with a girl, " Ann " too. Kurt and I started hanging out every weekend, and I knew I liked him, but he was more of my best friend than anything. He knew me better than I knew myself, and would come get me at any hour in the morning if I was upset. I was the closest friend I had ever had. And I thought we'd be like that forever. After 3 months of hanging out, " Wayne " came back around. And I was definately not over him. So I got back together with him. I think it broke " Kurts " heart. After that, I felt me and Kurts relationship fading and we were drifting apart. And Kurts sister was always telling me that he missed me and he wanted to be with me. I knew he had liked me. Well, Wayne and I only dated a month. And after we broke up, I knew exactly who I needed to be with. But Ann had come back around. Kurt and I have messed around SINCE, and the sexual stuff we do, messes everything up every time and we've promised each other not to do anything again. But we don't talk anymore. And now he really likes Ann. We cant even look at each other. And the only time he calls is when he's drunk, and thats when all of his emotions come out. He tells me we'll keep talking, and he misses me. But then the next day its like we never talked. I dont know what to do. I miss him so much. I want what we had back. But more. (link)
|
Well, I wish I could say that life had a rewind button or that I could make someone like you but I can't. Look at it this way, you didn't mean to break his heart but you did have a thing going with kurt. Don't worry, I would've done the same thing and gone back with Wayne not realizing that Kurt liked me more than I thought. He's with Ann now and maybe after he's done with Ann you two can talk everything over. Or maybe you should just try to talk to him now. Don't make it emotional or long... just say a very brief, "I'm sorry Kurt... I never wanted to hurt you like that and I really hope that we can at least still be friends if not the best." One day you two will forget all of this and you'll just might have what you had before.
Love to you from Christine
|
Sometimes I think that people are afraid to tell me how they really feel on a lot of issues. Not only am I very sensitive but I'm aware that I'm a very controlling person. I also have very high 'standards' for my friends. So I'm afraid that they don't feel like they can tell me everything, because I will judge them or I will get angry. Sometimes I even think that my friends are only my friends because theyre scared of me, and they think that having me as a friend is a lot better than having me as an enemy.
How do I tell them that I don't plan to change who I am, but I want them to be honest with me without fear of me judging them or hating them? (link)
|
Dear Scared,
You know, what you just wrote on this form is the perfect thing to say to your friends? Just tell them that you don't want to change to suit their wants or needs for a friend, say that you want them to be honest with you without fear. Maybe you should also let down a bit, do you ever come off as intimidating to yourself? Try and put yourself in their shoes, if you were them and had you as a friend would you feel the same way? Your standards may be a bit high so lower them a bit... you shouldn't really have too many standards besides someone who is loyal, honest and you have a good time with., Hope I helped someone!
Love to you from me, Christine
|
ok so theres these 2 guys that i dont know which to choose out of. ok so lets say theres guy1 and guy2. guy1 is really really nice to me and idk if he likes me but he sometimes makes it seem like that-hes cute too. guy2 is really hot a little nice to me and likes to joke around and make me real self concious about my self. hes also my moms boyfriends son..is that wrong? and i dont know whice guy to choose
toO cOnfuseDā„
(link)
|
Dear too confused,
Let's look at it this way. Wouldn't you rather have a guy who is extremely nice to you? I mean, that's one key to a good relationship! And he makes it seem like he likes you so I would just talk to him a lot and as you gradually grow closer to him go for it!
Now, guy 2 if a LITTLE nice to you. Joking around is cool but not when it makes you feel self-conscious about yourself. Besides, it would be kind of weird for you two since he's your moms boyfriends son but that's not a main reason it should stop you. You want to be able to feel confortable around the guy you chose.
Well, hopefully I helped... somewhat.
love to you from,
Christine
|
|
I really want to have a party, but the thing is i am kinda afraid of having one. not afraid like afraid of spiders and i am just worried that people might not like it, or think its dumb or whatver i just am too stressed thinkin about it. should i just go ahead with my plan or what? and also, should i have a big party (which was my original plan) or should i just have a small group of my girlfriends and go to a hotel or something? ideas? thanks (link)
|
Wow, I just love going to parties... now as far as holding them... well, that's a different story. Make sure you have everything you need, refreshments, good, snacks and no drugs or alcohol. Choose the correct people... don't chose druggies or people you hate but think are popular [duh that's a pretty obvious one]. I understand you are nervous about how people are going to like it... if you want, maybe start with a small get together of your closest babes, then add a few guys and few more of your girls. Soon, you'll have a pretty big party. It's your decision where you hold you party, if you want it at your house, maybe outdoors? maybe indoors/outdoors? But make sure it's somewhere pretty comfortable and a place people what feel awkward to act themselves. Make sure that you treat every guest equally and make them all feel comfortable and welcome. Good luck sweetie!
Love to you,
Christine
|
Sweetie, because guys can be real perverted and such jerks and you won't even realize it! It's very true. But, not all guys are like this... of course!
love to you,
Christine.....ha lol i was ready to get mad at you b/c you said this then you said not all guys are like that....i hate steryotypes and i live to annihilate them (link)
|
omg no, I'm sorry I'm not stereotyping guys! Guys, well, they're my best friends really. It's just that guys that ALWAYS think about sex yeah they're pretty perverted jerks. I wouldn't stereotype guys to that... actually, most guys are pretty nice to have around ::wink::
love to you,
Christine
|
|
i've liked this guy for over a year now. he just told me that he likes this other girl. you know the drill...what should i do? (link)
|
wow, today I just found out that this guy I think is totally perfect likes this other girl and he's never even thought about me in that way! I was SO crushed... but, this is the advice I'll give you.
Keep being his friend okay? Don't pass your friendship off just because he doesn't like you.
Don't be a burden and clingy to him and bug him a lot... that won't do you ANY good.
If he hasn't seemed interested in you... just keep going with however you feel if you still like him, keep liking him don't give up... well, at least not until something dramatically changes!
That's about it! Good luck okay? I'm here for you!
Love to you,
Christine
|
|
i like a lot of like "emo" bands. like My Chemical Romance, Fall Out Boy, The Used...etc. and i love rocking out to them and i really want to go to the warped tour but my parents wont take me b/c of the profanity and explicity. i'm only 13 (almost 14) and so it's not like i can go by myself and i don't really mind not going but i also get like totally obsessive like i can't help it! sounds weird yes but... like whenever i hear MCR i like blast it and start like screaming the lyrics and all and i LOVE all the band people so i like get soooo excited whenever i see pictures, merch, and all that good stuff i like start breathing fast and like my heart pumps extremely fast and i'm the kind of person that also has a song stuck in their head and it's always a my chemical romance song and i really like them even though they say f*ck a lot and talk about killing people and doing drugs and all that. but i still like their songs b/c it's just rock music and they have great voices and have awesome music and i know like all the lyrics. so any ways i can stop being so obsessive or anything? this is a hard question to understand! sorry (link)
|
I totally understand this question... well, I think I do? I don't know but I'll do my best with this! Okay... well, you know what? You like whatever bands you want! Those bands aren't emo bands hun! You'll know emo bands when you hear them... now My Chemical Romance and Fall Out Boy etc. I know tons of people that LOVE those bands too! You're obsession... go with it! Live life out and don't worry about this obsession because I find nothing wrong with you at all! But, if it means that much to you... take a little break from that type of music and maybe don't listen to music as much as usual but personally I think that you're fine the way you are. But really hun, emo isn't always a good thing and it isn't necessarily a bad thing but those bands... they're NOT emo music they're rock bands. You'll learn this later in life... the real emo... wow you'll figure it out!
Love to you,
Christine
|
|
Im a female, and im about 5"10 and my boyfriend is only 5"7...this makes me feel uncomfortable all the time. is this weird? (link)
|
Hunnibunches, it's not weird at all! If you really like this guy then height shouldn't matter okay? Nobody should care about the height difference and you shouldn't either. In a relationship how tall or short someone is doesn't matter. I can imagine you would feel uncomfortable, I probably would too it's normal! Hope that helped... somewhat
love to you,
Christine
|
|
y do guys like sex so much? (link)
|
Sweetie, because guys can be real perverted and such jerks and you won't even realize it! It's very true. But, not all guys are like this... of course!
love to you,
Christine
|
|
ok, where to begin..i have liked a guy for 2 years now..kinda on and off because my friends have tried to convince me that i dont like him anymore, but i end up liking him again b/c he's so funny...he makes me laugh...and fun to be around and hott.lol well anyways, im 15 and never had a bf and hes almost 16, but in the grade above me. i can never stop thinking about him and how much we have in common and just him in general :-)... i used to flirt w/ him a certain kinda way and ive noticed that hes doing the same stuff to me as i did to him, and im catching glances from him (but that could mean nothing).. I just really want to tell him so bad that i like him and i have for 2 years but i dont want it to ruin our friendship that has somewhat built up over the years. i really want to kno if he likes me back but..i dont kno.... If we ever got together i dont kno if i would fit in w/ his other friends, i mean i kno his friends, but i dont think i would belong. Please tell me what i can do! Thanks! (link)
|
Dear should I,
Well, you seem to really like this guy. If he's funny, fun, make sure he's nice, and hott and you have a good time around him... well, that's always a good thing! Make sure you know his true colors before you go shining your guts out to him about this crush. Try to bring up a conversation with his friends, get to know them a bit. Whenever you think you're ready then just tell him. If he was truely as good as you think he is he won't let this little question/comment ruin your friendship and bond. Hope I helped!
Love to you,
Christine
|
|
a guy that i like a lot thinks i have lost interaste in him which isnt true at all. i tryed tellin him but he still thinks i dont like him as much and i need a way to prove it to him that i love him a lot can someone plz help me out?? (link)
|
Are you going out with this guy? Hunny, have you stopped paying attention to him as much. I'll tell you one thing, guys are a pain up the ass. They tend to whine as much as we girls do. But, make sure you still flirt with him and show him signs that you REALLY care about him and keep giving him the attention you did when he first noticed you were interested in him. A few hugs never hurt anyone!
Hope that helped... somewhat!
Love to you,
Christine
|
|
I've had an eating disorder for lets say longer than a year. (anorexia) I finally got over it this summer. I'm worried about school though and how my friends will react because i wasn't eating lunch all last year. Will they make a big deal out of it and will i end up starting it ALL OVER AGAIN????? I RATE HIGH (link)
|
I hope this helped. I can't say firsthand that I know how you feel but I'll do my best!
I used to not eat lunch at school just for no reason. I'm naturally skinny and people used to always call me anorexic [my friends] but they were always kidding!
Now, they're your friends and they should back you up any which way you decide to flow, you know what I'm saying? They shouldn't treat you like your uncool or a loser just because you had an eating disorder. People learn over time to forget the past and try to make way for the future. But, if they start to not talk to you or something then don't be friends with them because it's not worth the pain. Last, sweetie, if you believe that you've completely stopped and trust that you can prevent this from happening again... with the encouragement of a friends and family you won't start again! I believe in you!
Love to you,
Christine
|
I think I love my best friend, but I still kind of like this other guy. I have no idea if I love him as a close friend or more than just a friend. He has a girlfriend, but I just have no idea on how to tell him how I feel about him without becoming all nervous around him. How do I tell him, without getting butterflies in my stomack?
Confused Teen
13, female (link)
|
Dear Confused Teen,
Wow, the same thing happened to me when I was 13 years of age. Well, I was in love [literally] with this guy and the best part was, he was my best friend. Everyone always would tell me, "never go out with your best friend!" but I never listened. Just follow your heart [I know that is so pointless to say but still] if you think you like him, just tell him [I know that is SUCH a hard thing to do... trust me!] But, maybe he'll like you too and if you don't tell him then someone else might take him from you. I used to hate seeing my best friend that I like, loved go out with someone else... it drove me nuts! Make it casual, not a big deal! "Hey, I've been holding this in and I just wanted to tell you that I really like you and well, that's that." Work up to it though girl, take time! I really hope I helped!
Love to you,
Christine
|
|