I ahve ben going out with this girl for about 11 months and we both want to do things together but we never have time between school and sports we dont really get to see eachother and her parents are going out next weekend and she'll be home alone should we just do it then or should we wait and not have to take the chance of her parents coming home early and catching us what should we do????
Kels answered Sunday March 13 2005, 11:19 am: if you love eachother enough. but you said that you dont really do things together, and thats a big step. i just went to this thing yesterday, and it talked about all of the things that happen, like std's and clyhmida, and there were pictures of actual people with it, and its bad. and condoms or female condoms dont cover the whole area, so there is still a huge risk, and even if used properly, there is still a risk of her getting pregnate. and even with oral and fingering, and even feeling up, people got that stuff, and it was bad, let me tell you! it was a good learning experience, and i am so glad that i have the morals that I do.
I would have to say no. I believe in waiting until after marage.
if you do this with her and get her pregnate, you have to help her tell her parents, and help her if she gets thrown out of the house, and help here with the kid. And even if she doesnt get pregnate, and you two get cought, you have to help her. also, for most girls, its very emoational, and after that i would have to say that she would more than likely expect the relationship to never end.!
Black_out answered Saturday March 12 2005, 10:25 am: Hmmmm, risky risky. My advice wait...it will be worth it to cherish it if you wait longer. Though if you like risk and think you are willing to be caught...though chances slim...it all depends on if you want pressure or not.
Pressure sometimes adds to the feelings and makes it more fun, though it gives you more risk.
You should be able to know right from wrong, so the choice is yours, but I would go with wait.
~Blake [ Black_out's advice column | Ask Black_out A Question ]
inlovewifnoone answered Saturday March 12 2005, 5:46 am: I say do whatever you guys want, if you think you can getaway with it while her parents are out then do it then but she can always have her parens call on their way home and have her tell them she wants to know so she doesnt get scared or startled when they pull up and then youll know when they are on their way that you should leave...thats the best thing if you are gonna do anything that weekend well IM me or email me to let me know how it all goes...x0Sabina0x [ inlovewifnoone's advice column | Ask inlovewifnoone A Question ]
softballchick92 answered Friday March 11 2005, 11:05 pm: You should take your chances and just have sex with her to see how she truly feels about you. Or if you dont feel right about doing it then you should wait. If you feel right then just go with your heart and it'll never fail you.
ashLeycee14 answered Friday March 11 2005, 10:08 pm: Well if you think you's are both ready then go ahead. Cause if she invites you over it obviously means that she knows her parents aren't going to catch her and she wants to do stuff. xo-ashley [ ashLeycee14's advice column | Ask ashLeycee14 A Question ]
SiLenTxfAiRy answered Friday March 11 2005, 9:04 pm: wait. in time all things will happen. dont take the chance of getting caught it sucks. it doesnt really matter how long you two have been together - wait till the time is right. personally i dont think you two should be worrying about not beign able to do stuff because of school and sports. focus on them for now. wait for the summer when you both have more time to really think about whats going on. because once you do stuff you cant take it back. [ SiLenTxfAiRy's advice column | Ask SiLenTxfAiRy A Question ]
russianspy1234 answered Friday March 11 2005, 8:50 pm: well it would help if i knew how old you were, but ill assume youre of age to be having sex. you want your first time together to be special, mine wasnt and i still regret it. but you knwo what they say, the greater the risk the greater the reward, so i say go for it. [ russianspy1234's advice column | Ask russianspy1234 A Question ]
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