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should I?
ok, where to begin..i have liked a guy for 2 years now..kinda on and off because my friends have tried to convince me that i dont like him anymore, but i end up liking him again b/c he's so funny...he makes me laugh...and fun to be around and hott.lol well anyways, im 15 and never had a bf and hes almost 16, but in the grade above me. i can never stop thinking about him and how much we have in common and just him in general :-)... i used to flirt w/ him a certain kinda way and ive noticed that hes doing the same stuff to me as i did to him, and im catching glances from him (but that could mean nothing).. I just really want to tell him so bad that i like him and i have for 2 years but i dont want it to ruin our friendship that has somewhat built up over the years. i really want to kno if he likes me back but..i dont kno.... If we ever got together i dont kno if i would fit in w/ his other friends, i mean i kno his friends, but i dont think i would belong. Please tell me what i can do! Thanks!
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First of all, one thing at a time gurl!!! If you still like this guy, keep flirting with him. And if he keeps responding, then maybe you should drop major hints that you like him, or maybe even tell him!!! If he's kinda slow, i would suggest just opening up with him first thing. If y'all are really good friends, he should understand and still be your friend if things just dont work out. You've already been waiting for two years, so don't you think it's time to make something happen?? lol..Good luck!!!
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okay first off its really good that you guys have a friendship.. that makes you closer ..(i know the guy i like we have a good friendship and im like yay!! but nyways this isnt about me its about you) well since you keep going back to liking him it means you have strong feelings for him. See if he flirts with you go near him and like touch his arm playfully or something. and if he doesnt move away it means he likes you!!! good news 4 you*** and like try to get to know his friends and yea if he likes you .. then he should have at least talked about you when he was with them..(guys tend to do that) Just be yourself and kinda give him subtle hints like say do u like anyone or ask him what kinda girls he likes..Oh and the thing to prove that he likes you is if you smile at him and like stare into his eyes for like 2 seconds.. if he returns the smile YAY!! and if he looks into your eyes trust me you'll get a happy feeling in your stomach.. (happy about everything)lol!!
hope i helped!!***!!**
** it'll work out for you**just believe**
XOXO
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Its situation like this that makes me what i am today. An Advicenator!! Ok it is as simple as this...just tell him. if he does the same thing to you then obviuosly there's something there. But if you wanna be on the the safe side just play out. Ask him questions like what do u want in a relationship? and then when the time is right tell him how you feel. If he's what he seems o be your friendship wouldn't be broken no matter what.
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SSounds like you have the opportunity to have the best of both worlds....a boyfriend and a best friend. I would like to see it go that way for you. You know the secret to excellent relationships are being good friends first because you learn who the person is, the good and the bad, you yourself start to adapt to his mood swings and his habits. Knowing all that you have the power to make a choice to date this guy who makes you feel like your on top of the world. if your into poetry, write him a poem to let him know what your feeling. if your feelings for him are as strong as you say they are, they(your feelings) are already being showed to him and if you guys are around his friends, I'm sure they're seeing them come out as well. First of all your trying to date this guy, not his friends...true their acceptance is very important to you, but who care, your not trying to impress them, your trying to win the heart of the man you like. So babygirl, go for it, write a poem, sing him a song, if you want, make a cd of love songs leading up to your feelings. If this guys is as smart as you think he is, he's gonna get the hint and let him do the rest. If all else fells, buy a new outfit, fix up your hair, and throw yourself at him.
good luck to you.
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well i think you should tell him i mean first ask him who he likes and stuff you never know he may even tell you he likes you first
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Dear should I,
Well, you seem to really like this guy. If he's funny, fun, make sure he's nice, and hott and you have a good time around him... well, that's always a good thing! Make sure you know his true colors before you go shining your guts out to him about this crush. Try to bring up a conversation with his friends, get to know them a bit. Whenever you think you're ready then just tell him. If he was truely as good as you think he is he won't let this little question/comment ruin your friendship and bond. Hope I helped!
Love to you,
Christine
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you should tell him how you feel
"a heart gets broken by words left unspoken"
tell him you like him, but tell him if he doesnt feel the same way, that you dont want things to be funny between you, and that you still want to be good friends. dont worry about trying to fit in with his other friends, just be yourself around em, if they cant except you, its their loss ;)
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-Nicole
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