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He Has a Girlfriend, Why Me then?!
I just met this cute guy at work (lifeguarding) 3 weeks ago. He has started to wrap his arms around my waist, pull my ponytail, save me from the frogs, and just plain old flirt with me. The problem?! He has a girlfriend. Better yet, girlfriend of 6 months. Im a good person and I dont feel its right for me to continue flirting with him if I know he has someone else. But he's not the type of guy to fool around with other girls, I dont know If I should continue to have feelings for him or just forget it because he's just using me, maybe he has feelings for me tho?! ahh help! thanx! xO
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Dont panic, and don't give up. If this guy is openly flirting with you, its a sure sign that he's interested in you. You don't know, maybe this thing with the girlfriend isn't all that. A woman is not gonna want a man that no one else wants. In short maybe he has a friend that's a girl and thats all to it. Answer this, have you seen this girlfriend of he's? Does he show off pics of him and her? If you answered no to either one of those questions, then he's far game.Sweetie, lifes too short for us not to go and get what we want out of it. I say go for him. You never know, he's probably feeling the same for you.
good luck to you.
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Just tell him that you dont want to pursue somethin if he is already takin. He has to chose you or his girl
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I don't understand "he's not the type of guy to fool around with other girls" That is percisely what he is doing! You are an 'other girl'!
Don't invest your feelings in a guy who is treating his current girlfriend so shabbily. Everytime he flatters you, he is insulting her. Do you really want to persue a guy who openly flirts with other girls while in a 6 month relationship?
Have some self respect and don't be 'the other girl'. Don't flirt with this selfish little boy anyore.
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Evidently he is the type to fool around with other girls! His poor girlfriend...Look for someone else because I do think he is probably using you. :)
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