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Loving him and liking him
Alright heres the situation. I am in love with my boyfriend call him Brayden, I'm honestly in love with him. We dated for two months over the summer and then broke up. Today is our one month anniversry and I know that I love him. We live a state or two away from each other but we can't deny our love for each other. I just went to a new high school becuase i moved away from my old one and I met my friend, lets call him Josh. Well me and Josh have gotten really close we're not best friends but we know almost everythign about each other. He's the first person I see when I go into school and I find my heart begin to race as I think about seeing him. He's ussually the last thing I think about at night and the first when I awake. He's the only one I really talk to at my school becuase I drifted from my other friends and he jsut got over this one girl he liked. I helped him get through it telling him that if she doesn't see what a great guy he is and how amazing he is then its her loss and he deserves way better. I have been there for him though all his problems and vice versa. During the 4 months I didn't date Brayden I was in deep deep like with Josh then i stopped liking him when Brayden asked me out again becuase I was still in love with Brayden. I know its really confusing but I love Brayden but I deeply like Josh. Brayden's a state or two away and Josh is right there in my school. What should I do? .... ((Josh doens't like me, He goes for the skinny preppy girls and im a bit on the heavy side, but not real big and i'm a bit punkish ... 15/f))
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Date whoever you feel is best for you. If I were you I would go for Brayden because you two seem to know a lot about each other and that is what makes a good relationship. Be a good friend to Josh and get to know him better.
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Well, if Josh doesn't like you....and I'm not really convinced of that by your letter, There shouldn't be much of a decision here.I would write and keep in touch with B...He's really to far away to do you much good.He can't go to dances or anything with you.Josh is close by.Try being friends with Josh. That is the first step.If your appearance doesn't suit him you could always change that...I wouldn't though he should like you for yourself.Good luck
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This isn't the movies. The guy that doesn't love you doesn't suddenly realise he does love you when he gets hit on the head by a football. Josh isn't into you, Brayden is. What an earth are you confused about? By the way, what kind of gay name is Brayden?
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Stay with Brayden. You love him and he loves you. I think that you were just thinking about Josh when you and Brayden weren't dating, so there would be a guy in your life. I think you and Josh should just be friends. Stick with Brayden.
Hope I helped!
Ke
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im going to try to be nice...ok..here goes...sue me if i dont be nice...ewwww punk!...ew you!...oops i guess i wasnt being nice dude your like in love with two guys did you tell either of them oh my god if you tell them they might kill you for sure haha! DIE!
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this question is one of the four horsemen of the apocalypse; you bore me. go with your gut feeling, because your heart is clearly not beating correctly, see a doctor.
-hitler
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well obviously you haven't got a chance in hell with josh so get over him. brayden deserves better than a punk that thinks of dumping him for another guy. if you think about josh so much that you dont want to be with brayden, dump brayden and when you ask josh out, he will reject you and you will be a loner. i think you get my point. even if i am blunt. stay with brayden and love him with ALL your heart. if you cant do that and you keep getting romantic feelings for other guys, leave him. dont break his heart by stringing him along.
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Well youve made it clear that you arent going to have a chance with Josh so i guess dont break up with Brayden cause that probably wouldnt be worth it.. but really i have to say something why are you with somebody who lives so far away i mean you cant exactly see eachother or anything.. but i think that if you might have a chance with Josh you should really go for it cause he lives right by you and seems like a real sweet heart..much luv dez x0x0
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