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Now I like my best friend, and he's over me. What do I do?
Alright. So about 6 months ago I started talking to this guy. We'll say his name is " Kurt ". And at that time I was just getting over a break up from an 8th month relationship with " Wayne ".
Kurt had just broken up with a girl, " Ann " too. Kurt and I started hanging out every weekend, and I knew I liked him, but he was more of my best friend than anything. He knew me better than I knew myself, and would come get me at any hour in the morning if I was upset. I was the closest friend I had ever had. And I thought we'd be like that forever. After 3 months of hanging out, " Wayne " came back around. And I was definately not over him. So I got back together with him. I think it broke " Kurts " heart. After that, I felt me and Kurts relationship fading and we were drifting apart. And Kurts sister was always telling me that he missed me and he wanted to be with me. I knew he had liked me. Well, Wayne and I only dated a month. And after we broke up, I knew exactly who I needed to be with. But Ann had come back around. Kurt and I have messed around SINCE, and the sexual stuff we do, messes everything up every time and we've promised each other not to do anything again. But we don't talk anymore. And now he really likes Ann. We cant even look at each other. And the only time he calls is when he's drunk, and thats when all of his emotions come out. He tells me we'll keep talking, and he misses me. But then the next day its like we never talked. I dont know what to do. I miss him so much. I want what we had back. But more.
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it's possible that when he calls and his "emotions come out" it's just the alcohol speaking...a lot of times drunk people will tell everyone they talk to that they love them.
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Well, I wish I could say that life had a rewind button or that I could make someone like you but I can't. Look at it this way, you didn't mean to break his heart but you did have a thing going with kurt. Don't worry, I would've done the same thing and gone back with Wayne not realizing that Kurt liked me more than I thought. He's with Ann now and maybe after he's done with Ann you two can talk everything over. Or maybe you should just try to talk to him now. Don't make it emotional or long... just say a very brief, "I'm sorry Kurt... I never wanted to hurt you like that and I really hope that we can at least still be friends if not the best." One day you two will forget all of this and you'll just might have what you had before.
Love to you from Christine <33
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