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my grandma wont let me have a boyfriend and all of these guys like me and i like one of them but i cant have a boyfriend but the thing is i have gone behind her back and dated like 3 guys (not at the same time) and she didnt find out so should i just go out with him or not and how would i convince her to say yes bc my mom did alot of bad things with guys when she was my age and my grandma thinks i will turn in to her but i wont so can you help i rate 5's

This lady let her 16 year old daughter to go everywhere and date guys since she was 16 and she decided to get married at the age of 16 to a 19 year old drug and alcohol addict. Now she is 17 years old, a dropout, she doesn't work, and well her husband wont let her talk to or see her mom. This girl regreted what she did and because she calls her mother secretly her abuses her. Maybe your grandma doesn't want something like that happening to you but I say you should go out with this guy but just don't do anything stupid that you will regret because he might abuse you if you make a stupid choice. Trust me I thought my mom hated me when she didn't let me get a boyfriend turns out she was just being a mom and looking out for me because she didnt want me to get hurt.

WeLL HoPe I HeLpED!

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Hey!
What are your favorite names for guys and girls??

Middle names are always appreciated too!!

:)

Thanks!
*(no worries, Im NOT having a kid anytime soon!)*

*-KeLs-*

i like the name casey for a girl or sally, rebeca, or maggie i think those names are really cute maybe u shud consider putting Rebecca Nicole or soemthing for guys i like the names brad, ben, aaron and chris ( my health teacher just had his babi boy and his name is conner aaron cook and i like it alot because of conner)Hope i helped

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Ok i always have a tough time talking to guyz i like.. i always get so shy and locked up... and the thing is i get all shaky and nervas. It's so emaressing! I no they probably feel the same way but it seems so hard... what should i do?

just be urself and from what i heard toadi from my best friend dat i like he says theres nothing better then being urself he says he hates girls who are fake and well he would know better then me since hes a guy and hes 18 years old trust me being urself works the best and im learning that 2 lieng to someone just to impress them is not worth it and believe me they sure dont get impressed the wai u think they do



JUST BE YOU!

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I ahve ben going out with this girl for about 11 months and we both want to do things together but we never have time between school and sports we dont really get to see eachother and her parents are going out next weekend and she'll be home alone should we just do it then or should we wait and not have to take the chance of her parents coming home early and catching us what should we do????

you should wait bcuz if youre parents and her parents catch you you two wont be able to see eahc other even longer so wait till the time is rite

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my friend is one of those people who is geneticly(frakishly)super skinney. no matter how much she eats or how lazy she gets she stays the same size. she is a great friend but sometimes she can be very inconsiderate of other people's feelings about their weight.she dosnt know how it feels to be fat or to feel fat. and she makes fun of people who look fat or chubby to her. this really makes me mad but being the quiet person i am i never say anything.im afraid if i confront her she will get upset with me because she dosnt understand.how do you think i should talk to her about it?

tell your little friend that theres nothing wrong with being fat just like theres nothing wrong with being skinny and if that doesnt work try making fun of her because shes so skinny and she will feel the pain and hurt people go through doesnt she know that because of people who make fun of others because of their size eating disorders and suicidals are considered as the only way to look better or not be hurt!

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i've had a "friend with benefits" for almost a year now. we didnt really have feelings for eachother but now i have feelings for him and im the one who got attached. i don't know if i should just continue being fwb or i should stop because of my feelings? Whats the best thing to do?

you should tell your friend that you have feelings for him im sure hell understand and you should probably stop doing the friends with benefits thing because it would attract you even more to him and then if you told him you liked him adn he rejected you you would get more hurt

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so we are jsut friends but my mom says i cant date until im 17 or even just like go somewhere with him last night he was like how many days i was like what hes like until you turn 17 i was like 50 some hes like do you think you will still wanna go tot he movies with me by then. so does he like me or just being friendly? give me lots of advice and i rate high

ooooo love! hehe ya he likes you if hes waiting for you to turn 17 so you guys can go to the movies oh and some other advice PROTECTION IS BEST! haha

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I have some friends and every time they move out of my class they dont talk to me but when i am in there class im there bff. Why dod they do this?

one thing right of the top of my head THEY ARE NOT YOUR BEST FRIENDS FOREVER hun! these little cheaters are just using you to pass that class!

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ok i have a problem i wrote this embarssing email to my friend and i told him stuff lik i lik him and really ambarissin stuff lik that and i wanted to kiss him i fell lik he doesnt lik and he read and he didnt care but he sent it to his step brother and his step brother sent it to everybody in my class and i said some stuff bout a couple of them and i didnt want them to no how much i acctually liked him and i dotn no wat to do i really wanna cry im so upset plzz help

wow that was not cool at all and i see no point in liking this guy if hes being such a jerk like this i dont know what u see in him but there isnt much u can do but do something mean back to him like cut all his hair off!

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Is it ok to date a second cousin, through marriage?

I've heard that if you date someone related to you the your kids are going to be messed up if you have kids but since he/she is your second cousin I don't think it matter but it would be kind of unusual because of trash talkers and your families.

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My friend is thinking of committing suicide what should I do?

I have a friends whos been trying to committ suicide since she was 12 and now she is 14 me and this other friends of ours would always call her after school and talk to her until it was time for her to go to sleep
and then in the morning we would call her just to make sure shes ok when she comes to school we make her laugh and make her feel loved and then its da same routine over and over again well one day she was talking about doing it and i told the concelour and she was pissed at me but not she is fine and alive and not mad at me she is glad that i did her the favor i hope i helped and maybe you should get her some chicken soup books because they help too make her feel loved!

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Hey does anyone know of any good websites where I can create my own free website.I want to beable to make it really cool like this one or www.pogo.com so I will get more visitors,and anyone who gives me an answer then I will rate you!!!

omg i know the perfect website go to www.matmice.com you can also check out my website its www.matmice.com/home/hawttbosanka all my friends say its cool even tho i just started like yesterday and u can also get really cool backrounds i just gotta figure out how but if i do ill keep u posted

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Is a disco party a good party for a 12-year-old turning 13? My little sister is thinking of doing that for her birthday, and I was wondering what everyone thought.

wow i wish u guys can throw my birthday partys that sounds really fun you should call me lol

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Alright heres the situation. I am in love with my boyfriend call him Brayden, I'm honestly in love with him. We dated for two months over the summer and then broke up. Today is our one month anniversry and I know that I love him. We live a state or two away from each other but we can't deny our love for each other. I just went to a new high school becuase i moved away from my old one and I met my friend, lets call him Josh. Well me and Josh have gotten really close we're not best friends but we know almost everythign about each other. He's the first person I see when I go into school and I find my heart begin to race as I think about seeing him. He's ussually the last thing I think about at night and the first when I awake. He's the only one I really talk to at my school becuase I drifted from my other friends and he jsut got over this one girl he liked. I helped him get through it telling him that if she doesn't see what a great guy he is and how amazing he is then its her loss and he deserves way better. I have been there for him though all his problems and vice versa. During the 4 months I didn't date Brayden I was in deep deep like with Josh then i stopped liking him when Brayden asked me out again becuase I was still in love with Brayden. I know its really confusing but I love Brayden but I deeply like Josh. Brayden's a state or two away and Josh is right there in my school. What should I do? .... ((Josh doens't like me, He goes for the skinny preppy girls and im a bit on the heavy side, but not real big and i'm a bit punkish ... 15/f))

im going to try to be nice...ok..here goes...sue me if i dont be nice...ewwww punk!...ew you!...oops i guess i wasnt being nice dude your like in love with two guys did you tell either of them oh my god if you tell them they might kill you for sure haha! DIE!

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A girl in my group of friends who i HATE is moving ..all my friends are like crying but i cant wait till she moves -is this wrong of me? Im kind of confused and its hard to keep it from my friend but i know if i told them i was happy theyd think i was a bitch ..what do i do??

okay im confused too now if you hate her...why is she in your "group?" and its totally ok to hate her but dont tell your friends because then they will hate you and that wont be ok just okay along until she moves and dont think if you tell your best friend he/she will understand haha

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My mother was crying about something with my family and I gave her a hug and she got green eyeliner and black mascara all over my new velour sweatshirt. How can I get it out it's my favorite sweatshirt? I will rate 5's.

you...you sick discusting no good daughter go to hell you!

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i have always been the girl to get her period REALLY heavy, like changing a super tampon every 2 hours and ive always been on schedual to the day! but this time i was 2 WEEKS late AND i cant even fill the littlest tampon. is this normal? please dont reply by saying its disgusting b/c i really need help! i rate good advice!

this is normal bcuz u lost so much blood and den u have hardly any to loose haha jk ya its normal happens to me 2

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Okay my little sister asbolutely refuses to go to school she wants to drop out thing is shes not 16 is there anyway she can drop out before shes 16? My parents and I have tryed everything even bribing her to go to school and it doesnt work. So is there anyway she can drop out before shes 16? If so please explain in details. Im really worried for my sister and its hurting my parents bad because they dont want to get in trouble. Thanks!

i dont think she can drop out if shes not 16 bcuz my friend had to wait till she was 16 to drop out even tho her parents and my mom and a whole bunch of other friends tried to convince her not to drop out and they even cried beside her and she still made a really stupid choice you should show your sister what would happen to her is she really dropped out like get a picture of some old lazy on the streets and get like things that would be bad if she dropped out(no boys like dropout old ladys with rats pickin at her toes everytime she drops a crumb of bread or something) haha that sounded funny well if your sister likes guys shes not going to egt a guy if she has no job when she gets older and shes not going to be able to watch tv have friends go to the movies shop at the mall get any clothes and so on...your sister is going to make a really stupid choice if she drops out and shes going to realize it when shes workin at mcdonalds or some fast food place

P.S.sorri its so long

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What do you guys think of a 18-year-old(f) dating a 24-year-old(m). And don't give any of that "age doesn't matter crap" bcasue it does. What do yall think of the maturity levels?

The biggest problem I see... The 18-year-old is still a freshman in college and the 24-year-old graduated 2 years ago.

wow...geez 6 years apart im so amazed...may i remind you that 2 people that love each other dont care about how old they are...age is just a number like 7(im not seven) but the point is IT DOESNT MATTER!

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i have mostly guy friends, im crushing on one of them. but im afraid to ask them out. i dont know if they like me. were around each other everyday, and just hanging out but i cant tell. he aint the flirty type. what do i do? i dont think i can ask him out cause i might just be afraid of rejection. Help me please. Id like male and females point of veiws.
thnk you

I have the same problem except when i asked my best guy friend out he rejected me i was hurt but i was glad he did reject me because if we went out and broke up we would probably not be as good of friends as we are now we call each other bro and sis because he sticks up for me and i love him alot i dont have a crush on him anymore because he is getting married soon and his gf is great i hope i helped ya out at least a liddo but if u do go out wid him dis mite ruin your friendship after the break up ( my best friend is 18 and im 13)

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